It seems like it s been a long time since I ve said what my ideals are

It's been a long time since we said what our ideals are, in fact, when we grow up. Our influence is farther than we have gone.

When we grow up, each of us faces reality, so the ideal is very plump and the reality is very skinny.

Now you are facing a feeling that you should let go but can't let go, an emotion that you can't refuse but can't accept, that's a relationship for you.

This is an inevitable stage in the relationship, and there is no need to worry too much. However, it is important to note that being too proactive in a relationship can often lead to being forced into a passive position.

Quite simply, it's what you want to do in this life. What you have done in the past and what you are doing now is what you want to do and do it to the best of your ability. Thinking about it in the big picture, you may want to become a scientist and contribute to the take-off of the motherland's science and technology, or you want to become a people's teacher and serve the country in order to train more students, etc.

From a small point of view, work and employment, marriage between men and women, maintaining family harmony, respecting the old and loving the young, working hard to earn money, bringing more happiness to the family, and so on. These are all subordinate to the direction of personal ideal struggle. Personal ideals are often longed for and decided upon since childhood, but in order to realize the true ideals, there will be deviations and even helplessness.

But it doesn't matter, the real ideal has not been realized, and it cannot stop the pace of your life, three hundred and sixty lines, there are ideals in the line, you can't hold a gun, you can take a pickaxe, you can't be a scientist, you can be a doer, in short, the ideal doesn't matter if it's really not true, you have a goal in mind, as long as you are willing to climb!

Because there is no pursuit of life and no goal, they have forgotten what their ideals are.

The ideal does not need to be spoken, as long as you have this idea, and then work towards this goal, if you can't do it, it will be even more embarrassing. So it's better to improve yourself silently.

It seems that it has been a long time since I have said what my ideal is, and I can often advance what my ideal is when I was young, but since I grew up and got married, it seems that such a thing has never been mentioned again.

I haven't said what my ideal is for a long time, which means that I have slowly become accustomed to my current life, and I may have realistic pressures or my own life trajectory. So I didn't think about my ideals in particular.

Nine years ago, in a freshman class, an American teacher asked students to talk about their dreams.

For a long time, no one spoke, the teacher was a little embarrassed, and I was still a more energetic person at that time, raising my hand to speak. I just want to be an author, and I hope that one day I will be able to freely spread culture in Chinese and English. The teacher smiled and gave him an approving look.

Years have passed, and I have come to rest with my ideals. In the end, I didn't get the culture across, I didn't become an author, I didn't even write an article.

Whenever I recall this incident, sometimes I tell myself, forget it, I was young at the time, just talking, why take it seriously. Sometimes I will say, I am not strong enough in my heart, and I am often full of all kinds of confusion and pain, I am not suitable to be an author, right, what can I bring to others? Sometimes I think, maybe, writing can help me?

But, who knows?!

After all, the ideological consciousness is too shallow, the utilitarianism is too heavy, and the result is thought of before it starts. Before I even tried it, I had already figured out a way out.

I can't, I can't, I can't.

What if I get found out by my family, what if I get found out by my parents, what if I get found out by my friends and colleagues?

After all, Uchiga Gao Xiangxin's sense of privacy is too strong, and his desire for self-protection is too strong. My heart is a small city. Closed himself, but also shielded others.

After lingering for a long time, I quietly wrote a little something. After deleting and modifying it, I finally sent it, and then after a few days, I looked back at what I wrote again, and I felt that it was out of place, and it was difficult to get into the hall of elegance, why dirty the eyes of many netizens? Fortunately, there were not many people who watched it, so I deleted it again.

The Nianpai closed the gates of the city, and only looked at their own city, watching what had happened here.

Look, don't talk about ideals, just such a small matter of facing yourself, so tangled and hesitant to move forward. When did the bold girl become like this?!

There are three things that have encouraged me lately. First, one of my classmates who had a good relationship with him went to graduate school after working for a few years. This courage, when I knew it, gave me too much shock and admiration; In addition, my classmates who are studying for a Ph.D. have also begun to graduate and work one after another, looking at the ** messages they sent, I even feel that their daily life is the literature and art I want to aspire to, what a wanton flying youth and memories this must be; The third brought to me, I see many people here, working hard, persevering, and accumulating bit by bit.

Yes, there are so many people here, when did I give up on my ideals, even trying?

Summary. People are running for themselves or others.

People are running for themselves or others.

People are running for themselves or others.

If a person is still the same for more than a year, is it still interesting?

There is no one who can follow his own plan to achieve it, and even if there is, there will be discrepancies. But that's where the joy of life lies, and the most important thing we need to do is to feel the good thing. It's not the same, it's not yet.

What most of us lack most of us is waiting. Encourage him to change while waiting. Only then did I stop and ask myself if I was making the right choice.

The outcome of waiting for conversion is good or bad.

The knot of transformation can not be generalized, if you want him to become what you want to be like in the Sui faction, then you still need your own guidance, the boy's temperament is difficult to change, but it is not impossible to change.

It's easy to make a relationship, but it's hard to persevere.

I've been waiting for so long, so why waste all my efforts.

I'm sure you'll get better.

Summary. When we do something, we always think in the direction of the good, and we never evaluate the bad. It often backfires, doing business will think, we make more money in a month, how much we can collect for doing projects, and we will think, ** more than 10,000 daily visits, how much can I earn.

