I don t know how to go this way, who will show me the way

I just want to talk about some of my own experience, first of all, I am the same as you 24, and you are the same college graduate, and you have wasted 3 years of study, after I graduated, I went to a private company to do early and dark work, from 1200 a month has been working for 1 and a half years, in September this year, I feel that my work is too far away from home, half a year back home, I calculated, parents 63 64 years are more than 50 this year, at most parents can accompany themselves for more than 20 years, I can only meet more than 40 times when I go home half a year, and I go home, After staying for a month, I found a service industry as a supervisor, I think it looks like our recent college graduates, don't think about any too good jobs now, what we need now is work experience and social experience, these two things are wealth, with these two things we have the right to pick a job.

Finding a good job, more specifically a promising job, lies in one's own core competitiveness, knowledge structure, academic certificates and even social experience are essential, but it is not something that can be achieved overnight. Generally speaking, accumulation is very important, and accumulation lies in time and experience, which is not a monotonous repetitive work or casual engineering habits can be done. As far as you can see, the professional advantages are not obvious, and the work experience is relatively simple, which are all shortcomings; The key is that I have already realized something, so it's not too late to start working hard from now.

Around us, there is no shortage of executives who started from the front desk or operators, and there are also Kochi who have only three or junior college degrees for the first degree, and they all have the common characteristics of being good at learning, willing to learn, and brave to face challenges. Don't sigh for the time wasted in the past, the past is no longer traceable, choose the future development path, you need to consider the new starting point suitable for your character, ability and endowment, the future job position, should be in demand by the society, be able to play their own strengths, and have room for self-improvement and self-improvement. A few suggestions for you:

1. Don't give up on self-examination, but the choice of major should be in line with your interests and future development, the certificate is one thing, and it is especially important to learn useful knowledge through this, and the most important thing is to be able to persevere; Second, first engage in a job that can support yourself, and at the same time constantly improve your ability to find better opportunities (not to mention that customer service and cashier are worthless, the former can improve your ability to interact with people, and the latter can exercise the thoroughness and organization of work); Third, the mentality should be healthy, we have all encountered anxiety, irritability and self-denial, doubting that they are useless, this is the normal stage of growth, some people are early and some are late, but I believe that I am born to be talented, the wonder of the future lies in the unpredictable, firm confidence and high morale will help you understand the right direction! Finally, I wish you a happy and satisfying harvest in your career and love :)

I think you lack the courage to persevere, and you retreat when there are difficulties in everything, and you will never have good results in this way, don't think about pie in the sky, drop a rich and handsome, and you have to rely on yourself for everything.

From now on, just do it.

Approach life with a positive and serious attitude.

In the course of everyone's life, we will always encounter such and such setbacks and difficulties, and our cognitive ability of the natural world, society and life is limited, so there are often times when we are exhausted.

But life has given us an answer, and how to make life a perfect answer, we need to enrich our knowledge, skills and talents.

In study and work, we may feel very tired, but today, with the rapid development of information and science and technology, and the fierce competition for talents, we have no choice but to complete our studies and work tasks through active and serious efforts, and master one or several life skills and work skills in order to be invincible in today's society.

Everyone has been criticized in front of a teacher or a boss and they are constantly saying, "See what you're going to do?" If you don't study well, you won't be able to use technology!

Classmates and colleagues will laugh at you for your clumsiness. Do you think about it, what self-esteem do you have when you get into this field? If you can't go to a higher school, your salary is small, and your family life will be difficult!

What to do? Facing life with a positive and serious work attitude and life attitude - charging, on the one hand, we strive to study and study various scientific knowledge, on the other hand, we can master several survival skills and work skills, and we must exercise interpersonal skills, make achievements in academics and create in our work, so as to win everyone's respect! At the same time, it will also be accompanied by an increase in wages and an improvement in family housing, so that you will have a good living environment.

The road of life is very long, we must face the hardships and pains, difficulties and ups and downs in life, we are brave and will never be crushed by the unsatisfactory in life!

The road is walked, not thought out.

Don't stay at home and just do what you want to do.

Since you are so afraid of other people's eyes, you can try to go to another city and start another life.

Life is not as scary as you think, if you have the courage, you will have a chance anywhere. A high degree is just a stepping stone, the most important thing about the job is your attitude towards the job and your personal ability. So don't give up on yourself and plan your life well.

Everyone has their own path, since you have chosen your path, it is useless for you to regret it, there is no turning back, after all, you are only eighteen years old, and you still have a long way to go. Don't hesitate on the road anymore, the most important thing is to move forward bravely.

Another point is to be optimistic, I think a large part of your classmates will not discriminate against you because of your low education, these are just your assumptions, and it is a normal psychological effect. As long as you work hard and work steadfastly, I believe you will win the respect of many people.

Rule 1: Find someone who has a similar experience to you, and then support each other to go on;

Article 2: If you go to a technical school, if you don't have tuition, you can work first, and even if you meet acquaintances, you won't be so embarrassed anymore, because you already have a dream. I have a classmate who has a similar experience to you, and then went to a computer school after working to make money, and now she lives a good life, and I have never seen her feel inferior when we meet.

Learn to improve your psychological quality, what if you don't have a degree, college students are not necessarily better than me. I always remind myself in my heart that I am equal to others, and that the boss-official is nothing more than that. The best way to teach you is to learn to talk to strangers head-on, that is, to chat, such as on the bus, learn to talk to a stranger sitting next to you, and at first you aim for a greeting.

The first time you say just a word, hello! Hello next time in Hello! Add a sentence at the end, so that slowly you will not be so autistic.

How many people in society have had the experience of not being able to survive? I'm one of them, and I'm kind of a comer, even though I'm not much older than you. Brother, bear with one word, believe in yourself.

When you see someone, you have to shout, auntie, uncle, eldest sister or something, don't be embarrassed, after a long time, you will get used to it, and if you get used to it, you won't be afraid. ）

You don't have to be like this, this friend, life is not smooth sailing, it is inevitable that you will encounter such and such difficulties, but this is not a reason for you to give up life! You should think about those who are disabled and physically impaired, so will they collapse? Friends, be strong, life will be fine.

I'm still 18 years old this year, so I can talk to my parents about continuing to study! Or learn something.

Go to the army... He can change your situation completely.

Don't panic, take your time in the long life.

I am very sympathetic to what you are going through.

I would like you to ask the question of who to claim against, and here I would like to share my opinion.

First of all, it is necessary to clarify the liability of both parties to the car accident, which is generally based on the content of the traffic accident handling report. If the other party is liable, it shall compensate you for your losses according to the proportion, including but not limited to disability compensation, mental damages, medical expenses, lost work expenses, nursing expenses, etc. The confirmation of the amount of medical expenses is mainly based on the expenses incurred, and the hospital invoice needs to be provided; If it is necessary to follow-up, you can ask the other party to pay compensation according to the invoice amount after the first **.

Where the other party refuses to pay the above-mentioned amounts, it may file a civil lawsuit with the people's court, and if the other party refuses to perform after the court has ruled that the other party will pay compensation, it may apply for property preservation and compulsory enforcement. If it is known that the other party is unable to pay compensation, the owner or unit of the vehicle may be required to bear joint and several liability for compensation during the lawsuit.

It is better to apply for legal aid from a legal aid institution than to be pushed around, and there is also a direct prosecution and accountability of the perpetrators.

It is recommended to find a lawyer. Legal advice can be provided.

On the day of the accident, didn't report the incident?