How is the person you fell in love with that year doing now?

It's all good now. They are all married, have their own children and a house.

Now that I'm married and have children, I don't feel like I like each other when we meet again.

The guy who has been secretly in love since high school, didn't have the courage to confess to him, and was afraid that he wouldn't even be a friend after he refused, so he became his good friend, and during the Chinese New Year, he got married, and watching him say vows to his wife and kiss his wife's smile, I knew that it was time for me to let go.

One day, my first love suddenly contacted me, and then she said a lot of thoughts about me, and she said that she was sick now and needed surgery, but she needed a lot of money, and she didn't have enough money for a while, so she didn't know if I had any difficulties, so she could borrow some money for surgery. Later, I didn't borrow her, because I knew that she and her husband were living a decent life now, and she borrowed money from me when she got in touch with me, which made me very cold to her.

Now I am married and have children. She's doing well.

Since it is said that the first love has already broken up, since it is already in the past, why should we discuss the reason for the separation, it is no longer meaningful, at least we once had. My first love added my WeChat about a year ago, that is, 3 years after the breakup, at that time my heart did not fluctuate, and I even wanted to laugh, and I didn't pay attention to her with a few simple greetings. Now that I know through the circle of friends that she already has a boyfriend, I really don't care, we're not even ordinary friends now, hahahaha.

I don't know! My first love was too short, it took three months, there was no unforgettable feeling, the cloud was light and breezy, because the other party's parents did not agree to divide it, and I was sad for a while to recover my mood, I don't know how he lived later, anyway, I lived a dull and happy life, almost forgetting that he had ever existed in my life.

My first love was my current wife. First acquaintance is always accompanied by nervousness, caution, for fear of making mistakes and ushering in disgust. After a little bit of caution, I finally got acquainted with it.

Then confirm the relationship and enter the love period. Although they are occasionally frightened, they all save the day. Now that I am getting married and having children, I imagine that I was really afraid of losing myself, but I am also grateful for my fear of losing, because everything is beautiful now.

My first love and I have never quarreled, never blushed, and we have been ambiguous for many years, always in various regrets and misses. Now I have two babies and my life is quite happy. He is still pursuing his dream abroad, but he is not married, and he has always been in touch but just a friend sends a blessing on the holiday, I really wish him well!

I've seen a metaphor before: first love can't be forgotten is like walking and hitting a telephone pole, it hurts a lot, and after a long time, you will gradually forget the pain at that time, but you will always remember that you hit the telephone pole and can't forget it. What people are nostalgic for and difficult to let go of is generally the self who has just opened his love, not the person himself.

Therefore, rational people will look at it rationally.

We are childhood sweethearts, playing together and growing up together. Later, due to social reasons and changes in thinking, I had to break up. Now we all have our own families, and we are all happy, and our two families live not far away, and we both move around normally.

The children's weddings were also present to congratulate, and they didn't even fail to be friends because they didn't become a couple.

I believe that there will always be such a person in everyone's heart, say you like it, not to, say let go, but there is also a feeling, he will be in the depths of your heart, do not touch, do not take the initiative to mention, when others discuss, may feel very bitter, we call that person is, once loved deeply, in fact, really love is a habit, not love is also a habit, the person we once loved, he may have given us a lot of warmth, sweetness, maybe gave us scars, pain, But it's all in the past, and we'll leave it to time to freeze. I have to like him so much at the beginning, I always think of him, as long as I mention him, I will be very excited, and the people around me will laugh at me for being a fool, but there are always a lot of accidents when I like it, with that like slowly from excitement to distress, and slowly into sadness, maybe I will sigh, but in the end, I will be relieved, slowly, when I hear the name, I don't have that heartbeat, this may be the process of liking one, the beginning is beautiful, The ending is always so unsatisfactory. Time is like the deep sea, it will bury all the sorrow and pain, just like a drowning person, when he just drowned, he will struggle desperately, so it will be particularly painful at the beginning, and the hopelessness after the struggle is even more sad, so after that, it will gradually precipitate, maybe he will occasionally think of him, but even if he remembers, there will be no special feelings, because that feeling has disappeared into the ocean of time with drowning.

Someone who "loved" now, who "was" liked.

Do you remember? There is a saying called Rolling Base: live in the moment. There is a sentence in last year's fire: people, look forward, if you keep staring at the past, then you can't live this day.

If it is free love, I believe that in most cases, men will marry the woman they love as their wives; Women do not necessarily marry the person they love the most as their wives; Men can work hard for the woman they love the most; Women may not be willing to endure hardships for a long time with the man they love the most. Of course, whether it is a loss as a man or a woman, since they are together, they should cherish each other and love each other, so that they can be white! There are a lot of regrets in life, and missing it is not enough fate!

The person you once liked liked was also the same as before, since you weren't together, there must be a reason, since you didn't resist it at the time, do you contact it again and hurt it again? Since you missed it, she's not the one you're responsible for.

Your current wife, no matter what the reason is, at least you have the fate of husband and wife, and she also has affection, she married you, that is, she entrusted the rest of her life to you, she is your legal stupid wife, and you have the responsibility and obligation to treat her well.

She also has a lot of flaws, imperfections, but think about it, the person you like has no flaws? Isn't there any merit for a wife? We don't find ourselves digging into the horns when we are more serious, just imagine, if you treat your wife like the person you like, what will she be like?

The same patience with his wife, she may be better.

Every woman doesn't think about making herself a resentful woman, a jealous woman, when these situations arise, have you ever reflected on whether you are doing well, taking care of her feelings, and giving her a sense of security? The understanding is mutual, and when you treat her well and take care of her, I think she will surprise you too!

Good women and good daughters-in-law are all rushed out by men, dignified old men, there is no shame in treating your daughter-in-law!

I believe that there will always be such a person in everyone's heart, say you like it, not to, say let go, but there is also a feeling, he will be in the depths of your heart, do not touch, do not take the initiative to mention, when others discuss, may feel very bitter, we call that person is, once loved deeply, in fact, really love is a habit, not love is also a habit, the person we once loved, he may have given us a lot of warmth, sweetness, maybe gave us scars, pain, But it's all in the past, and we'll leave it to time to freeze. I have to like him so much at the beginning, I always think of him, as long as I mention him, I will be very excited, and the people around me will laugh at me for being a fool, but there are always a lot of accidents when I like it, with that like slowly from excitement to distress, and slowly into sadness, maybe I will sigh, but in the end, I will be relieved, slowly, when I hear the name, I don't have that heartbeat, this may be the process of liking one, the beginning is beautiful, The ending is always so unsatisfactory. Time is like the deep sea, it will bury all the sorrow and pain, just like a drowning person, when he just drowned, he will struggle desperately, so it will be particularly painful at the beginning, and the hopelessness after the struggle is even more sad, so after that, it will gradually precipitate, maybe he will occasionally think of him, but even if he remembers, there will be no special feelings, because that feeling has disappeared into the ocean of time with drowning.

After the change of time, the impression of the former people will slowly fade, and of course I still like the feelings that I once worked hard for.

I don't like it, because everyone has to look to the future, not to the people who have been lost, and keep thinking about them.

The person I used to like is now not like it, maybe I don't love deeply enough, and I don't like someone firmly enough. Time will dilute all feelings, the past follows the wind, and many of the ups and downs of the past have dissipated at the end of time.

The person I used to like now doesn't like it now.,After the passage of time, I've slowly forgotten about the other party.,I've long been relieved.,And now he's not the type I like.。