A 30 year old man who doesn t have a girlfriend and doesn t have a boyfriend at 30, how do I find on

You should have had a relationship with him, but that man is not interested in you, and he doesn't want to take the initiative to send it to the door, there are 2 possibilities.

First: It's not that he doesn't want to, it's that he's not interested in you.

Second: He is indeed a rare good man, there are many such people in the world, what about hypocrisy? You should be hypocritical in front of others!

I would like to ask the downstairs owner, are you male or female?

The answer added: My dad, which man in the world is not lustful? (Unless.)

There is no unless, the eunuchs are just as lustful).If you want to know so much, just ask him. Everyone's mind is different, hehe, are you a reserved lady?

Reserved is not the right word, right? It's not easy to ask this question. There's no way to think too purely.

Continue to ask one more question: How old is the landlord this year?

Why am I interested in you? You say you're just curious? Then I'm just curious.

I don't dare to go any further, seeing that you seem to be angry, what I said is just casual talk. Don't take it personally.

Maybe I don't understand, (I'm under 20 years old this year, adult) when will your problem be solved?

Give it to me, hehe.

Individuals have personal preferences, some girls like mature men, some like Sven men, love has no age limit, as long as it is sincere, what is 40 or 50? Men in their 30s should value more of a woman's ability to run a house, after all, you are not too young, let others see that you have a high ability and temperament; Then there will definitely be girls thrown into your arms, I wish you a good marriage soon!

I haven't seen a good guy is put.

What you mean is that when you see a woman, you should go up.

What a hypocrisy these women are today.

While shouting that he couldn't find a good man, he ran into it, and said that he was hypocritical.

It's disgusting.

What's so bad about such a man? Have a successful career, and don't mess with the relationship between men and women. "Sex" is not the whole of a motivated man, it is you who see "sex" as everything!

To be honest, many of my friends around me are almost in their 30s, and they are all busy with their careers, not that they are career freaks, they are in order to make their wives and children live a better life in the future; No one sees "sex" as the whole of life.

If it's like you said, you might as well be a "duck". If you have what you call "a man like him", it is definitely your happiness.

Good drip. It's a great story, but I'm just here to score it.

There are really good men in the world.

Hope they don't meet bad women.!

If he cheats. You can't help it, believe in the good side. Optimism.

Oh, hehe, I'm here to help you out, maybe he's saying the opposite, it's for you.

But it's also possible that he's a career-oriented man who doesn't have a great need for love right now.

What do you mean, if you look at it, just tell him, don't regret it.

Maybe he really doesn't eat the fireworks of the world.

Don't worry about this for men, my name is Sanshun in Jin Sanshun, and I am still a woman, and I also have a boyfriend in my 30s.

Generally, girls who don't have a boyfriend at the age of 30 are mostly independent enough and have a stable income, so they were busy with their careers before, ignoring the emotional part, and when their economic conditions are stable enough, they find that their emotional world is blank, and they will be urged by the people around them at this time.

However, I still suggest that you never start a relationship casually because of your age, let alone get married because you are old, it is irresponsible to yourself.

From now on, you can stop yourself from staying at home on your days off, and at the same time, expand your circle of friends, and most of the people you come into contact with in your thirties are colleagues.

You can get in touch with more people in your work partners, and then see if there are any people you like and who also like you, start with friends, and slowly understand that most of the partners of people at this age are born from colleagues.

Of course, you can also actively participate in class reunions, so many years of classmates, understand each other better, everyone has changed a lot when they grow up, in the party may be able to find the person you like, the classmate love developed into love.

Of course, if it's because you're more introverted and not very good at expressing yourself, then start by changing yourself, after all, finding a boyfriend also needs to express and communicate, the former is to let others understand you, the latter is for you to understand each other and enhance your relationship, no one will want to be closer to a silent person.

Secondly, as a girl, learn to dress up yourself, after all, excellent appearance is also your plus, dress decently and generously, buy some clothes that suit you, learn to wear simple makeup, can make you more attractive, love sometimes needs to take the initiative, there is nothing wrong with being reserved, but if you meet it, you have to create opportunities for yourself, grasp it well, happiness is something you need to strive for.

I think the best way is to go on a blind date, which is the fastest way for older young women to get rid of singles.

I think you can get the matchmaker to introduce you. Matchmakers have a lot of resources at their disposal so that you can meet some people.

I think the best way is to go on a blind date, which is the most ideal way for leftover women to get rid of singles.

It may be that his vision is relatively high, and his conditions may not be so good, and he has never met the right one, so he has not fallen in love. Or this woman, she doesn't like guys.

First, influenced by the people around them, because many people around them are unhappy after getting married, they don't want to come to this point, so they don't even want to talk about love;

second, the requirements for boyfriends are relatively high, and many boys' conditions can't get into her eyes;

Third, I like freedom, and I feel that a person lives a tasteful, poetic, free, and doesn't need a boyfriend.

