Is such a boy a reality or lost... Please help me... 20

I want to have such a thing! There should be a shadow in his heart! If you love him, grow with him! Warm him with love!

Don't be afraid, it's nothing, it's quite influenced by his father, after all, he grew up with his father, you should understand him, it's nothing. You just have to say something encouraging, no matter what happens to you in the future, I will be with you, no matter what you do in the future, you must not abandon me! He will surely cherish you even more! Hehe!

Encourage him, men need your encouragement at this time. And you have to prove to him with your actions that you are not the kind of woman who follows the money... I believe that you will move him with sincerity, open his heart knot, and wish you happiness.

He will definitely be influenced by his dad.

But it depends on whether you have the ability to let your influence dominate.

You will feel that you are lost in yourself, and it is really not easy to know.

yes or no , someone makes you feel tempted , and every time you pay more attention .

is it no , there are people who don't like it , let you do more things for him , and the self-respecting manuscript has been revealed to be unhappy .

Find the cause.

if you love , you will work harder , love the other party , you will not be able to hold yourself , at the beginning .

if you don't love , you have to separate what you can do and what you can't do .

Don't work so hard, relax appropriately, find some fun to chat with someone and the like, you will find happiness around you, your pressure is too great, just thinking about making money, there will be no happiness, the biggest mistake is that you put your emotions in one place, so that you lose it all, eggs can not be put in one basket, make more friends, so that even if there is no love and family affection, there is still friendship, don't commit suicide, human life is very precious, these are temporary, it will get better, Life is still very long, as long as you change, everything will be different in the future, and you will have the happiness you want in life.

You know, you're much happier than a lot of people!

Be content! Happiness and pain coexist! Happiness can only be felt, not sought.

Why seek death? Really, I don't know where you work, and the salary of 3000 is not very low, right? If you have time, listen to "Let Go If Love Is Absent", maybe it can reduce your pain.

Has she left you already? Feelings are an important thing in life, but they are not the only thing. It is understandable to love one more than yourself, she must have her goodness, her beauty, her attraction to you, but maybe you don't even love yourself and have to love her, so you will have a sense of gain and loss.

To put it this way, you live for only one woman all your life, and sadly she doesn't cherish you, so you're so sad that you die! I can't provide you with how to die, but I think that in this life, it is your parents who care about yourself the most, and the love of your parents is enough for you to live calmly! When you leave your heart for your lover to your parents, you will add a little happiness of filial piety, and when you give your love to your friends, you will get the happiness of friendship!

It's easier to lose a lot of things if you care too much because you lose yourself and make yourself lose the charm of a man! Then there will naturally be a crisis in the family. Be the best version of yourself!

Everything will be fine.

You said something like a camel.

There will be an impact between people, which is both positive and negative, and from your experience, your ex-boyfriend has not given you a lot of positive influences, why do you say that? Because of his philosophy (he thinks girls are not suitable to be lawyers).Hope (he wants me to be a housewife) has stifled your growth (independence, mastering a skill, etc.), congratulations, because you will inevitably have to make self-sacrifice if you are with your boyfriend, and now you can grow up independently and freely.

Now you're just leaving the big tree before and not getting used to the feeling of being alone, it's really nothing. Now that you want to find the person who once had a dream, try to find a hobby, and then stick to it and cultivate your passion in that hobby. Bless you.

What you need to do now is to step out of the shadow of your second boyfriend and pursue your dreams, you can travel, you can see the majestic mountains, you can see the magnificent sea, and you will find that there are so many beautiful things in the world waiting for you to discover.

Get a lawyer's certificate, you can sign up for a training class, go to class on time, so that your life has a sense of rhythm, I wish you can overcome yourself and be happy every day.

Since you know that the only thing you lack is to get a lawyer's license, isn't that a clear goal? Forget about the second man, he's just a hurdle in your life, and it's okay to cross it. Go to the lawyers' forums to see those who are struggling for their dreams, and sit in the university library to find their younger selves.

You're just a little lost in yourself right now, but you can't let it go, and it's up to you to decide what kind of life you want to live. I hope you can muster up the courage to face all this, people have to live in the moment!

I don't like to hear a word, I think you are just two words "dependent", except for the first boyfriend, you rely on the second boyfriend, now what? Dependent on your family again, when you leave your boyfriend, you will definitely feel bored, you have to think that no one in this world can help you, if you keep going like this, it is also your own business, but are you worthy of your relatives? You have to know that there are many other things in your world besides love, think about it yourself, no one can help you, you should reflect, and finally, if you really like that man, you should cheer up and show him?

First of all, I hope you can face the inflammation in your body with a positive attitude, no matter what you do or don't do, first solve the physical pain and heal your body, which is the most fundamental! Secondly, if you still can't get out during this time, my suggestion is to find a relatively trusted friend, bring a DSLR, go out for a walk, look at the vast ocean, face the towering peak, and expand your mind ......Third, to be honest, I don't know your age, in love and marriage, it's best not to be too childish, sometimes honest and reliable people are not necessarily.

I feel that I am excellent in all aspects, so I hope that my life is also wonderful and different, your thinking is normal, there is no pressure, everything is just natural, you are now the age to worry about new words, it is natural to have such and such troubles. Don't think too much about it, you have free time to play and chat with your classmates.

Do it with your own ideas, and you'll succeed.