It's as if we think less about the bad side. Therefore, at this stage, you can't be too idealistic, you have to do it step by step, and when the time comes, you don't need to say it, everything you want is here!

When we do something, we will think in the direction of the bad and the good, and we never evaluate the bad. We often think that we make more money in a month, how much we can collect for projects, and we will think about how much I can earn if we have more than 10,000 daily visits. It's as if we think less about the bad side.

Therefore, at this stage, you can't be too idealistic, you have to step by step to do a solid branch hall, and when the time comes, you don't need to say, everything you want is here!

Hello dear kiss, it's Shen Feng to help you, you have to send out the conditions to help see where the trembling group helps, you can find some special mutual aid groups, but don't get too hopeful, how to say, if you are a student, you can let Tongqi Xiaotangxue help you.

Uncle Broccoli.

Are our ideals still there? Is it still the same yearning and ideal as before? It is estimated that many things that people have done in the past have changed and changed with the passage of time and age.

We slowly learn to be good, but no matter how boring life is, set a goal that we can achieve, and move in that direction!

I want to get up at half past six every day, go to exercise and study, code more than 100,000 words in a year, and go to a city I want to go to for a few days, what is your short-term goal? With the passage of time, we have gradually smoothed out our edges and corners, as well as our ideals and dreams. There are not many people in the small county town where I am located, if I live here for a long time, work in this side, most of them work for a few years, become the face of acquaintances, the small county town is not big, but it is "all the organs", the development of tourism in recent years, it is to make this small county become rich and colorful, but working here, most of them live too comfortably in life, whether it is life or career will not have a big change will not have too many surprises, just plain.

Life can't be too impatient, and you can't always feel like you are supporting yourself like you are now. I seem to have gradually become accustomed to such a system of life, and I am afraid that if I continue to do nothing like this, I will never be able to turn over. I like to change a recent sentence on the Internet: "It doesn't matter if you are a late bloomer, you will never reach the top of the mountain, but you must be happy and sincere." ”

Ideals are actually a product of a certain time, which means that children have many ideals in their growth:

At first, I thought about being a scientist, but after a while, I felt that it was more difficult to be a scientist, and I thought about being an athlete, and after a while, I felt that I was tired from sports, so I didn't want to be an athlete, and I thought it was better to be a policeman. After some time, I felt that the police were dangerous, but I still thought it was better to be a teacher.

Therefore, it is difficult for today's ideals to become the original ideals, and there must be people who have always adhered to the original ideals, but there are few. Only if we have established an ideal, of course, we must continue to work hard to achieve it. Especially for us adults, if we want to have ideals, the original ideals must be decided after careful consideration of what is our own ideals and what we want, then the next thing is to adhere to the original ideals and continue to work hard.

Of course, the original ideal is indeed difficult and unattainable after some time of hard work and practice, so after paying a lot, think about it carefully, whether to persist or give up? If you have argued, give up, or stick to your original ideals? You have to make a decision.

Now mentioning this word, I am a little dazed because I feel that I have deviated from my ideals. I still remember when I was in junior high school, I swore to stand on the podium and said loudly to the class and teachers that my ideal is to be an excellent people's teacher when I grow up, and I will be patient with naughty children, prepare for classes well, and let all my classmates be admitted to their ideal universities.

I've always wanted to be a teacher since I was a kid, but since then, I've slowly drifted off track. Maybe I changed my mind because of my family when I applied for the volunteer, or maybe I wanted to get a higher salary because of my interests after graduation. Maybe I thought the exam was too cumbersome, but in the end I gave up on my dreams.

Now engaged in personnel work, the ideal has become a dream, the dream is even more unrealizable, although sometimes I still yearn for standing on the podium, everyone persuaded me that if I really like to be a teacher, then go hard, anyway, my life, hard work may be rewarded. But how can it be so easy, I just learned all the human resources work and didn't let me learn anything else, and I don't want to delay this time.

A good friend of mine, whose dream is to go to Hawaii once, her family conditions are very ordinary, it is indeed a big dream for her, at that time she was not even willing to go to Hawaii, how can she be willing to go to Hawaii. To our surprise, just a few days ago, she posted her ** in Hawaii, saying that she had saved money for two years and finally fulfilled her dream. We really envy her, in fact, it is not difficult for us to go once, but who wants to spend their hard-earned money to have fun.

I think it's probably because you haven't found what you're interested in, you can read more books, all kinds of miscellaneous books, and you can find your interests and dreams while enriching your knowledge.

I never dreamed of it before, but I like to read books, read everything, literature, technology, journalism, and the military. There were many kinds, and later I found my dreams and interests in a military magazine.

Even if you can't find it, it's interesting to read more books. In fact, I am still reading these books, and the more I read, the more I realize the insignificance of human beings and the vastness of the world.

I believe that the essence of human life is to constantly explore and question. The so-called dream is a way for people to understand the world.

So there's nothing more fun than reading, learning, and exploring.

Find your dream of learning about the world through it!

My dream is to be a cartoonist, and my dream is to be a teacher.

Ideals can be accomplished. The first thing you need to do is to find your interests, your hobbies, and see if you can become a career that corresponds to your hobbies in the future. If you can, you can develop into an ideal.

Dreams are impossible to accomplish, you want to find your dreams, it's actually very simple, except for ideals, you want to be all the things.

The reason why you can't find your dreams and ideals may be because you are still confused about the future. Seek adoption.