Relationship problems make me feel so confused, I m so annoying

It seems that you still haven't found what you want, and you don't know what you think, it's normal for you to think that you don't believe in people, all people have a sense of self-protection, so your suspicion is normal and understandable, so the key question now is, do you like him, and since you don't like it, why do you want to be together? Aren't you hurting yourself as well? I think so, you first separate from him for a while, see what the reflection is, if you like someone, you will think of him for no reason, see a touching plot you will unnaturally think of the details of your together, you see if these situations happen, don't think about it deliberately, just follow your feelings, and you will know what you think when the time comes.

When the time comes, you will decide, if you like it, you will be good to him, there are fewer good men these days, if you don't like it, you will separate, and it will be good for everyone. Hope it can help you, if you need it, mine.

It's your previous psychological shadow that caused it, and now your attitude towards him, even if you change someone else, you are the same, from the situation you described, you also like him, and feelings are unavoidable, why should the love in hand disappear in vain? It's better to take advantage of this relationship, and this boy you treat him like this, and he is still very good to you. Or let go of the shadow in his heart and accept him, a bottle full of water, if you don't pour out the water inside, how can you hold new water?

You should have a little affection for him, but because you have been hurt, you are afraid, and you are not willing to invest in feelings, and you are afraid of being hurt again, so you subconsciously hurt others, look away, try to forget the past, treat others with a sincere heart, I believe there will be good results, come on!

Do you have to wait until you've fully unleashed the damage you've suffered on this man before you can get rid of the past?

If not, then gladly accept this person, if you don't like him, you won't be jealous at all, is it interesting to lie to yourself? Hurt him and make yourself miserable, so what are you still doing with him?

Love requires courage, the reason why you didn't have this idea before is because you don't understand the negativity of love, when you understand it, you can still be happy, it's real love, and you will learn to endure it more. Maybe now you don't imagine what the road with this person will be like in the future, but what you can grasp is whether to be with him or not, if not, separate, don't delay both of you.

Eh, the power of love is great, if you really like it, he won't care, he will think that you care about him, your personality is like this, there is no way, if you change your personality for him, it may make him think that you are deliberate, and the most important thing is to be happy with each other.

I'm just like you, take your time, that piece of ice in my heart doesn't melt in a day or two.