What should I do after I fall in love with someone on a blind date?

Updated on society 2024-06-14
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think this woman should be polite and perfunctory to you, or you just call ** next time to ask her out for dinner, by the way, let's get to know each other, if she says that her sister is worried, you say call her sister too, see how she is, if you still refuse you like this, then your fate with her should end here!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Why are you such a mother-in-law? Didn't you say something else? Something.

    Busy, it may really be impossible to drag it out. Also, don't say it for the first time, the first impression of you is okay. I don't hate you.

    If you stalk, maybe someone else will change their opinion of you. Contact her in two days, good luck.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The girl you fancy should have no feelings for you, it's better to give up early and find a suitable one for you, you know the truth that a slap can't make a sound.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Pluck up the courage and hit ** directly, talk casually first, don't mention feelings. Judging from the way she spoke, I think you can try something and get familiar with each other slowly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can think of it as: girls are reserved.

    Besides, it doesn't have to be a meeting to develop.

    It's up to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think it's a joke, it's a man who takes the initiative, this is looking for a daughter-in-law, not buying vegetables.

    You think you can.

    You go to her company and wait for her, if you are a man, take the initiative.

    Looking for a daughter-in-law, take the initiative.

    Unless she explicitly rejects you.

    The girl always wants someone to chase her, and she has to be reserved.

    Be bold on it.

    A man is a little injured.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's probably no fun, but you can ask her how she feels about you, whether she has found some habits or shortcomings that she doesn't like, which will be good for you in the future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What we value most on blind dates is the result, but it is difficult for two strangers who are not very familiar with each other to see the information from each other's behavior. After a blind date, how do you see if the other party has taken a fancy to you?

    1.After the blind date, the appointment was shirked After the two people ended the blind date, if the impression was okay, they would make an appointment with each other to say goodbye, which was an initial relationship, but if you were asked to meet each other by the other party with busy work, recent things and other reasons, in fact, people just refused to see you again, since there is no fate, then we don't need to continue.

    2.If the blind date object has a faint expression in the subsequent conversation after seeing him, he seems to be smiling but not smiling, and the answer is also coping, and he is often absent-minded and distracted, which means that he has no heart to listen to you, and he continues to stay face to face with you just out of politeness.

    3.When you go on a blind date, you don't want to talk about yourself When you go on a blind date, you will definitely have a process of understanding each other, and talk about your own situation, so that the other party can understand yourself more, and you can also lay the foundation for the next interaction, but if the blind date object rejects your inquiry and is unwilling to disclose too much of your own information, that is, he is unwilling to let you know about her, and he is not willing to have in-depth contact with you, so we must understand each other's behavior and language, so that we don't have to waste time and feelings.

    4.When the blind date is in a hurry to leave When the blind date, it takes a while for two people to understand each other, but if the other party has just sat down, and the seat has not yet been hot, he frequently looks at the time and frowns, as if there is something important to go, which shows that he really wants to leave, but not because there is something important, but because he doesn't want to go on this blind date, and people can't stay, that is, people don't like you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can ask the other person to eat or go out, don't ask her about things when chatting, just ask her how she ate today, or when she goes out to play, see how she feels. Take it one step at a time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When you go on a blind date, you want the other party to take a fancy to you, and I have the following suggestions: First, you must attend with a sincere attitude. Don't treat blind dates as a business transaction in a relationship, then your words and actions will not be natural.

    Be open and sincere and give each other a true version of yourself. Only authenticity can make people trust and like you. Second, be proactive.

    Don't wait for the other person to ask questions, but also take the initiative to find some common topics to communicate. You can talk about your hobbies, career direction, ideal life, etc. But at the same time, you have to balance, don't just talk about yourself, but also ask about the other person's situation.

    Find a point of convergence in communication. Again, show self-confidence. People who are confident are more likely to be favored and liked.

    So let's not be too restrained and uncomfortable. Make eye contact with the other person, smile, and express yourself calmly. But self-confidence is not the same as arrogance, you must find the right degree.

    In addition to being confident, it is also necessary to express kindness. Also, be polite and self-contained. IPT blind dates focus on the overall impression.

    You should pay attention to your mannerisms, language expressions, etc., and show good upbringing. Avoid being too casual or relaxed, which can easily make people feel bad about life. It is necessary to show courtesy and understanding towards others in life.

    Finally, express your desire to continue dating before the date ends. If you also have a crush on this person and want to go further into the relationship, be sure to say it before the end. It can show that you are having a good time and want to find a time to make another appointment.

    If the other person has the same idea, set a time for the next date. If you're not sure, it's okay, at least express your intention to meet again, and let the other party know that you also care about this fate, then you will have a better chance next time. In short, to make the other party look at you on a blind date, sincerity, initiative, confidence and politeness are the key.

    Find a point of convergence in the communication and express your desire to meet again before the date ends. What a blind date wants to sell is not a perfect self, but a real person. Only by being true can you win likes, and if you are liked, you will naturally become perfect.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Blind date is a way to find a partner for marriage. This method has been around in traditional Chinese culture for a long time and is still common in modern society. Blind dates can be organized by family, friends, matchmaking agencies, etc., or they can be actively participated by individuals.

