My mom always says that men don t have a good thing, stay away from men, and have more contact with

I think you still have a correct outlook on life, in fact, you also know this, although your mother instilled these incorrect ideas and concepts in you like this, she is using love in the wrong place, and you should establish your own correct ideas, after all, the future life is your own, so you still have your own dominant concept.

Mom is also educating you, maybe the method of education is different, she is afraid that you will trust others too easily, and she is afraid that you will suffer, which is also kind.

Such a statement is extreme. Human nature is not so good, but it is not too ugly. If there was no man like Dad, how could there be a person like you. You can't generalize because of choking!

Talk to your mom and tell her how you feel. Sometimes, parents blindly love their children and ignore their children's feelings. Tell your mom what you want to say, even if mom might interrupt you, you have to keep saying it all.

Let's talk about your age first, if you are now in junior high school and high school, the age of studying, then you had better listen to your mother's advice, because at this age and boys for a long time are easy to have the idea and opportunity to fall in love, which has a great impact on your learning during this time, if you are in college now, then there is no need to listen to your mother's words, because college is the basic stage of entering society, you should exercise more experience in getting along with people, and it is also the age of falling in love, after all, you are already an adult, You have to plan more for your future love career, and you can't close yourself in a small circle, hopefully.

It's not normal, you can't go on like this forever, and when it's time to fall in love, you have to contact a man.

Your mother will talk about it, you just have to listen to it. You're an adult, and your life is in your own hands.

You can't change her mind, you just don't do what she says.

Maybe you're in adolescence now, and she's afraid that you'll suffer, but when you're old, you'll know.

It's okay to listen to your mother, but you can't listen to everything, and some feelings need to be experienced by yourself! Men are all cheap, but not all, so you still have to touch, and you will be happy when you meet a good man!

Mom may have been wronged or deceived when she was young, so she was disgusted in her heart and thought that men were unreliable, at this time you have to prove it to her, think that all men are not as bad as she imagined, and don't want a mouse to spoil the pot soup.

I don't know how old you are, but if you have the ability to communicate with your mother calmly, you should talk to her first. Why do you talk to other men, is it that you have no relationship with your father anymore In short, the purpose is not to speculate wildly, and first find out what is going on Mom's attitude The approach must be caused by some changes in my heart Don't blame anyone Because the elders don't like to be blamed by the juniors.

There is also a man in my mother's mobile phone, who always sends some very ambiguous messages, and I saw today that he actually called my mother baby!! Then I just blocked him.

Mom must be a person with an extraordinarily introverted personality, and she always says a few words when she sees acquaintances. If you don't understand the things of adults, don't make random guesses, when you grow up, everything will be understood.

It's better to talk to grandma about mom, don't tell dad, it will only increase their conflict.

Obviously, your mom already has an outside heart. The affairs of the fathers should be handled by themselves. As a child, your involvement will only exacerbate the conflict, worsen the environment, and cause chaos in the home, but you can kindly remind or hint at it.

This shouldn't be in your hands, you should let your father and mother talk about it and ask what the situation is? You can also let the people in your grandmother's family persuade you from the side, you can only wait and see what happens, and you can also be an assistant to your father.

How old is your mother? How old are you? This matter is really tangled, if you say that your mother's face can't be hanged, it will affect the relationship between you, not to mention that your father is too wronged, let's try to talk to your mother cryptically first, just say that you can't chat with your uncle on the Internet every day, I'm old, there is no other way.

It depends on how old you are, because the pad gave me that advice for you to let your parents take care of you can suggest.

Is your mom single? If not, it's a bit out of place. Where does that put your dad?

If possible, you can persuade your mother, don't go too far, otherwise you say how you behave, depending on what your mother says, maybe it's not what you think? You'd better be strategic, because you're not sure about it, you say?

Adults and children should not be in charge of it. But you can also tell your father quietly.

Don't be suspicious, mom has a mom's life, she's happy...

This problem can only be solved by your dad.

I don't know how old you are, but if you have the ability to communicate calmly with your mother, you should talk to her first. Why do you talk to other men, is there no relationship with your father anymore or something, in short, the purpose is not to speculate first, first figure out what's going on, Mom's approach must be caused by some changes in her heart, don't blame her, find out the reason, solve the problem, your mother should retract her heart.

Love is like drinking tea, all you pour out is tea, and all you drink is water, but you never admit that you drink boiled water, but you always brag about how precious the tea you drink. .

Let's have a good chat and see how we can mediate.

Actually, I think.

Repeat the phrase "men don't make a good thing".

Bai said it too absolutely. There are scum male du, but not all of them are like this. dao

It's not that there are no good men, like Huang Lei! can cook, and knows how to love his daughter-in-law. People who say that "men don't have a good thing" probably mean that the men they meet are all scum!

It could also be a momentary remark. The probability of being angry for a while is a little greater, after all, people are not sages, who can do no wrong. Boyfriend husband, if you provoke yourself, it is very likely that you will say such a sentence.

Either way, we still have to believe that there are good men. I hope that he in our life is not only a good man, but also a good husband and father.

Actually, I also want to say that women don't have a good thing, compared to me, women are happier.

Everyone has a different personality and disagrees with this sentence, it's too absolute. It can only be said that the man who suits him is the best.

I don't agree with it, I think it's too generalized.

