I really don t think friends are boring right now

Calm down and think about what the problem is, the fault is you or him, if you are in yourself, what to do next, if not you, don't take it to heart, if the other party realizes that it is wrong, it will naturally take the initiative to say sorry to you, ask for reunion, find something easy to do, relax your nerves! It is inevitable that there will be some contradictions between friends, if there is no contradiction, it will be too bland, and after experiencing the wind and rain, it will appear that friendship is precious, and the true value of friendship will be revealed!

You're still in school, I suggest you do a good job in your studies first, nothing else matters, I'm from the past, although I can't talk about experience, but everything has a priority, the friendship between classmates is difficult, but I think studies are more important than everything.

When I was in school, I was a big girl, and I knew how terrible jealousy and stinginess were between girls, so at that time, I basically came into contact with boys, because their way of thinking and belly volume were completely different from girls, and now I find that I still benefit from contact with them.

If there is no way, you can put this problem aside for a while, misunderstandings between classmates are inevitable, first self-reflection, whether it is really wrong, find an opportunity to talk about it, this time to divert your attention, you have other activities and interests waiting for you to participate, and don't force yourself too much to do things you don't want to do. Over time, everything will be fine.

People can only rely on themselves!! Maybe there are people who help you when you are in trouble, but in your heart, you can't rely on your heart. In this way, you will not be disappointed, and you will know how to protect yourself better.

Everyone has the urge to help others, find an opportunity and ask him to do you a favor. After that, invite him to a meal and chat together, won't the previous tension disappear?

Initiative is key.

In life, it is impossible to maintain a good relationship with everyone, which is unrealistic, so there is no need to care too much.

Let's put the current things in place first.

The exam is over. Again.

Take it for yourself.

Don't worry! People need to be lonely sometimes.

yes, I think so too!

How can a person who is proactive in helping others and who is willing to help others not have friends? Right? In my opinion, if you want to have a real friendship, then you have to take the initiative to help others!

A person who helps others will have many, many friends around him! He will live a very happy life!

It's not easy to make a real friend, and it also takes fate, but you can lower your requirements a little bit, so that you will find more friends, and then you will find real friends by paying attention to them.

It's not easy for people to really make a close friend in this life, sometimes I think it should be fate, don't have any psychological burden, just be yourself.

You don't have real friends, but you may not treat them with sincerity There are fewer sincere friends among friends, and there are more friends who drink and meat, depending on how you get along with each other, only sincerity will be exchanged for sincere friends, and friends are better than relatives.

You try to change the way you get along with anyone, if you get along with others happily, you will find that others are easy to enter your heart, you will slowly enter the hearts of others, after a long time you will find that others treat people as friends, you will also treat others as friends, we ourselves don't be too selfish.

Then slowly change yourself, self-cultivation, the relationship between people and people in this society is closely linked, you have me, I have you, thank you for many people to help us grow, without others and society we will not have a stable life, with an altruistic heart, really care about others, we are good to others, people will be good to us.

Nowadays people are too realistic, no matter how good a friend you are, when it comes to money, it's nothing, it's not nothing, it's just that it feels special, alas, it's not easy to make friends in this life.

Since I was a child, I have been talking about my good friends who are ......When I grew up, my friends changed and changed, and when I finally stopped to look, I found that I didn't have any friends who could put my heart to heart. As we grow up, we all have our own secrets, so we can only say that we can't be too strict when making friends! Even the best friends have to leave room for each other.

That's something wrong with you, it means that you are a very introverted and lonely person, you have to slowly build a circle of friends, contact more people, go outside more, don't stay in your own home all day, expand your circle of friends, and slowly there will be more friends.

Every true friend is handed over with heart, as long as you do your best with your heart, tolerant and understanding of friends, as the saying goes, it is a blessing to suffer a loss, use time to precipitate the people around you, there will always be real friends! I'm sure you'll find ......

You can't look at yourself too highly, so that others are not close to you, you have to put down the shelf and contact with people, you must be willing to help others when they are in trouble, sincerely exchange sincerity, and become friends over time, but friends can not be separated, just have it in your heart, just help each other when you encounter problems, and there are not many friends in today's society for others, so make friends slowly.

If you really don't have any friends, then you should reflect on your own faults and try to change, believing that your friends will become more and more.

Then you have to find the problem from yourself, a person must learn to be magnanimous and do things, and you must not be too careful. In the workplace, learn to help each other with your colleagues. I believe you will have many friends in the future.

You are introverted and don't like to communicate with people, so naturally you can't play with anyone, be cheerful, have more contact with people, don't close yourself, and slowly you will have a lot of friends.

Real friends are fate and friendship in exchange for laziness, friends are heart-to-heart, you treat others with sincerity, others can treat you, is mutual respect, understanding, it can also be said that some friends are heart-to-heart, and husband and wife are not much worse to be friends, you try to see it.

Because you yourself have not been sincere to others, others will not be sincere to you. Everything is mutually beneficial. Don't worry too much about friends, always feel that you have suffered a loss, your heart is unbalanced, and you must win it back next time.

With such a mentality, you will definitely not be able to make close friends when you get along with others. Friends should treat each other with sincerity, not be careful, and be polite in tone, and they will definitely be able to make good friends.

