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As self-consciousness awakens, one should feel the joy of hard work and courage。But don't be too aggressive, people have selfish hearts, and you have too; Everyone has shortcomings, and so do you. Be forgiving and forgiving.
Follow other people's ideas and let others evaluate yourself, no matter how hard you try, you are passive. Therefore, we should strive to be an evaluator, rather than doing things sincerely and letting others be evaluators. In this society, whoever does things seriously by himself is to be an evaluator.
For people who want to be evaluators and don't speak well, they can make a little bad and use every move to make him feel that he is not a qualified evaluator. Don't be too honest. Because he saw your honest character, he was unscrupulous, and he didn't dare to change his stubble, he definitely changed another face.
In kindness, there should be shrewdness to protect, not to flaunt kindness.
Overcome the fear and insecurity caused by other people's evaluations, rather than following this fearStrive to be 100% good for everyone.
Therefore, in this society, we strive to be an evaluator, rather than working hard to make the evaluators satisfied. That is, to compete for the right to speak, and small talk is very important, that is, to fight for a lot of directional things. This change is in thinking, from passively doing things to strive for the good evaluation of others to equal communication and games.
Don't be paranoid to the point of being abandoned by the times.
It is clearly understood that it should be a person who comes to a conclusion from the heart through example analysis and earnestness.
I'm not doing well, I'm having weaknesses, how my weaknesses have been exposed, blah blah blah。Only if you do the above requirements can you move on to what it means, otherwise what it means has nothing to do with this weakness, right?
A clear understanding of one's weaknesses is a prerequisite for progress. It is also an inevitable stage of growthAfter several math exams, the results were very unsatisfactory, and I realized that I was not good at math, so I began to prepare for bad math. After falling out of love, I became gloomy, regretted my beginning, realized my faults and weaknesses, and made up my mind to fall in love next time.
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Yes, it is an inevitable stage of a person's growth.
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I think yes, if you want to grow, you have to start awakening from the subconscious.
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I think yes, people are constantly improving.
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Everyone has their own time zone, and don't worry too much about these things.
Life is the best university ever! When I was a child, my family was very poor and poor, I redoubled my efforts and studied well, but at school, everyone looked down on me and didn't like to play with me. Later, the Chinese teacher asked us to hand in a diary every day, and sometimes I would write that my family was very miserable and my heart was very tired, and the teacher once said to me after my diary"Life is the best university ever! ", and together with my homeroom teacher, slowly guide me and help me. >>>More
I think the manifestation of growth is that you no longer need your parents to give you living expenses, and you no longer need your parents to make decisions for you, you no longer need your parents to worry about your safety, and you no longer need your parents to worry about your work. <>
This can be believed by Marx, social existence determines social consciousness, and social consciousness reacts on social existence. Different people live in different environments, so it can be said that there are no exactly the same people or leaves in the world.
What does that mean, to put it bluntly.
Open your eyes and breathe.
Person: Pig Pigeon Liang - Xiucai Level 2 11-9 14:05 Eyes open: >>>More