It may be because you are too demanding, or you have never met the other half of your heart, or you don't want to find a satisfactory boyfriend, or you haven't considered marriage at all, or because your original family has been hurt for these reasons.

The first is that the requirements are high, and I haven't met the right one, and the second is that the appearance and figure are poor, and no man likes it.

I think it's their own factors, their personalities may not be very good, so others don't like them, so they haven't talked about boyfriends.

Because women are getting better and better, they are demanding more and more from their other half, and they are not willing to compromise even if they are single.

For a 30-year-old boy, in fact, neither salary nor status can enter the eyes of girls of the same age. So the boy who knows this well has chosen not to have a girlfriend and not to date girls. After all, as a man, they know too well that their advantage is in the **, that is, after the age of 40, that is, after the career is successful.

When they are 40 years old, they don't have to look for them, and naturally young and beautiful girls will be sent to the door. So before that, these boys only need to patiently accumulate strength, as long as they grow up patiently, after all, the time has not come, even if they pay sincerely, they will not receive a return! For modern society, we still have to admit that in modern society, the pressure on boys is increasing.

Whether it's in love, or getting married, or living after marriage.

The most obvious example is that a girl with ten yuan will definitely drink a cup of milk tea, while a boy with ten yuan will definitely choose to drink mineral water for 2 yuan, and 8 yuan will definitely be saved. It is this kind of unfair responsibility and obligation that will inevitably lead to boys who are unwilling to find girlfriends and enter into marriage. It's not that they don't want to take responsibility, it's that the responsibilities and obligations between men and women are really not equal enough in this relationship.

At the age of thirty, his career has just started, and it is the critical stage of climbing the hill and making contributions, and all kinds of pressure, competition and unfriendliness from the society, the unit, relatives and friends have already made a man anxious. Today's society is developing rapidly, and the living environment is changing with each passing day. As a man, his territory has not been divided, and food and clothing have not been solved, what energy do you have to talk about a romantic relationship?

There is also the current woman, the vision is becoming more and more realistic, the era of love and water has passed, and love seems to have no nutrition and value in the eyes of people now, so there is no woman willing to marry naked with you at all, so even some men want to start a family first and then start a business, but they can't realize this wish at all.

And the matter of relationship and marriage is a two-way choice, not only does a woman want to choose a man with better conditions, but will a man also choose this woman to meet his heart? Is it your own ballad? So in this way, everyone chooses to choose the past, the more difficult it is, the more outrageous it becomes, and the final result is that there are more and more leftover men and women in this society, which is also created by the atmosphere of the times, and no one can crack it.

I think it's mainly because they want to run for a career at this age, so they are not too anxious to find a girlfriend, and I think it's mainly because people are more open-minded now.

Because young people nowadays get married relatively late, and there are many people who get married after the age of 30, so 30-year-old men are not in a hurry now.

Because they know that it's useless to be in a hurry to find a girlfriend, and girls nowadays are very demanding of their boyfriends, so they simply make money to spend or save money for themselves.

The main reason is that men haven't made enough money and want to be free for a while, so they are not in a hurry to find a girlfriend.

Men who often eat, drink, and have fun, often go to bars, are not self-motivated, do not do their jobs, often look down on people, stand in their thirties, and do not have a girlfriend.

It's particularly lazy to eat, has no own opinions, relies on parents, has a more irritable temper, looks ugly, and has a more introverted personality.

Skinny is very thin-skinned, embarrassed to confess, can't speak, easy to offend people, no stable job, no economy, lazy, not motivated, like gambling.

I went to college, I was also an adult, and I had a girl I liked in school, because I had never confessed to a girl, and I was very afraid of rejection in my heart, so I kept burying my love for her deeply, and turned it into a secret love, at that time, my thoughts were still very simple, as long as I could watch her every day, it would be good, not all boys think so,Until one day, other boys confessed to her, and the girl I had liked for a long time became someone else's girlfriend, and at that moment I felt really incompetent.

As a man, when you meet a girl you like, you must muster up the courage to confess, don't be afraid of failure, in case you succeed, if you let others take the lead, will you regret it?

I think it may be too simple, for example, I am 30 years old and have never talked about a girlfriend, because my personality is too shy, and I am always too simple in my interactions with others, so I have never talked about a girlfriend.

In this way, it can be said that this man is too incompetent, and he has not talked about a girlfriend at this age, which means that he should be very poor in all aspects, so he will always be single.

1.Inferiority complex or the harm caused by the family of origin leads to cognitive distortions2Workers with higher education, such as scientific research. It doesn't mean that there are many reasons for incompetence.

Personally, I think it's too incompetent, because I think that a man who hasn't had a girlfriend at the age of 30 is enough to show that the man has a problem with his ability.

It should be too bad, maybe it's because of my own charm is not enough, or my ability is not strong, so I don't have a girlfriend.

I think it's too simple, that's why I've never talked about a girlfriend, I should be more introverted, and I don't know how to chase girls.

It should be too simple, and I never want to have a girlfriend, so I will never have a girlfriend in my life.