That's because you're wary of people, and you may think that people come to know you for a purpose, so you don't have the heart to communicate with people!

It's hard to make a friend who can really give your back to someone else!

Let go of your guards, feel the joy of communicating with people, and slowly make real good friends!

First of all, I want to ask you, do you really treat others among the friends you get along with? If you want you to be genuine to others, I believe that your efforts will be rewarded, if you don't. Let's see what you may encounter in the future, and if you correct it now, there will still be a chance.

I don't have either, I feel lonely, and I feel used to it, maybe my personality is incompatible, so I can't reach a consensus with friends, rather than maintaining a friend who doesn't care, it's better to make a close friend.

You can't stand in this society alone, only by making more friends, your future path can be broader, so you can try to change the communication between yourself and your friends.

That's your problem, you can't blame others. For a person to make true friends, he must be heart-to-heart, treat people with sincerity, and treat people with sincerity. You are careful in making friends, and you don't have good intentions, of course, you don't have real friends!

So I hope you get rid of your bad habits and make good friends sincerely.

Summary. Maybe there is a change in your life circle that makes you unable to adapt right away, which makes you feel at a loss. I had just started college and left my brothers in high school, and I was probably in the same mood as you at that time, looking at my classmates in college who were not pleasing to the eye.

But then I got better and got used to it. In addition to your boyfriend circle, you must have your own circle of life. For example, the work circle, or the neighborhood where you live.

There are many places to make friends. Take the initiative to associate with the people you know, and everything will be fine.

Maybe there is a change in your life circle that makes you unable to adapt right away, which makes you feel at a loss. I had just started college and left my brothers in high school, and I was probably in the same mood as you at that time, looking at my classmates in college who were not pleasing to the eye. But then I got better and got used to it.

In addition to your boyfriend circle, you must have your own circle of life. For example, the work circle, or the neighborhood where you live. There are many places to make friends.

Take the initiative to associate with the people you know, and everything will be fine.

In life, loneliness is the norm, just get used to it slowly.

Why did I graduate from high school, I lost contact with my classmates in high school, I didn't have good friends in junior high school, I didn't have high school, I didn't have college, is it my personality problem?

It's just that you don't want to deal with socializing, and if you don't take the initiative to contact them, the relationship will naturally fade away.

Need to reach out? I wondered if it would be very disturbing to reach out to the other person, as if I wasn't a very good chatter.

If you want to pick up this friendship, you have to take the initiative, if you don't take the initiative, naturally someone will take the initiative, then he will play with the person who takes the initiative.

Well, thank you.

Friendship will also be consumed, don't think that friends should give unconditionally, because if it is always unilateral, this friendship will be broken over time. If you want to change this situation, you should take action immediately, don't go out with some so-called new friends on holidays, but instead spend time with your long-time friends. Over time, such friends will develop into new friends, and you will no longer feel lonely.

Maybe a lot of friends are friends of wine and meat, and then there are few who don't have sincerity, few people think so in your heart, and there are few people who can confide in their hearts.

This is a very normal thing, after all, everyone does not feel that they have many friends, and they will have different ideas from others.

It's because I have never paid attention to the fate around me, and I always choose to escape when I encounter things, so I should have more contact with my friends.

I don't think there's any need to explain anything at this time, it's the most important thing to be yourself, and others can say whatever they want.

【Bai What is a friend】

An ordinary friend has never seen it.

zhi you cry.

Dao, a dedicated true friend with a pair of shoulders that will make your tears water.

An ordinary friend doesn't know your parents' last names.

A real friend has their** on the address book.

An ordinary friend will bring a bottle of wine to your party.

A true friend will come early to help you get ready and leave later to help you clean.

An ordinary friend hates you calling after he sleeps.

A true friend will ask why it's only called now.

An ordinary friend comes to you to talk about your troubles.

A real friend comes to you to solve your troubles.

An ordinary friend is curious about your romance.

A true friend can threaten you to speak out.

An ordinary friend, when visiting, is like a guest.

A true friend will open the fridge and take things himself.

An ordinary friend thinks the friendship is over after a quarrel.

A true friend understands that true friendship is not called when you haven't fought before.

An ordinary friend expects you to always be there for him.

A true friend expects him to be by your side forever!

Keep an eye on your friends! See how many real friends you have!

When you are lonely, copy me been, anyway, I am lonely when you are lonely, I am getting more and more tired of living, friends should share each other's pain when they are sad, if you are sad, you will occasionally accompany the drop, you don't need to be happy, when you are sad and unhappy, look for me, anyway, I am not happy every day, it is not a big deal to share, you are happy.

Hehe, this feeling is normal.

Because friends are not themselves after all.

Some things can only be borne by yourself, right?

Of course there is, the role of friends is the icing on the cake! But the adult world has a sense of boundaries, everyone is an independent individual, and two people can only become friends if they are evenly matched.

Hehe, friends of the opposite sex can not only play with him, but also a little bit of use, not to mention other friends, hehe,

It is said that Zhumen's wine and meat stink, the road has frozen bones, sometimes there are mountains and mountains, and trees and trees die, if he is in the court, when he is unreliable, he will not disturb others as much as possible, leave himself a little bottom line, dignity, do not burden relatives and friends, do not make others look down on him, and do not go in vain in the world.