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The true meaning of affection lies in not seeking.
Loving someone is not about getting any benefit from them, you love someone and want to be good to them because you feel happy.
That's why we criticize this as a ruthless time, because everyone is doing business while giving their feelings.
When we love someone, we like to make sure that he loves me first, and if he doesn't love me, I don't want to love him.
But the other party will also think like this, so the two have to wait for the good days to slip by.
Affection is a kind of giving, not a kind of getting, too.
Don't care how much the other person can give you, because you have nothing.
You can also sacrifice for love, but this sacrifice must be made willingly, not aggrieved, reluctantly, and then ask the other party to repay you.
Some people say: Great love should stand the test, but since the relationship is so precious, it should be carefully cared for, rather than being tested if there is nothing to do.
It's like holding an egg in your hand, you should take care of it, not throw it on the ground and wonder how it can break!
Don't test love, but don't be afraid of the test, and don't be afraid that the test will fail.
Of course, we all hope that love can be talked about ordinarily and smoothly, and there will be no problems in a lifetime.
But if love has to suffer some twists and turns, some blows, and some injuries, we can also stand up and accept it. If we do lose it, it is only superficial or formal, but we can have it forever in life.
It. (In the process of love, it cannot be denied, it allows us to learn many things, regardless of the result of love.)
In this day and age, on the one hand, we should not overestimate love, because love cannot allow us to overcome everything and get everything
It's not entirely good, either;
On the other hand, don't underestimate love, because love is a talent that everyone has, and don't be reluctant to give.
When you meet someone who is right for you and who loves you.
Choose what you love, love what you choose!
Try to maintain your feelings well.
But how do you measure whether love can last?
There may be a criterion: you are more happy than bitter in love, and it makes you more motivated than you fall.
It makes you more satisfied than you want.
If there is no fame, wealth, and power in life, it is still possible to be happy.
If there is no love in life, the chances of happiness are slim.
It is good to be brave enough to welcome the love you have received, and try our best to enjoy the beauty of love, so as to avoid the pain and harm it will bring us.
Look at it from an open-minded perspective.
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Are you sure you like him, not him? If you like him, you can take him as your good friend, if you love him, you hold on to him tightly, don't let go, and pursue him. And your relationship is unstable.
You also need to think clearly, sometimes we can't figure out what we think, you should analyze yourself, and then make a choice, you should strengthen communication with him, to understand, otherwise you are together now, there will be problems in the future, you should find out the reason for the breakup, and solve the most fundamental contradiction between you. Doesn't he love you too? If not, just let it go!
If you love each other and break up because of a small problem in your life, I say you should try to pursue it.
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Whether or not it turns out is whether you really love him or not, and whether he really loves you. If you divide and combine three times, based on my personal experience, you better think about it seriously, don't think only about his good when you love him, think about the personality and family factors.
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Go for it. It's good to work hard. `
Really love. Just work on it. `
Me and you too.
At the moment, I don't want to spoil that.
Not wanting though. But I had to ask for it.
Camaraderie. .Hehe. `
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First of all, I ask you: What do you mean by the result? Is it marriage?
If so, find a way to marry him. If it's love, you've already reaped it several times, and you don't have to look for results. There is an extraordinary fate between you, and this is already the greatest happiness.
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I've been dumped 16 times, and finally reconciled, it's normal to quarrel, anyone will have it, it's not normal if you don't quarrel, you won't be so fragile, your love can't stand the test, if you yourself are not sure about your love, then will she still be firm, if there is no quarrel, your love will become very boring, and after a long time, you will lose your feelings for each other, if you don't quarrel, you won't understand the importance of the other party in your heart, you won't know how to cherish it, my love is very strong now, and I'm also very confident, He stands up to any test.
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Yes, as long as you still love each other, there will be results.
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Combine and divide, divide and merge. It's a process of honing love.
It's like eating an orange. Some people like to cut with a knife, and some people like to pluck the ...... with their handsAlthough the ways are different, they are all for one purpose.
Whether your love can withstand this long and almost devastating experience depends on the quality of the orange you are going to eat.
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If you really love each other, there should be results, if not, then your love is to kill time.
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If he loves you, it will be fruitful! He doesn't love you. Nothing came of it!
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As long as you like it, you can love it, and you can chase it.
Or you'll regret it
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Give yourself one last chance, and don't be together if you are divided.
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You are love, it is the kind of love that is relatively unpeaceful, and it may continue like this in the future, that is, the kind that you can't stop, is there any way to encounter such a thing, let it be.
