I don t feel like I m doing anything right now

Haha, this dude! Who says you don't have merit? I don't know about you, but I think it's good for you to have the courage to ask questions and ask people to help you solve them!

It is also valuable that you think very differently from other people's ideas, which means that you have your own opinions, have your own position, and do not follow the crowd. Don't be too inferior. Each person is unique, just like there are no two identical leaves in the world.

The most important thing is to affirm yourself so that you have a chance to be affirmed by others!

You are a landscape.

Hu Xichun was born in the world, exists in the universe, you are not more than others, not less than others, with the scorching sun, bathed in the bright moonlight, the mind is not lacking, there is no lack of mental strength, as long as you have the courage to show your talent, personality and style, then, you do not need to look up to others.

You are a landscape. Don't hide behind the peaks of the sea of clouds, don't hide in the green bamboo and green forests, you are a stone in the majestic mountains, and a plant in the forest. Therefore, you don't need to be in awe of the famous mountains and rivers, you don't need to admire the desert and the lonely smoke, your "" existence is itself explaining all the scenery in the world; Your existence is a kind of style of the times!

You don't have to go to the crowd, you just stand in your own position, constantly show the rich connotation of your inner world, give beauty to the pale surroundings, poetry to the vulgar days, freshen the dull air, wipe up a sun every day, and use the strings of nature to play your favorite heart song.

Natural beauty has the naturalness that does not depend on people's will, plum blossoms have their own plum blossom charm, red apricots have their own red apricot beauty, and now it is often more important to recognize yourself than to look at others. There is no need to blindly praise others and belittle yourself, you should stand up boldly, stand shoulder to shoulder with the best landscape, as long as you pursue unremittingly, believe in you, and are not worse than others. Really, you can!

The beauty of green bamboo, the magnificence of green pine, the chic of willows, and the gentleness of bluegrass are all given different styles by nature, all of which show the brilliance of life in their respective lands. What is needed today is not self-humility, but self-confidence. For a long, long time, false humility ruined the display of individuality, imitation, dress-up, plastic surgery, so that people could not recognize your true face, I don't know which one is you, and the scene is like the same specifications fired by ancient brick kilns.

The scenery is unique here! It's all good.

We have neglected this "independence" too much.

The world's most recognized attractions are unique: the pyramids of Egypt, the ancient Great Wall of China; The Arc de Triomphe of France, the Colosseum ......The world's most admired scenery is also unique: the sunrise over Mount Tai, the water city of Venice, the tropical rainforest, the Sahara Desert ......Most of the people we can remember are full of personality traits:

Ah Q's "happiness", Robinson's perseverance, Wang Xifeng's smile hides a knife, and Othello is jealous and kills ......Let the personality accompany you, standing should be a mountain, and falling down is the roadbed; It enlightens when it is complete, and awakens it when ......it is brokenYou are not more than others, you are not less than others, you don't need to look at people's eyes to know that you make a declaration with your figure in the sun: you are a landscape!

There are many people who feel like you, I think it's good for you to live like this, healthy, no burden, what's wrong?

This situation may turn into depression over time. Find your own time to relax.

Go with the flow, and of course, you'll have to give yourself a chance.

1.Learning is required by parents and society. This has to mention what their motives are to the request of the parents, common for two reasons:

In terms of my own experience. If you read a lot of books, then the people you come into contact with are different from society, as well as your own circle, which means that they will build on their own cognitive level and do as much as possible for you, which is required by people's feelings;

Conform. Because I read few books, I suffered a lot of losses and suffered a lot of tiredness, and I was unwilling to let my children go the same way. However, in reality, the only shortcut is to let your children change their destiny through reading.

As for social requirements, we have to mention the relationship between people and society. People are not only the creators of society, but also the participants of society, and people cannot do without society. It can be summed up in one sentence:

Let people pursue a better life.

Human nature is not willing to endure hardship, more to enjoy happiness and satisfaction, if you do not study, do not understand the outside world, want to go through the history of human civilization through a few decades of time, it is unrealistic. Do you want to ask, why do you have to leave if it is so difficult? The reason is simple, better.

