How can I manage my classmates who love to go against me?

I'm not a class cadre, so let's talk about the good class cadre in my mind! First of all, as a class cadre, you should have a certain ability, don't be false, you have to make a class cadre, of course, the most important point is not to be arrogant, you can't think that you are a class cadre, you can't fake public and private, you must have a good relationship with your classmates in private, and let them have enough trust in you! For those who don't listen to you, you can let them find your good, you can help them silently in private, care about them, so that they will naturally treat you as a friend, since you are a friend, then of course in terms of management will give you some face!

First of all, you must have the ability to manage others, so that others can obey you, and secondly, you must smile at people as you said upstairs!! In this way, everyone will think that you are a very nice and lovely person!!

First of all, you have to convince others. That is excellent grades, strong ability, and good popularity. This is important.

So that others will obey you. Don't use forceful tactics, they will be more against you, you think about it, you are all the same age, you have no right to teach others. Only kind reminders, pay more attention to the classmates around you.

Everyone likes you, and no one can bear to go against you.

What you do is something that makes them feel learnable in the first place.

Class cadres should play a leading role.

Be fair in everything you do, without the slightest favoritism.

The power of the masses is great, you must know how to mobilize the masses and let others know that you are right.

Now the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds, but for what kind of birds, what kind of methods, the same for people, honest and obedient just say a few words, and if you are not honest, then I'm sorry, what should be done.

None of the above are good ideas, first of all, your starting point is wrong, although you are a class leader, but you are the same as them, you are students, they will not obey you to take care of him, so you have to try to have a good relationship with them...

When they sneer in front of you, smile and be sincere: Thank you for giving me advice, I will definitely improve. "That's the best way to impress people. Who would refuse to smile?

The first thing to see is why you are arguing.

You're a junior high school student, right? It's okay to grow up and get better. Don't pay too much attention to him. One word "forbearance".

I'll send you a few words of advice that you can use later.

Remember the three "respects": respect for yourself; Respect for others; Maintain dignity and take responsibility for your actions.

When you quarrel with someone close to you, try to talk about things and don't pull out those things that are old sesame seeds and rotten grains.

Whether that classmate is male or female, you can warn him, or ignore him, don't talk to him, ignore him.

Further difficulties are abounded, take a step back and open the sky.

Young people are emotional!

Forgive you and your ring finger You make me believe that there is such a thing as a feeling, ah, nostalgia is too extravagant, I have to envy who is young and ignorant.

-for-tat is a matter of two people, and if there is one person right, it is not called-for-tat. So first of all, you have to stop going against him first, and after a long time, he will feel bored, because you don't care about how he goes against you, and you don't care about him, and after a long time, he will feel it, and you won't fight each other.

Don't get angry when he is sarcastic about you, pretend not to care, he will definitely find it boring and won't mess with you. Or you ask him why he is against you.

Just tell him, I don't hate you for what I like to eat. , I don't know how to ask again, do you adopt.

There are generally some people who are dissatisfied with the class cadres. The first reason is that others are jealous, and the second reason is that things are not handled properly. I think that the cadres on duty should be fair, just and open, even if some students don't understand Chunxiang for the time being, they will understand Huai Leak after all.

You should chat with your classmates more often, and don't put on a "showcase". It's best to be a "civilian".

I'm also the class leader! ~

It's really hard to be a class president, you have to learn to be humorous, mingle with your classmates more, don't be too serious, too old-fashioned will be left out in the cold.

If a classmate makes a mistake, you can walk up to him and remind him to use the tone of a friend.

You can smile and don't be so reserved.

If you want to educate others, for example, "You seem to be laughing a lot lately, heh! You hear laughter a lot!

But have you noticed?,It's not good.,The teacher seems to be eyeing you.,How much should you pay attention to?,Ah? You can control your emotions properly and don't go overboard! Scold! ~

I'm also a junior high school student, and I used to be the class president, but now I don't attend.

I've had your troubles before!

It is recommended that you discuss it with your teacher. Tell the teacher about the situation of your classmates after each self-study class.

For those students who are not easy to manage, let the teacher teach them!

If they are really excessive, they can criticize them in person or write them by name.

But you must have a good relationship with them after class, or it won't be bad

Ah, I feel the same way! Now I don't know how to manage the affairs of the class, and the teacher always says that me, I think prestige is still more important, first of all, everyone admires you with good academic performance, and then listens to you, and then the classmates have mistakes and understand them calmly, I hate the class cadres who get angry at every turn! But my grades are always dropping, and I can't help that.

Do the current squad leaders have such troubles?

Fortunately, I'm not, because I'm a member of the brigade and the secretary of the league, and I'm still a grade prefect, so I don't participate much in the class. However, the head teacher always finds fault with me, and I am angry

Tell those people well, they don't listen, and turning a blind eye is a strong point. I see, it's all in the hands of the class teacher, and the class is in charge of him, and you're just an assistant, as a child, how do you manage people your age? So leave it to the class teacher, the adult who should be in charge of the class!

Also, in other ways, just do your part!

In fact, it's good to be your most authentic self. It's hard to be a cadre, especially the cadres in junior high school, everyone seems to be a little rebellious and difficult to manage. If you are too civilian, you will not be able to establish prestige, and your classmates will like you, but they may not necessarily listen to you, and the teacher will think that you are not effective and courageous; On the contrary, if you are too powerful, your classmates will have a rebellious mentality, thinking that you are the teacher's follower and eyeliner.

When I was the class president in junior high school, I was always fierce, but not all the time. Because my personality is like this, I don't care about any image, I am a little fierce when I do business, and I fight with my classmates at other times. I actually didn't want to be a cadre at all, and one year I lost the cadre election, but I was still happy, and the boys who had always been against me were happy.

But a year later, they chose me again, because they felt that the new cadres were not very capable, and although I was fierce, I did a lot for the class, and I somehow got better. Therefore, I think that as long as you have a clear conscience as a cadre, you can't achieve the point where everyone is satisfied, I believe that your efforts will always be seen by others, so that's enough!

Treat people with sincerity, this is the most effective way.

Who can teach me?