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Then you're cool. You try to leave your parents, earn your own money to study, support your parents, marry a daughter-in-law, feed your children, and then your children are unhappy with you.
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Every adolescent child will go through a rebellious stage, but everyone's rebellious Chengdu is different, so how to correctly guide children through the rebellious period, let's take a look!
1. Create a good learning environment.
Create a good learning environment, cultivate children's good study habits, and strive to give children a quiet learning environment is very important for Sakuchai, if parents usually do not pay attention, after eating, turn on the TV ** program, but do not know that children in this noisy environment is simply unable to read.
Parents should consciously create a good learning environment for their children, and try to arrange a "learning corner" for their children, so that their children can study seriously in a quiet place.
2. Try to speak in a gentle tone.
Stop watching TV and do your homework! This will make your child feel that you respect him and are willing to listen to you, and he will naturally go to work on his own.
On the contrary, if every time you talk to your child is to ask for it in a commanding tone, the child will slowly develop a rebellious psychology, so the more parents respect the child, the more self-esteem the child will have, the more attention will be paid to correcting his words and deeds, in order to win the respect of others, of course, this respect must also be appropriate, if excessive respect will become doting, but will harm the child.
3. Always understand your child's learning and life.
Although in high school, students spend most of their time in school, and usually go home with some unfinished homework, but parents should also understand their children's learning and pay attention to their children's development in school.
If you have time to communicate with your children, if you chat happily, such as asking your children how they are doing at school, what interesting things are happening at school, and whether the relationship between friends is good, so that children will feel that their parents still love them, and they will naturally listen to their parents and reduce the appearance of rebellion.
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People have times of rebellion, and rebellion is a kind of psychology. In this psychological process, making oneself happy is the most important thing. Rebellion is a kind of psychological loneliness, that is, unhappiness, if you want to make yourself happy, you must be interested in life, that is, you are a good heart.
How can I make my mood better, listen to songs, you can find something you like, or go out to see and walk, find a close friend to talk about your mood, pass some time, and you will change your mood of writing. People have rebellious times, it is an inevitable normal psychology, since you are aware, it means that you have understood, but in the future, you have to deal with all this slowly, this, it takes a process, it is a process of your growth.
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When I encounter that kind of student who is very rebellious, it is really too helpless, teachers dare not manage, parents can't manage, this kind of student is in every school, and it has become a kind of helplessness.
Some teachers say that corporal punishment is necessary, and that underage students, with immature minds and poor discernment skills, are affected by the surrounding environment, and are easy to confuse black and white, confusing right and wrong, and if they only rely on persuasion and education, it is difficult to obtain results for individual stubborn students, or it is too time-consuming and labor-intensive.
Once corporal punishment is imposed, the effect is immediate, and the problem students are "reformed and reformed."", set up correct"Three views"Multiplier. This statement seems to be correct, but according to the law, it is completely wrong, and the teacher who says such things must be a teacher with a certain sense of responsibility, but sooner or later, something will happen to the teacher of such a macro manuscript, after all, the law is greater than everything.
Teachers in the process of teaching and educating students. When encountering that kind of rebellious student, the teacher will not listen to him even if he says it 100 times, the teacher does not dare to care, and the parents can't control it. Today's teachers are in a vulnerable group in front of their students.
Education is not omnipotent, from the perspective of learning, cultivating good study habits and teaching them how to learn is much more important than taking a good class and repeatedly talking about a knowledge point! From a long-term perspective, cultivating children's multi-faceted talents and improving their comprehensive quality is much more important than studying hard and only getting high scores in exams! Therefore, when the child releases his nature excessively, without scruples, and recklessly recklessly, the teacher is still a bystander, turning a blind eye, listening to it, letting it develop, is this the responsibility and attitude that a teacher should have?
There are many parents who only know how to pamper their children but don't know how to educate their children, and they make a lot of nonsense about the teacher's slightly harsh criticism of corporal punishment of children.
Your son is very rebellious, you still have to discipline more, your son wants to reason with him, come to pull up and fight, fight is not to solve the problem, to slowly reason with him, at this time when he is young, you can't control it, when you grow up, you can't control it, if you don't discipline him strictly, it's not a talent, you don't want to run through him, it's good for him to be strict, I hope he can understand the reason.
1. Communicate more than parents, learn to combine feelings and reason; 2. Learn to be friends with parents and communicate more when you have questions; 3. Correctly handle interpersonal relationships and think about others in the face of conflicts; 4. Cultivate self-esteem, self-confidence and social responsibility.
People have times of rebellion, and rebellion is a kind of psychology. In this mental process, making oneself happy is the most important thing. Rebellion is a kind of psychological loneliness, that is, unhappiness, if you want to make yourself happy, you must be interested in life, that is, you must be in a good mood. >>>More
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