Most people will think so about this question, put the girl's sentence: you are.

Good man, in fact, you are a good man who is difficult to obtain, in fact, you are the best person I have ever met. Behind these words, most people will have the following, but they don't express it, "But I am really not suitable for you." Implicit words that make many sincere men sad.

I don't know where you've got, but that's just the general public's opinion, and I can't generalize. Right?!

This sentence of a girl may have been said after thinking about it, then you have to pay attention to whether you love her in your way, care about her, and feel good to her, and she will reply to you equally. Actually, it's not, girls nowadays pay a lot of attention to feelings, and if you don't feel good, no matter how good you are to her, she still won't accept you. You may be the best person to marry, but you certainly not the Prince Charming in her heart.

So you have to come back with a correct mentality, since you like it, you have to express it, tell her that you like her, and forget it if you don't have a chance. Feelings, I think about it sullenly, I don't express it, I think one of her eyes is a hint, I think one of her actions is for you to see....Don't take it personally! The better I feel about myself, the greater the disappointment.

Set up a good attitude, take the initiative, fail repeatedly, work hard, be self-motivated, and you will get what you want....

The girl said this sentence and it was possible that she blurted it out, don't pay too much attention to it, make a joke of her, and tell her that day: You are a good girl!

It's just a casual complaint......

Tell you that if you don't like him barely together, you'll get divorced.

How old are you? If you don't like it, don't go!

If you don't meet the right person, don't worry, your mother told you to like a man, then you use an excuse to stuff it over.

Just because you didn't do anything to her, say you're not a good thing, hurry up and take her.

Maybe it's the other way around, hehe......

If you are far away from him, what else can you do, everyone has said that his mother said that in people's hearts, his mother is the most important, and we have to stand aside, so it is absolutely right to stay away from him.

Obviously, this is a mom Bao man, Ma Bao man let me here, I don't dare to provoke it, I get married and my life is in the hands of other people's mothers, we dare to put our lives in the hands of other people's mothers, so let's stay away from him to save our lives.

The characteristics of Ma Bao Man are, what my mother said, my mother thinks, my mother thinks, everything is based on my mother's opinion, so such a boy, he may be very warm, or he may be very good, but even so, I think you should try not to provoke, because his warmth is warm to his mother after giving you, his good is good for your mother after you give it to you, he will do everything to his mother, if you are with him in the future, even what to eat, it may be his mother who has the final say, if you are married, That's even more painful.

Because Ma Baonan's mother is a woman with a strong desire to control, she naturally does not want her baby son to leave her to live, so she will definitely live with you, of course, if you are tough and unwilling to live with her, but she will also affect your life.

And you have a conflict with his mother, you don't expect him to be able to protect you and help you, because in his heart, his mother is the most important person, and everything his mother says is right, you have to listen to it like him, and do it, that is to say, you are not married to a man, but directly to be a maid for other people's mothers.

Is this kind of life what you want, I believe that few girls can endure it, so will such a man change for you, maybe, but it will not change to what you really like, because he has lived for twenty or thirty years, and it has always been like this, how can he easily change his attitude towards his mother for a girl.

This is probably a mom boy, I should stay away from him, because I don't like people who are immature and don't have the ability to think independently.

I will resolutely part with him. Such a mom boy has no judgment ability to do things, and if he lives with such a person, he will not be happy for the rest of his life.

I met a person who often said what my mother said, such a person is a typical mom treasure man, such a man is an immature man, in his heart. Or think of yourself as a little man. I would definitely stop dating him.

Then I would tell such a man that what he said actually made sense, but it could easily seem that he was a mother-in-law.

I would choose to leave him because I couldn't be his mom, and I couldn't hold a high position in his heart.

You should think about it calmly, it is very inappropriate and immoral for you to do this. You're young, you're your mother's daughter, and you should give it up. It is estimated that you unilaterally like this man, and he will not like you, because you are simple and cute, and this man only treats you as a child, so what he really likes is your mother.

Your mother has a good man, the family has something to rely on, and it's good to be your uncle.

If the man you are talking about is the object of your mother's desire to start a new family, and you also feel like him after you know him, but you know that he likes your mother, then you should change your liking to that kind of family like, don't turn your liking into a ** that hurts your mother, you have to really think carefully about your relationship, don't hurt the person you love the most and hurt yourself.

If it's a joke, this person is your dad, because they are husband and wife, and they must have a crush on your mom;

If it's true, this depends on the situation, don't mix it up and get entangled; Stay away from this emotion;

You say that like you're talking about your dad. Your dad will definitely have a deep affection for your mom, after all, he is the one who wants to accompany him until he is old! Of course, his love for you is just as deep, but it belongs to a different kind of love and father's love!

So there is no comparison at all, more and less are normal!

There is such a coincidence, you misunderstood! You and your mom like the same man, and this man must be much older than you! He has a good impression of your mother, so he likes your mother even more, and hates you for no reason.

You should straighten your mind, face up to this feeling of yourself, and don't ask for trouble!

I don't say who this man you are talking about, it's your dad or another man, if it's your dad, it means that you have a father-lover plot, which is understandable, but if it's another man, you have to correct your mind, quickly get out of it, don't fall into it, it's unreasonable to fall in love with a man from your father's generation, not to mention that you are suffering from the same man as your mother, and finally make everyone betray their relatives.