Let s talk about any way to quickly let go of the relationship for more than a year?

Force yourself to want to open, think about his (her) is not good, after a long time, you can really forget it, force yourself not to think, try to arrange your spare time full, there will be no more time to think, and then let yourself really want to open, the heart really let go, people are fate, there is no debt in the past life, there is no meeting in this life, they are all debts in the previous life, they are all debts in the previous life, they are all paid off, it is over, they are separated, God will arrange the next relationship for you, these are the passers-by in life, The real husband and wife are the last to be together, since God has let you miss it, let yourself go, don't torture yourself, let yourself suffer, and wait until one day to really realize that you will regret your stupid self now.

Find more things to do for yourself, keep yourself busy, and when you are busy, your life will become full, and you will not have the energy to think about other things.

Let's put it this way, when you try to forget, you are strengthening your memory, so forgetting cannot be an end in itself, first accept the result, and secondly, focus on everything in the present moment. The point is that it is not easy to accept, and generally it takes an opportunity, or a new relationship or a hysterical vent, or some insights after seeing and hearing. Jumping out of oneself to see oneself is just a speck of dust among all living beings, suffering from self-grasping, learn to let go.

Find someone you love, it's better to find someone who loves you. If you haven't experienced it in love, you won't understand this sentence. A person who loves you, he will take care of you carefully.

You can enjoy this love to your heart's content without any scruples. Over time, you will find that the person who loves you has also become the person you love and the person you rely on.

In fact, if you want to put down a relationship. You can try to put your emotions into another thing that interests you, such as traveling, playing the piano or painting, as long as you put your emotions into these things, you won't spend so much time on your previous relationship.

You don't have to deliberately forget, if you have to deliberately forget, then the fastest is to start the next one, or you can use this time to analyze what problems you have, which problems exist objectively Even if you are together, there will be contradictions, be rational, and feel that it is better to separate, because the existence of these problems will be separated sooner or later.

Fill your life to the fullest. Take out your extra free time, look at writing and writing, ask a few friends to go on a trip, or have a trip to go. Make your life colorful and feel the beauty of life with all your heart.

What you can do is do something more meaningful, is it to make the other person look down on you? If you want him, you'll chase him back! But is it useful to chase it back?

Feelings are not like other things, even if there are cracks, even if they are patched, the cracks will still be there. I hope you can cheer up, and I hope you will greet your next one with a good attitude, instead of being pretentious and unable to let go. When you say how to let go, you already have the answer in your heart.

Instead of trying to forget someone, it's better to really make yourself better. As the saying goes, if you become excellent yourself, I believe you will meet a better and better person, without having to worry about the people who have passed and the things that have passed. Brother, I hope that the next time I see a problem, it will not tell me that you want to forget someone, but tell me how to love someone better.

Many times, the reason for the breakup is not clear, and the way we treat our ex and attitude mostly stem from our own perception and perception of our ex. Cognition and perception have a lot to do with our quality and self-cultivation, which requires us to grow ourselves and look at our past "relationship" from a higher perspective. In general, the ex-who has feelings cannot be forgotten, and it may be buried for a while because of the accumulation of time, but it will not disappear in your mind!

People say that when you enter a new relationship, you will quickly forget about your ex, I think this is a way, in other I personally think that there is no other better way to love deeply, because what you do is his shadow in your head, and it is more dependent on your own self-control.

Stay away from that person, go out to travel, and don't stay where you are, so as not to see things and think about people.

Most people's first reaction will be that it is too quick to determine that the relationship will not last long, but whether the relationship can last for a long time actually has a lot to do with whether the two people are both careful to manage the relationship. The disagreement of two people's views also plays a decisive factor, and if one party does not have a strong ability to solve problems, then the relationship will not last long. How can you manage a relationship for a long time?

1. Common progress, two people want to manage their feelings well, they must have a sense of common progress, if two people do not progress together, then the fast progress of the other party will get rid of the other party who is standing still, one person is moving forward, the other party is not moving, the gap between the two people is getting bigger and bigger, and the distance will become more and more distant, which is not conducive to the development of feelings.

2. Don't rely too much on each other, even if you love that person again, you are an independent person first, love yourself first, and then love each other. Have your own independent personality, no matter how much you can handle all aspects of your life, you can handle it well.

3. Believe in each other's responsibilities, and learn to give yourself a sense of security. In many things, leaving the choice to the other party will have unexpected gains. If you restrain the other person in everything and let the other person do what you want, so that you can feel at ease, it is a big mistake.

Some things can never be controlled, and they will only add unnecessary contradictions to the two of you.

To make a relationship last for a long time, it is necessary for two people to work together, trust each other, understand each other, respect each other, love each other, support each other, consider the problem from each other's point of view, and be willing to pay.