Where should our relationship go, and where should I go when it comes to emotional problems

Her mental age is too young. Maybe it's the way of homeschooling. Too doting at home.

First: Don't be conniving, you should point out her shortcomings and ask her to correct them. For example, a child is making trouble in front of you to get your attention.

Second: The reason why it catches your attention is because she feels that you don't care about her. You are running a business, and it must be needless to say that you are busy with work.

Maybe you can change jobs (if you feel that she is more important than work). Pay attention to the small details that you can tell her frankly, you can get together with friends on both sides, so that you will get to know each other better and not fall into the mistake of distrusting each other.

Third: Try to illustrate the problem with examples when mixing mouths, you can quote "If I were you." Or, "If you were me." and so on. Don't insult each other, attack each other, or fight cold wars.

Fourth: If you have any other questions, please refer to them.

I space, by the way help watering the flowers @

You just have to think about one question, a man, whether love is all you have in life, and if so, then you continue.

If not, then what should you do, go about your business, go on with your social life, instead of living in a vase.

A woman's excitement at the beginning may lie in her appearance or her youth and cuteness, but whether a real relationship can go smoothly depends on the cultivation and character of both parties.

Especially for girls, I think this is especially important.

It's okay to be coquettish and capricious, after all, boyfriends and girlfriends need these flavorings, but girls must know that "moderation is enough".

Her intention may be to love you, but her current attitude of loving you will hold you back. Drag your life back, I won't talk about the probability of success in your relationship for the time being, but I don't encourage a 22-year-old boy with a great future to give up what he may get for a "beauty".

Treat her coldly for a while, talk to her, point out her problems.

If she accepts and corrects, then maybe she can continue.

If you can't, just get rid of it.

This kind of woman is good for nothing.

Selfish woman.

It's up to you, if you want to spoil it, continue to spoil it, and if you don't want to, just talk to her.

The biggest thing is that they broke up.

Big brother, if you can withdraw, withdraw as soon as possible.

Think about the woman who loves you so much and is extreme, in case she does something in the future - like suicide or something...You'll regret it then

Isn't 20 too big?

It's a little ignorant

The most important condition for love.

Learn to love yourself before you can love others.

Too spoiled, if she doesn't love you very much, or break up?

It's tiring, it's nothing childish, but it's also a basic thing to think about your lover, do you think it's worth it?

Do you love her? She's really like me

There's no denying that you love her, before you break up. But after the breakup, I personally feel that it is your own unwillingness that is better than love. If you can't get the corresponding reward for your sincere efforts, you will inevitably be unwilling.

It was a transitional period, and it was extremely uncomfortable, and I often thought back to the past, often secretly shed tears, and my heart hurt so much that I felt like I couldn't even breathe. It's just that after getting through it, it's over, and looking back, I feel like I've grown a lot. At this time, you should thank her for her hurting to make you grow, and only pain can make a person grow and mature completely.

Also, after a breakup, there is no need to be friends. For one, you didn't break up peacefully, and there was no way to communicate calmly. The dumped party must not be able to calmly greet the dumped party, how are you doing, have you got a boyfriend or something.

Second, say something you don't like to hear. Looking at your description, she didn't really fall in love with you. And after the breakup, she also asks you to be friends with her, so it can be seen that she is a very selfish person.

If she had really loved, she should have known that the feeling of pain that she wanted to see but couldn't see would almost torture a person to the point of madness. Perhaps, you care about her too much, and she happens to feel lonely, so she just takes advantage of this.

If a college student loses himself for a woman who doesn't love you, and forgets the nurturing grace of his parents. Personally, I think that you have studied in vain in college, and you have lived in vain over the years. You can't get over this hurdle, and I think it's hard for you to survive in this society.

Your best bet is:

First of all, find your past interests and hobbies, and carry them forward, so that your life can be enriched and enriched. It's best to choose one or two clubs at your university that interest you to join and force yourself to stick to every event. When life is busy, you don't have time to take care of that feeling.

Remember, during this time, hang "her" for a few days and ignore her completely).

Second, you need to make a wide range of friends (including girls), even if it's just classmates.

After persisting in this way for a period of time, she may gradually discover your personality and personality charm, be attracted by your colorful lifestyle, and enter your life again. (Of course, you may find that there are already a lot of better options around you at this time!) ）：

The way of the world now? Men become infatuated, women will mostly betray, we should have a new understanding, I hope you can face the reality, imagine your own future, don't become a mystery in the past, it's really not worth it! Come on man.

Some things are in the past.

Even if you say goodbye, it's a strange way. Why bother with it.

Just think it's a little episode, put it down!

Such a girl is not worth cherishing, you still have relatives and friends, you have to think about them, for the sake of relatives and friends, get out of the predicament.

The old does not go, the new does not come. Since she doesn't care about you anymore, why should you suffer for yourself, finding another girlfriend is a good thing for you and her.

