What should I do if my husband and wife live separately? Is there a good workaround? 10

Updated on society 2024-06-08
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    1.If feelings are more important than anything else, one party needs to give up their careers and two people live together.

    2.If you are more insistent on your own business, you can only keep in touch often, and when you have a proper vacation, you can travel around just to promote emotions, maintain your feelings, and meet and play for a while.

    3.If you are separated from the two places for a long time, what you need is mutual trust, otherwise you will really live together in the future, and you will have obvious discomfort because you are not together for a long time.

    4.If it is a husband and wife, if it is not an extremely special situation, you really have to consider the problem of separating the two places, otherwise it will really be a Cowherd and a weaver girl, and no matter how serious it is, you will lose this marriage.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There's no way, there will definitely be problems after a long time, depending on your husband's attitude, you must contact more often, don't let the relationship fade.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It seems to be difficult, and I don't want to give up my career... Then you can keep talking to each other often, and see you more every month...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't have it both ways. Whoever is capable, the other party will fulfill the other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not going to work for a long time, so I suggest that one party give up their job, or the marriage will have problems sooner or later.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can't do this, and you don't want to sacrifice. The simplest truth: can you have both fish and bear's paws?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Insist on communicating with each other every day. For couples who live separately in two places, it is very necessary to maintain a certain amount of emotional communication and mutual play every day, and share and share small things such as difficulties and joys in their lives and work, which will increase the feelings between husband and wife, and will not gradually fade and alienate because of the separation of the two places.

    The two sides will determine the opportunity to meet on a regular basis. The two places must be separated for a month, half a month or a quarter, etc., and there must be time together, which is higher than this: Saturdays and Sundays, holidays, birthdays, etc., both parties create a good atmosphere and add some sweetness and surprises to the relationship between husband and wife.

    It is very helpful for couples who have been separated for a long time.

    Understanding, support, trusting each other. For long-term separation, there will always be dissatisfaction between the husband and wife, for this situation, both parties must be honest with each other, express their true thoughts, but also understand each other, consider each other's feelings, empathy, so as to make the relationship between husband and wife who are far away from each other stronger.

    Determine the end date of separation. Whether it is for work reasons or family reasons, the long-term separation of husband and wife must end, and the separation of the two places is only temporary, so don't delay it indefinitely, which will not benefit anyone. Therefore, after friendly negotiation between the husband and wife, the plan and timetable for the final reunion are determined.

    At what point in time, it is necessary to end the status quo of separation between the two places, that is, to give each husband and wife an explanation and a reassurance.

    Family and career are important. Don't give up on your family because you want to pursue your career. After all, family is the most important reliance and harbor in life, even if the career is booming, losing the family is not necessarily happy, so family and career must be taken into account in order to maintain a good relationship between husband and wife for a long time.

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