I was a top student in high school. Because of broken love.

Begin to indulge in Internet cafes

Adults look for me, and I let them not find me

I'd rather skip food and sleep than lose my soul

Later, I failed the college entrance examination, and I felt a sense of loss in my heart

It turns out that our girlfriend, who both loves each other, also looks down on me

Her mother saw me like an infectious disease

I'm angry, I want to make a human appearance and show them

So I was looking for a good job

Like foreigners, I study while working, and I am angry with them

But I can't imagine that it is more difficult to find a good job than to read a good book

After that, I had to regret and look everywhere.

Unstable work、I was copied by the boss several times、

I don't think there's any hope for me

But classmates, don't be fooled by this

After this hurdle, there is a bright road ahead.

Strive to rely on your own, not on others

For the happiness of the future is also yours

Not to mention the impact of the world financial crisis.

Since the beginning of this year, the employment of college students has become even more difficult.

I think no matter how good a person's family conditions are, he will have to rely on his own efforts in the end, and it will pay off.

You feel single and lonely, right?

I don't think there's anything ah! I'm also single now, and I haven't been in a relationship yet. It's quite free.

I'm 21 years old, I don't have a girlfriend, and I don't deliberately chase girls. I love being single, and I'm planning to travel by myself recently. Let's take a walk around the fun places first.

Hehe! Note: I'm normal, don't wonder what kind of person I have!

Be in a relaxed mood, exercise more, make more friends, and you'll have a goal when you're in the mood. Slowly, I will feel less lonely. Maybe the person you really like hasn't shown up yet!

In fact, you don't have to think about anything in college, there is nothing in college, it's just that you have more time to play, and you are more afraid of failing the course! Let it be.

Find more ways to try, there's always something for you...

In fact, you know that you don't have a goal in life.

Then your mind is one step towards maturity.

You don't need any changes at this point.

Just set yourself a goal that you will pursue for the rest of your life.

Or in your life. Find your goal.

Now you are like a prairie. Just stand where you are. But I don't know which way to go.

In fact, there is no need to be confused. Because. Life purpose. It's not that easy to find.

Some people. It's such a busy life. But he couldn't find his purpose in life.

However. You're still young. There is still a long way to go. A purpose in life is something that you need to find yourself.

What you need to do now. It's about being yourself. In their own path. Find your purpose in life.

Then you won't be lost.

Child: That's a normal drop. I also studied art I also have a deep memory of my confusion at that time I think this is a normal psychological and physiological reaction I remember that I didn't get any art certificates at that time There is no hope for the college entrance examination I want to faint so much But I don't know what I thought at the time Maybe it was also due to the surrounding environment I still insisted on learning even if it was not ideal in the end Although I was not admitted to the undergraduate But I am now studying for the self-examination and I don't feel how it is actually the same The key thing is that I now see a shadow of my future (that is, what I want to do in the future) I studied design, and I don't want to do this in the future, I want to study something else.

What about you, now it's better to keep learning, don't think too much, keep persistent!! Reflecting the scalp, you also have to learn not to think No matter how you do in the final exam, you have no regrets Go to whatever you get admitted to Don't repeat (personal opinion, I think it's useless) In college, whether it's a junior college or a bachelor's degree, you will slowly find your goal.

A boyfriend will be found there, too

It doesn't matter if you find your goal late, you are afraid that you will have no goal in your life You can see from your words that you are a smart child with a cheerful personality What else is there to be afraid of Take all your troubles out of your mind and let your smart and cheerful back to accompany you through this difficult time You say yes.

Good luck with your exams.

People are like this little sister in life, there is always a time to get lost, you are now in the third year of high school, and the pressure of studying is also great, after this period of time, you will be better, you have to believe in yourself! See that you are not the kind of person who is not confident, after this period of time, it will be good to change the environment, the university is a very good place, you can learn a lot of things, and you can make a lot of friends, what you have to do now is to study hard and strive to get a good ideal university. Girls must not stay up late, it will not look good to pull, there will be panda eyes, work and rest on time.

It's obvious that I'm overindulged ...

Life is stress-free, and it is directly related to the fact that you suddenly like someone else.

Because this makes you negative about learning ...

You don't understand, do you???

If you lose yourself, you will also lose your way. What you want to do, choose what you like, and if you don't like it, how can you do it well. If you do it, you have to stick to it, and if you give up, you have nothing.

You should study hard in front of you, and think less and know more about the rest, and there will be a lot less stepping stones on the road of life in the future. No matter what, learn the sea without cliffs, and work hard to make a boat!

Just be yourself, there's no need to imitate others, just learn if you can.

Don't think about anything, a lot of things talk about fate.

Go to work, society will slowly take you on the right track.

Happy New Year.

The past cannot be changed, the future is unpredictable, and the present is the most important thing. Who can plan for the future? Lost is short-lived, don't be nervous.

Who hasn't been confused growing up? The people upstairs don't say they haven't been? People who don't have pressure and responsibility are easily confused, and they feel like this all day long, and it's not interesting at all.

It's normal, as you grow up, things will come to you slowly, and then you won't be confused, and you will feel that you have a purpose in life. There is a saying to tell you, life in the world for 80 years, it is not easy to come once, please cherish the time. I often wonder, what would I think if I were old and dying?

Think about it. What do you think?