Don't force yourself to forget or stay away from her, it's inevitable to be uncomfortable. Don't force her to be with you all the time. At the moment you can find ways to improve your charisma, of course, in a variety of ways. Inner and outer double cultivation. If you leave it is a good means.

Let it be, feelings can't be forced to be obtained by others, and the more you want to get them, the more you will lose them. You should let yourself shine, what you can catch is yours, you can't give her what you have, what she needs, then you should give up.

She also left me, and every day when I thought about her, I would run and circle the football field more than 30 times a night. It works!

Ay! Love is gone, life still has to go on!!

The condition for two people to be together is not only to love each other, but more importantly, fate. Maybe the two of you are destined but have no share! Someday, you'll find the girl you really love.

It's just not now, if you are really destined, then I believe that God will definitely take care of you.

You have to know that you don't just have her in your life, but there are other people in your life, such as your parents and friends. Don't lose hope in life because of her, think about those who support you, don't live up to their expectations of you, come on!

I wouldn't be able to live without her! If so, you need to be enlightened, don't be depressed.

If she loves you, how can she be willing to let you be so sad?

Believe in yourself. It's not that hard to forget a person. Sometimes you have to suppress yourself in life, and you will only annoy him and make him look down on you. Why bother. Try to make yourself great Good girls are a lot.

People are like that, cheap. You ignore her for two months, and you see that she remembers you not. Don't do this kind of shitty thing.

It will only make people snub you more. I look down on you even more. Do what you have to do.

Travel, study, even play games. There are thousands of children in the world, what can you do without her, men sometimes have to be ruthless. hesitated and thought that his life would not be good!!

Long pain is better than short pain, and you have no other way than to let go. Let time dilute everything.

If possible, meet her and make it clear how you feel for her, she must have loved you, as long as you persistently impress her, you should be able to redeem it I have encountered the same situation as you before, but I am still too young to love as deeply as you, so we are finished. I regretted it at the time, so I think if you don't want to regret it, do everything you can to impress her, but don't act weak and girly, and have the demeanor you should have.

I read your question carefully and I was deeply touched!

I and I were in love for 5 years and finally got married, we were burdened with strong opposition from both parents, it can be said that we were in a bitter relationship for 5 years, and finally got married in a struggle, his personality is exactly the same as your boyfriend, I am a relatively good and strong girl, and it is strange to say, my job opportunities are better than LG anyway, so he has some low self-esteem, he even wants me not to work, and then he stays at home, he supports me with a meager income, every time we quarrel, he doesn't say a word, I scold it, I don't beat it, I cry, I don't make trouble, it doesn't communicate Pretending to be aggrieved is not that there is no need to do any struggle with useless liquids Everything will be in vain Finally, after n experiences like this, I am extremely devastated...

Before we got married, I struggled for a long time I wanted to give up on this relationship very much because I was afraid that my life would be very difficult after marriage I couldn't control his personality But I was also hesitant I felt that he would be very pitiful if I left him I couldn't bear it Finally, a friend of mine told me She said: You leave him You look forward to a better relationship But can you guarantee that you will be better than him in the future? Everyone has shortcomings, everyone's marriage is a bet, and your mindset is the main thing that determines whether a marriage is happy or not!

Eventually, my husband and I got married, and whenever I hated him, I would think more about his goodness, and I would tolerate his shortcomings, and even think about why he had the same mentality. When everyone calms down, communicate well and talk about their thoughts, he can also recognize his own shortcomings and definitely express great regret for my indifference. Later, at work, I kept encouraging him, cheering him on, and I even deliberately understated my job and underreported my salary to create a sense of superiority for him

Now that we've been married for almost a year, I've set our five-year plan, when to buy a car, buy a house, and have a baby, and he's working hard for the plan I've set out to live in a marriage that's completely different from what I feared before, and everything is harmonious, really

In fact, what I want to say in the end is that if you want to give up this relationship, you have to be resolute and resolute, and you can't be soft-hearted! If you still love him very much, he also loves you very much, then there must be someone to make a sacrifice, your mentality is the main factor that determines whether you live a happy life, since you are very capable, then, you have to be the guiding light in his direction forward, keep giving encouragement, support and tolerance, if your boyfriend is a thinking person, I believe that you pay, he will definitely change himself for you!

Care for him with your heart and infect him.

In fact, I can feel your pain, and so is my first love. But there is really no way to influence a person's personality, and it is impossible for him to change much for you. If so, then why can't you accept him because it's time to change your mind?

I also just graduated and got a job. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we are both first loves, and we love each other very hard, but our tempers and personalities are not harmonious. We have also insisted on it again and again.

At the end of the day, it's not about not parting. We were both tired and very sad for each other. In the end, it was a tear with a tired heart to break up.

I'm not trying to advise you to break up, it's just that when you do this to me, you'll be even more uncomfortable. If you are generous enough, then you should tolerate him, guide him, and get used to him. Let's take a step each, if not, separately.

Before it's too late. I bless you.