In addition, reading books is ultimately for oneself, and all your thoughts, thoughts, and doubts are based on what you know or that extends from your own cognition. Do you think it's useless to read?

2.Work is forced by life. You only said one aspect of it, that you work to earn an income, to be able to live.

On the other hand, it is the realization of personal value. A lot of work is expected by individuals, and they want to work hard to achieve something, so sometimes you see some people who are working hard, maybe they are realizing their own value. If reading is to make one's life better, then working is to make one's own life.

3.Social section,You can choose not to, but in reality, there are no people who are completely isolated, such as socializing with family and loved ones, with lovers, and with people who share common hobbies. In social interactions, it is essential to satisfy the individual's satisfaction with a sense of security, love and belonging, and respect.

Socializing can also alleviate feelings of loneliness and loneliness. Because you have it now, you can't imagine what it's like to lose. People are all interested in the good and avoid the bad, but they are also afraid of sadness and failure, so people are trying to avoid these situations.

If reading is to make one's life better, and working is to one's own life, then socializing provides the necessary resources for one's better life.

It is advisable to go to the psychiatric department of the hospital for a check-up to see if you are depressed. Depression requires medication** and then going out for a walk.

I think when we do something, we still have to find the joy of doing it. If we don't love this thing and are not interested in it, we will naturally not be able to persist and do not want to do it.

Then find something you are interested in to do, why is your heart messy, you should be calm in order to do what you want to do.

Summary. Kiss is happy to answer for you I feel that I have everything and nothing, this is because I feel very empty inside. That is, there is no ideal, no dream, no goal, and a lack of direction.

Man is the only animal that can question the meaning of his existence. This is the greatness of man, and it is also the tragedy of man. Man is the measure of all things, because everything in the world has a relationship with man, so we are used to using ourselves as a measure to measure all things and seek the meaning of all things.

Kiss is happy to answer for you I feel that I have everything and nothing, this is because I feel very empty inside. That is, there is no ideal, no dream, no goal, and a lack of direction. Man is the only animal that can ask about the meaning of his own existence.

This is the greatness of man, and it is also the tragedy of man. Man is the measure of all things, because everything in the world is related to man, so we are accustomed to measuring all things as a yardstick, seeking to grasp the meaning of all things.

Kiss, for you to expand as follows: feel that you have everything and nothing to distract yourself, you can try to socialize, this can improve this problem. Tips for socializing with high emotional intelligence:

1. Learn to observe others. Learning to distinguish who you want to communicate with will help you develop your communication strategy in the next few steps. 2. Always practice and summarize.

Social interaction can improve the utilization of your emotional intelligence skills, and in your spare time, review what you do well, how to improve it in the next communication. 3. Care about what the other party needs, what kind of value you can create, and how to achieve a win-win situation. 4. Find similarities.

Know yourself and know your opponent, learn more about what the other person is interested in, try your best to dig out what you have in common, and create common ground if you can't do it. 5. Learn to praise. Praise should be meticulous and praise to the point, otherwise it will be flattery.

Summary. Hello, from your state, there is some depression, depression will not only cause greater harm to yourself, but also will pass on bad emotions to others. Talking to friends and family can help reduce depression.

Or participate in more recreational activities when you are depressed. For example, outings, singing; Dancing, swimming, etc., insist on about half an hour a day, and perseverance, can effectively relieve depression.

Suddenly I felt that I was bored with what to do.

Hello, from your state, there is some depression, depression will not only cause greater harm to yourself, but also will pass on bad emotions to others. Talking to friends and family can help reduce depression. Or participate in more recreational activities when you are depressed.

For example, outings, singing; Dancing, swimming, etc., insist on about half an hour a day, and perseverance, can effectively relieve depression.

Have you had any difficulties lately?

You can talk to someone who knows your situation very well, and don't make big decisions, such as changing jobs, getting married, or divorcing. You write down your feelings, then analyze them, recognize them, what is negative, and then find a way to get rid of them.