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Don't give the same man a chance to hurt himself twice.
Since the points are all divided.
There's no need to go back.
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You are with him, and if you get married in the future, will you get married today and divorce tomorrow? /
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Upstairs, I don't even think about you when I see you, you've been beaten 16 times Isn't it too exaggerated.
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yes, I feel the same way, I've been dumped 16 times, is there that much? Really, fakely? Isn't that an exaggeration.
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Love is bumpy, how can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain.
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Upstairs is so powerful, I'm going to see it again.
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Look at who you love!
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The twisted melon really didn't end well.
There is a saying that says: "A twisted melon really doesn't end well", and it is even more terrible emotionally. Everyone's feelings are so delicate and complex, sometimes they will be strong, sometimes they will be tender, but once both parties are pretending, there will be strong discord.
Love is a liquid, and the liquid always flows with minimal resistance. When both people are forcibly stuffing the liquid into a container, the collision between them becomes intense, and one of them feels suppressed by the other. Neither side dares to show weakness, but can only try to squeeze the other out with force, so that the emotions will become more and more agitated and the pain will follow.
When two people impose their feelings for each other together, an inexplicable upset occurs. The pain and hurt will also be exacerbated by the fact that neither party wants to change, and in the end, both parties may have to lose each other, as the saying "the twisted melon really doesn't end well", and the end result is that both parties will be hurt.
In a relationship, both parties should respect each other's decisions. No matter how much you insist, it will only cause more damage in the end, and what you can't bear will still end up saying goodbye and going to your own place, so as not to misinterpret the self into endless troubles.
Affection is a subtle state of mind that, unlike objects, always pursues the same outcome. If two people force the same goal, then the conflict between them will become intolerable, and "the twisted melon really doesn't end well" is a good example.
In a relationship, if both parties are sincere, that is, they are both putting forward their own firm opinions, rather than blindly emphasizing their own ideas, then they can work together to find fair and reasonable answers to resolve the conflict. On the other hand, both parties can also learn to be patient, not to let themselves get caught up in it, and keep an open mind, and both parties can also use this state to reach a settlement result.
In the end, when it comes to love, there must be its own principles and bottom line, and both people must understand that feelings are just as the saying goes, and a twisted melon really doesn't end well. When both parties are prepared, whether they end up being reconciled or separated, it can reflect the sweetness of both parties.
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People, after all, are high-level animals with feelings, and it is normal for two people to be happy with each other, and it is also a natural law for opposites to attract. Although you will meet many people of the opposite sex who make your heart flutter in the rolling red dust, there are probably not many people who really tear your heart and lungs, and life is worse than death. The most fearful thing is that this person who often makes you unrelenting forget and can't forget, get and can't get it, this kind of pain is pale and powerless to describe in any kind of words.
I have also been in this whirlpool of love. A person I love deeply, for various reasons, is likely to end up being just a legend, and it may be a failure in my love history with no ending. But I persevered, and it never occurred to me to give up.
Even if there is only one in 10,000 hope, I also know very well that it is impossible for him to hold hands with me in this life. The reason why I insist on it is because I want to leave a shadow of TA in my love history and prove that TA has come to my world.
Some people say that the five hundred times of looking back in the previous life, in exchange for the passing of this life, I believe in this, fate is this thing, but you can't find it, the vast sea of people, when you meet the person who can let you give everything for him (her) without complaint, then let go and love. Even if there is no ending.
Maybe the effort in this life will be rewarded in the next life, and the regrets in this life cannot be regretted in the next life.
Recently I heard a song by chance, when I was bored, I cycled it countless times, every time I listened to it, I would burst into tears, and every word was like a hammer, hitting my heart painfully.
The lyrics are written like this: "I knew that there was no fate, why bother to complain about each other, the past will always remain in my heart." It doesn't matter if you have no chance, or if you have no share, this relationship has gradually lost its way. After tonight, it is time to break up, why do you abandon the journey of love?
After tonight, it will be zero to the beginning, and then meet the lover who has no chance. ”
I searched on Du Niang, it turned out that this song was the theme song in the TV series "Spring of Kapok", I didn't have time to watch this drama, but I was deeply moved by this song.
In short, for love that has no ending, whether to choose to continue or give up, I think that perseverance can lead to no regrets. At the very least, you've loved someone deeply in your life.
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Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;
If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!
Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.
If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!
People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!
Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!
The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;
Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...
May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!
I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!
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