The second biggest choice in life, how do I choose?

Do a good job of career orientation.

Positioning is the unity of self-positioning and social positioning, and only on the basis of understanding oneself and one's career can we accurately position oneself.

Examine your personal traits (1) Desires and the ability to do things) What do you really want at this stage of life? (2) Ability What are you good at? (General Techniques and Special Techniques) (3) Personality Traits (Temperament, Nature) (Temperament, Nature) What type of person are you?

Under what circumstances is there the best performance? (4) Assets (tangible and intangible) What do you have an advantage over others?

Each group of people needs to be positioned, and the purpose is to ensure that they continue to develop. But the focus of each group's positioning is different: the focus of positioning is to clarify what you have.

Overestimating or underestimating oneself, attaching too much importance to one's diploma or one's own achievements, and underestimating one's potential too much, so it is necessary to analyze oneself carefully and understand more about social needs in order to position accurately. In most cases, the right way to think is to do what you should do, not what you love.

It's better to go to a bureau-level unit, and your life is guaranteed for a lifetime. There is also the possibility of upgrading, mixing outside, the risk is too great. The outside world is even less suitable for honest people. Hehe, a little suggestion

Well, let's go outside, see a lot of knowledge, don't be afraid, everyone walks in step by step, and comes in and out, I just came in, and I went out, hehe.

Life is too short, don't leave any regrets.

What is a bureau-level unit, don't be so worldly, friend?

If it's stable, a lifetime is like a dull day, isn't it interesting?

Support you in quitting your job and going the way you want to go!

Let go of your heart and be yourself is the most important thing!

I think it's up to you.

If you are an honest person, please don't go the way you don't want to go, you have to send so much money at the beginning, do you think it's worth it Think about going out to find a stable job by yourself, and slowly do it, or change to a slightly stronger unit than now, if you want to give gift money, I think it's completely unnecessary and unworthy, think about it yourself, honest people do honest things, in a stable unit, in fact, stability is more important than anything else.

Two choices in life

A person's life, in a sense, is a war against oneself. Every human being is attached to two selves: the good self and the bad self.

These two selves, like each other, are a pair of brothers who are born at odds, fighting every day and trying to defeat each other every day.

A positive self and a negative self. When the positive self defeats the negative self, the person shows the positive side, and vice versa, the negative side is displayed.

A noble self, a despicable self. When the noble self defeats the ugly self, the person shows the noble side, and on the contrary, what is shown is the ugly side.

A sincere self, a hypocritical self. When the sincere self defeats the hypocritical self, the person shows the sincere side, and on the contrary, what is shown is the hypocritical side.

A tolerant self, a narrow self. When the tolerant self defeats the narrow self, the person shows the tolerant side, and vice versa, the narrow side is expressed.

A happy self, a melancholy self. When the happy self defeats the depressed self, the person shows the happy side, and vice versa, the melancholy side is expressed.

A diligent self, a lazy self. When the diligent self defeats the lazy self, people will show the diligent side, and on the contrary, the lazy side will be shown.

A strong self, a fragile self. When the strong self defeats the fragile self, the person shows the strong side, and on the contrary, the performance is the vulnerable side.

A great self, a lewd self. When the great self defeats the obscene self, the person shows the great side, and on the contrary, what is shown is the obscene side.

When there is a war between the two selves in the body, which self your mind is biased towards, you will unconsciously cheer for that self, so that the self who gets the cheers is likely to be the victorious side.

Year after year, my life perception is: if you want to be a successful person, then, please cheer for the "best self", let the positive defeat the negative, let the noble defeat the ugly, let the sincerity defeat hypocrisy, let tolerance defeat narrow-mindedness, let happiness defeat melancholy, let diligence defeat laziness, let strength defeat fragility, let greatness defeat obscenity, as long as you want, you can be the best version of yourself for the rest of your life.

No one can make the difference between victory and defeat, except you. Your own war, you are a strategizing general! Look at the top of the mountain, even if you are tired and halfway up the mountain, you can see farther than if you stand at the bottom of the mountain. You say yes?

He has a unique philosophy of life, and he firmly believes that people have two choices at any time, so you should choose the positive one. Once, Jerry was robbed and hit by three bullets in the abdomen, he was admitted to the hospital, and many people were worried about him, but he recovered after a long time.

Colleagues asked him with concern: "When he was shot." What do you think? Jerry patted his colleague on the shoulder and laughed: "At that moment, I thought that I had two choices, one was to choose to live and the other was to choose death, and I chose to live, so I decided that the hospital I went to was the best in the country, and the medical technology there was even better." Jerry drank some water and continued, "But, when they operated on me, they seemed to see me as a dying man.

I grimaced at the doctors and shouted vigorously: 'Ah, I'm allergic! When they asked me what I was allergic to, I said:

I'm allergic to bullets! Also allergic to apathy! The doctors burst out laughing, and my surgery was done without a hitch. One day, a friend asked Jerry, "I don't understand, how can you be positive all the time?" How do you do that? Jerry smiled and said: "Every morning when I wake up, I say to myself: Jerry, today you have two choices You can choose a good mood or a bad mood.

And I chose a good mood; Whenever something bad happens, I can choose the role of the victim or the role of the master, and I choose the latter; Whenever someone complains to me, I can listen negatively to the complaint and also show them the way to relieve their troubles, and I always choose to take the initiative to help others and give them good advice. Life is always made up of two choices, and you should always choose the good one. Wisdom of life:

A positive and enterprising person will inevitably have a gorgeous and enthusiastic inner world, which will generate huge and infinite spiritual power at every moment. Life may seem heavy and complicated, but after simplifying it to "two options", everything becomes easy and straightforward. Life choices.