How many times does a person have to go through the same pain in his life to comprehend it?

It's not just elopement that proves true love Young man, don't be impulsive It's okay if his family is against it, I think if you are confident enough, you can take her to work in a place far from her hometown Doesn't she want to break her parents' hearts? But if you go out to work together, if you can live a decent life, then her family will slowly accept you If you elope, her family will never forgive you and will not bring happiness to your beloved her!

Think about it, don't do anything stupid

May you get your true love and get the approval of her parents

Go, go, go!! A manly man dares to do it!! It's the best thing she needs from you!!

Then use action to move her family!!

Get along for four months and let the family go**。。。 I can't imagine what your girlfriend thinks... I can't imagine how you love her ... I can only say that you are all too ignorant.

Now the only way is that you don't stop loving her, and then wait for the facts to prove that you love her and are willing to be with her for the rest of your life! Her family conditions are not good, you can go to her family and say that you want to marry her, and then earn money with her to support her parents... Although it was a little late to go to her house, you can't hide, what are you afraid of for the happiness of your life?

Last blessings to you all!

It's not about how much you experience, but how much you hurt in the experience, and the deeper you hurt, the more you realize

Just the idea is not to trip over the same stone 2 times

I will talk about the things about the family with her first. Things work themselves out.

If you can make her happy, elope!

My boyfriend and I are in this situation, but the ending is not good, you can think about it. Treasure.

Then you go outside with her and live your own life.

I support you.

So do something innovative, but with the help of your family.

It's important to make it new, and it's inevitable to kneel anyway.

Elopement also has to be rich to live.

Everyone's life is a hard practice of seventy-two changes, and it is difficult to laugh at eighty-one. When you have nothing, hold on; When you have everything, calm down. From: Six young children.

The meaning is probably that life is like a Journey to the West, the long road of life, we will experience ninety-nine eighty-one difficulties, often difficult to survive a catastrophe and a catastrophe, and the Buddha did not equip each of us with a Monkey King, so many times the problems in life will make us overwhelmed, we will be painful, struggling, hesitating, hesitating, and of course thinking about giving up.

But life is a road that is destined to be irreversible from the moment of birth, no matter how hard life is, you can only grit your teeth and move forward. If you want to make yourself less miserable, the only way is to make yourself stronger and stronger, like Monkey King. Because, only by practicing seventy-two changes can you laugh at the eighty-one difficulties in life.

Work hard to practice the ability to do good things and make a living.

In this world, the most difficult thing is to return the favor, if you learn more skills, you can say less words of begging, more skills, in order to better support yourself and treat your family. If you are young and not ruthless, you will be sad in the future, and if you don't work hard now, you will still not be satisfied in the future.

Once, all the wind and clouds were light, and someone was carrying the weight for you. And when you move forward with a load, that is, when they are light, no one can help you for a lifetime. If you want to fall, no one will help you, if you want to struggle, no one will stop you, in this life, you can only rely on yourself.

How much ability you have, how much suffering you can endure, how much life you can ask God for in the future.

Responsibility, when it is time to shoulder your shoulders, don't flinch, the appearance of hypocrisy and weakness is not beautiful. If you want to be good in the future, you have to work hard now. Only by practicing 72 changes first can you laugh at the difficulty of 9981.

People are born, old, sick and die, they will get old and sick, and they may become sweeter and sweeter, and if you feel that it will be more and more painful, it will be more and more painful, and if you feel that life is very beautiful, then it will be more and more beautiful, and I wish you a better and better life.

People have money and health in their lives, they are very happy, no money and have to work hard and do not worry, the more they live, the more painful they are, as long as people are motivated and hard to get rich, even if it is a hard life, I believe that it will always come to an end. People live in the world for a while, eat and drink well, and have fun. I just want to be happy, and leave the pain to myself tomorrow.

Pain has nothing to do with money, not necessarily more money is less pain, there is money, others are lacking, no money is also lacking, but without money, you can only want to earn money first, you can't think of anything else, or it doesn't matter, he thinks that money can solve everything. No, I know that everyone is the same.

When you're young: You can do whatever you want for yourself.

When you start a family: It's the process of your gradual maturity.

When you start a business: you will be trapped by life, family, and relationships, and you are no longer yourself.

There must be more pain than when I was a child, because as I get older, I don't have the same cognition, I have more, of course, I lose more, and loss is accompanied by pain, and a person's life is to grow slowly in the process of losing and having, which is the only way for everyone. If the family is in good health, all other pains are nothing.

Life is always a process of ups and downs, and the uncertainty of the future is the original face of life.

A person's life should be a process of getting better and better. Our continuous progress and continuous efforts will be sufficient in spirit and strength.

Why is it painful because your strength does not match your experience.

Of course not! A person's life is a cyclical process of problems and problems. So don't encounter some problems, just feel that you can't get by, there is no hurdle in life that you can't pass, what you fight is your spirit of not admitting defeat and optimism.

The human brain is amazing, it selectively memorizes certain things, which is actually a mindset. For example, if you are depressed for a long time, you think too much, and you feel that you are living a miserable life, which is not going well, and that is not going well, and in the long run, your brain is actually used to your way of thinking. In other words, sometimes it's not that you're really depressed and feel miserable in your heart, but that your long-term thinking patterns have already acted on your brain.

Once the brain has this effect, it will cycle and repeat this brain suggestion, making you feel depressed and miserable inexplicably from time to time.

Judging from my own experience, in fact, don't think too much about life, and don't sigh too much. When you encounter a problem, face the problem, analyze it positively, find out how to solve the problem, and when the problem is solved, you will naturally be relaxed and will not feel troubled and painful. If you feel that people's lives are becoming more and more painful, it can only mean that as people get older, they have more and more responsibilities and obligations to fulfill.

If you don't have any skills, you will indeed be in a hurry and overwhelmed when facing too many problems.

But only by going through these can you grow! This is a necessary stage of life. It's not pain, it's trials and grinds. Be brave, be the controller of your own life, and don't be led by fate.

Being alive is painful in itself, and along this line of thinking, it is bound to become more and more painful.

Hello, dear. Whether a person's life is painful or not depends on the factors that are obtained through acquired efforts, and whether his own open-mindedness is big enough. We hope you are happy every day!

Of course not, there will always be failures, and there will be successes. God will only set up a passable tribulation for you, no matter how difficult the life is, no matter how sad the ditch, we grit our teeth, and it will be over. I've been hurt and cried, and then I smiled and said to myself, don't be wronged, don't be sad, this is life.

It depends on your own experience and inner opinion.

If life is high and low, don't pay too much attention to it, accept the fact that you are becoming more and more ordinary, turn your heart to the sun, and reduce the pain. If life is moving up, that's the best. Pain is actually difficult to define, but happiness is easy to define, live your life to the fullest, let yourself enjoy.

Life is a joy in life, from infants, toddlers, elementary school students, middle school students, high school students, college students, etc., to work and become parents. Relieve stress in a timely manner, exercise more, take leisure appropriately, travel, chat with family and friends, etc., and maintain an optimistic attitude.

Not exactly.

The more you know and the more you know, the less likely you are to be happy.