My boyfriend doesn t want to get married, what should I do, what should I do if my boyfriend doesn t

Updated on psychology 2024-06-08
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In this case, you might as well look for it first

    You can even find someone to pretend to him off

    Maybe he knows what it's like to lose you, and instead he's married to you

    You're so old that you must have had sex, and that's great for a man to not have to bear the trouble of getting married, and at the same time enjoy everything in marriage, and at the same time, he can leave at any time

    What about you? You are a woman, your situation is just the opposite, you are responsible for everything in marriage, and you do not enjoy the right to marry, and more importantly, when you are gone, if he suddenly does not want you, where will you go?

    So, I think, you can adopt a strategy, pretend to leave him, test him, if he really ignores you, it means that he will not marry you at all, whether you keep him or not, it is basically useless

    There are two options: 1. Pretend to be a new relationship;

    2 Hate him, ignore him for a while, pretend to leave him completely, and see his reflection

    Of course, there may be two possible results for this: 1. He realizes your importance and hastened to cherish you and marry you;

    2 He could not ask for it, and your relationship was cold, and you broke up

    So, you do it at your own risk

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Landlord, please forgive me, my intuition is that this man doesn't love you, he doesn't seem to be very willing to be responsible for you, do you feel secure for such a marriage? If he still uses some excuses to perfunctory you when he reaches thirty, what will you do then? And why did you still find it first, this is an excuse at all, and I don't understand why marriage ruined his life??

    Does he want to never get married for the rest of his life?

    Landlord, I think you should be sober and think clearly, is such a man worthy of your life, I hope you can be happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hey, that's what happened to me. Tell you a good idea. He did this to you, and you can do the same to him!

    Actually, he really doesn't love you anymore. You can find it first, and if it's really the kind you find that can marry you, you can tell him! That is, you can lie to him.

    Who let him do this to you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    One of the problems that can be seen is that you are not a very confident person. Women are beautiful because of self-confidence, don't be in such a hurry, you can't hide from what is going to happen, and you can't stop what you are coming.

    One last question, a woman gives birth at 23 to 29 is the best time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe it's his parents' problem.

    He's in love, or I'll break up with you.

    To love Him is to believe in Him.

    I wish you happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It means that you have to think about whether he is a man who can be relied on.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can't love you enough. You're about the same age, alas!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The reason for this is to be determined.

    1. The solution to your boyfriend's unwanted marriage.

    1.Ask why.

    If your boyfriend doesn't want to get married, it's a good idea to ask for specific reasons. If it is because the economic conditions of the two are not very good and they are not able to live a better married life, they can wait for a while. If your boyfriend has enough financial conditions to marry you, but he has never wanted to get married, it is recommended not to wait and break up to find his own happiness.

    2.Communicate well.

    The couple has been in love for a long time, and there must be a relationship foundation. So about getting married, you must communicate it well. If the boyfriend is not confident in marriage, the woman can give him appropriate guidance and let him view the marriage correctly.

    If your boyfriend just doesn't like marriage to bind her, then the girl had better not wait.

    3.Living separately.

    If the woman mentions marriage many times, the boyfriend still has no idea, and it is recommended that the two live separately for a period of time. The woman can suddenly move out and live alone without any warning. If the boyfriend is not in a hurry, it means that he has long wanted to break up, and the woman should not wait.

    If your boyfriend is in a hurry, it means that he cares about you a lot, and you can wait a little longer.

    Second, the boyfriend does not want to get married.

    1.Refusal to visit parents.

    Visiting parents is a very important thing, and generally when it comes to talking about marriage, the first step is to meet the parents. Usually the boy will introduce the person he is going to spend his life with to his parents, and he will also visit the woman's parents. If your boyfriend refuses to visit his parents, he is not ready to get married, or he does not want to get married.

    2.Avoid the topic of marriage.

    When couples are in love, they will more or less talk about marriage. For example, topics such as how old to get married and how to do a wedding are usually discussed together. If the woman takes the initiative to bring up these topics of marriage, but the boyfriend always avoids them intentionally or unintentionally, it is obvious that the other party does not want to get married.

    3.The future is rarely discussed.

    A person who wants to get married will definitely have a general plan for the future, such as buying a house in the future, how to decorate the wedding room, etc. Two people discuss future plans together, indicating that his future has you, indicating that he is willing to get married. If your boyfriend never mentions the future, he doesn't want to marry you.

    If the girl is already older, it is better to have a stable relationship and then enter the palace of marriage. If the man doesn't want to get married, it is recommended to stop the loss in time and not waste his good years.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This is to pay attention to whether it is simply not wanting to get married, or not wanting to marry you.

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