    However, no matter what form it takes, the purpose is to find a suitable partner for you to marry.

    The purpose of a blind date is to find a suitable partner, so first of all, be clear about your needs and expectations. This includes not only the physical conditions such as the other party's height, weight, and appearance, but also the other party's personality, living habits, values, etc. Only by being clear about your needs and expectations can you better choose the right object.

    During the blind date process, both parties should be true and sincere. Although the blind date is to find a marriage partner, you should not hide your true situation or lie to cater to the other party. Doing so not only deceives the other party, but also has a bad impact on the emotional life later on.

    When going on a blind date, you should pay more attention to the inner qualities of the other party, rather than just looking at the external conditions. Of course, appearance and figure are also one thing, but in the process of getting to know each other, we should pay more attention to each other's personality, hobbies and outlook on life. These aspects often reflect a person's inner qualities better and can better determine whether two people can get along.

    Finally, a blind date is about finding a marriage partner, so communicate needs and expectations with the other person, understand the other person's attitudes and wishes, and find common ground on the basis of mutual respect. If both parties are interested in developing a relationship, it is time to continue to get to know each other better and gradually build a relationship.

    In short, blind date is a traditional and practical way to find a partner, but it also needs to be treated with caution. Only by being clear about your needs and expectations, treating each other sincerely, paying attention to each other's inner qualities, and building a relationship with each other on the basis of mutual respect, can you find a truly suitable marriage partner.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello, in a blind date, sometimes there is a situation where one or the other can be chosen, which may make one party feel very embarrassed and embarrassed at this time. Let's talk about what you should do when you find yourself choosing one of two on a blind date. First, calm down.

    Regardless of whether you are selected or eliminated, maintain a good emotional state. If you are chosen, of course you will be happy; If you are eliminated, you may feel lost, but you don't need to be too depressed. After all, blind date is an attempt, success and failure can happen, and there is no need to take it too seriously.

    Second, reflect on your own problems. If you are eliminated, you can think back to the process of the blind date to see if you said the wrong topic, or when you lost your temper. Whether you choose a blind date or choose your hobbies and interests to make friends, you must learn to self-reflect.

    By identifying your own problems, you can better improve your friendship skills. Third, accept the unexpected. Sometimes, you may feel that both parties are in love, but the other person does not.

    At this point, there may be some upset, but it's best to accept the situation. If you are arranging a process and the other party is not willing to participate, you should give the other party more understanding at this time. On the way to finding love, we should learn to accept the unexpected results, rather than over-fantasizing and expecting.

    Fourth, a positive mindset is key. Whether you are selected or eliminated, you must maintain a positive attitude. The blind date process is both an experience and an opportunity, and we can learn a lot from it.

    Learn to absorb these experiences and constantly improve your ability to make friends, even interpersonal skills. Finally, don't forget that there are some things that are unpredictable. In the process of courtship, we cannot always succeed.

    However, we can control ourselves and work on the way we deal with this "frustration". If we can face all this positively, then we will have a good life. Therefore, you must stabilize your mentality, keep your eyes open, and find the most suitable person.

    To be honest, I actually don't think it's a big deal to be chosen one or the other on a blind date, because many times we are making choices and being chosen in life. It's normal to have a two-choice situation, because not only do you have to do the screening, but others also have to do the screening, and you think it's appropriate, but others don't necessarily think it's appropriate, so it's the result of two people choosing each other. I wish you a successful blind date.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In reality, everyone hopes that they can find the perfect love, but in the process of blind date, they may not be able to do so because of the kind of Hongchun wisdom. After experiencing n blind dates, I will have a lot of insights, specifically including the pursuit of love needs to be casual and not forced, only if I have a stronger ability to win favor, and I must learn how to show myself.

    First, after experiencing n blind dates, you will realize that the pursuit of love needs to be casual and cannot be forced. One of the things we often say when we do things is that as long as we work hard, we will be able to succeed. But this sentence does not necessarily apply to blind dates.

    In many cases, I was very careful when I was on a blind date, but I couldn't get a perfect result. This will make you realize that love needs to be fateful and cannot be forced.

    The second is that only if you have stronger ability can you win favor on a blind date. When I experienced n blind dates, the deepest feeling of the answer was that if my conditions were relatively poor, it would be difficult to succeed in the blind date. Only when you have a stronger ability can you win favor on a blind date, and then pursue your own love.

    Therefore, you need to go the extra mile to improve yourself.

    Third, in the process of blind date, you must learn how to show yourself.

    When you go on a blind date, sometimes you will find that although you are very attentive and your conditions are very compatible with the other party, the other party does not recognize you. After analysis, you will find that this is caused by your own poor presentation of yourself. Because they can't show themselves, their abilities and talents can't be shown, and the blind date is not successful.

    Therefore, if you want to succeed on a blind date, you must learn to show yourself, so that the other party can fully understand yourself, and you can succeed in the blind date and pursue love.

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