My grandfather is very sick and probably won t live for a few days

What kind of disease is your grandfather had, there must be a reason for the hospital to drive him out! You can ask the hospital about your grandfather's condition and discuss a countermeasure with the family, if it is not for his advanced age, you must not give up**.

Have you had any surgeries in the hospital? Hospitals can't do that, and they won't dare to do anything if you insist. If you really can't help it, just come out and live a few days of comfort, I hope your grandfather will get better soon.

First of all, send your father to a good hospital.

Pre-appeal hospital.

You have to know that people will always die, death is what people have always had to face in their lives, don't be overly sad, the main thing now is not to be sad but to do your filial piety before the old man leaves. If there is such a day, you will not have regrets, and things will look away.

I can understand your feelings. But only you can write about your own feelings. What to write, write what is in your heart. Don't think that the writing is good or not, just write the most authentic in your heart.

Send your grandfather to a good hospital.

I know how you feel now, take good care of your grandfather during this period of time, don't let him have any wishes, people are old and sick and die, it is God's arrangement. This is a time for your grandfather to enjoy the happiness of life.

My favorite grandfather was found to have terminal cancer last year, and last night my mother told me that the doctor said that he might not be able to hold on to it in June, and he brought me up since I was a child, and now he is sick and has been reading my name in his mouth, and I can't help but want to cry when I think about it every day, hey!

You love grandpa, I love grandpa, my experience is similar to yours, my grandfather has terminal cancer. I don't like my mom and dad, I think they are strangers, and I've been with my grandfather since I was a child. When I was 11 years old, he left me completely.

Friend, what you describe now is similar to me, my grandfather is 66 years old today, he has been in the hospital for a month, and he is still bedridden, and my relationship with my grandfather is not lower than that of you and your grandfather, and I really don't know what to do.

Touch your head and don't be upset. Life and death are sometimes only a temporary distance, and people will die. My relationship with my grandmother is similar to the relationship between you and your grandfather as you described.

My grandmother died in the fall after being diagnosed with terminal lung cancer at the beginning of the year when I was 18 years old. I'll never forget the day in March when I found out about it and cried in the park. The heart-rending loss of relatives is something we must face, be brave, be sensible, and accompany your grandfather well.

Let go of the knots in your heart and be admitted to university to fulfill the dream of the elderly. Good luck soon**.

I can understand your feelings, don't be too sad, let your grandpa see your strong side.

Friend, I am also from the past, and I love my grandfather as much as you love your grandfather.

I know you must be terrified of Grandpa leaving.

My grandfather left me in June last year, and I was at a loss for what to do.

But now. I understand, when we know that our relatives will leave us, the most we should do is to take good care of him in this short period of time, do our best, and let him live happily in the last days of this life.

If you think about it, the countdown to the time you spend with your grandfather has begun.

Growing up well is his greatest wish.

Summary. Grandpa is like this when he is old, many times you get along with grandpa on the surface, and you can't feel his abnormality, but when people get older, their body functions are going downhill, which is what everyone will experience, and you said that you don't have any emotions at all, that's because your mind is not mature, and you can't experience this feeling, and when you reach a certain age, you will feel sad and sad when you encounter such a thing again.

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Grandpa is like this when he is old, digging and shouting that many times you get along with grandpa on the surface, and you can't feel his abnormality, but when people are older, their physical functions are mostly going downhill, which is what everyone will experience, and what you said about yourself is that Jian Ye has no emotion at all, that's because your mind is not mature, and you can't experience this feeling, and when you reach a certain age, and then encounter something like this, you will feel sad and very sad.

There may be psychological problems, hypochondriasis. At this time, you must have an open and honest chat with your wife. Give her what you think. If your situation is more serious, you should go to the doctor to see a limb doctor, otherwise it will be detrimental to the marriage of the two of you. It hurts a lot.

It's important to have a sick mentality, although your grandfather says he's lived enough. But in fact, I am reluctant to go, I can't rest assured that your grandmother, and a large family, and at this time, even if you are uncomfortable, you can't show it before your grandfather, use your optimistic attitude to infect your grandfather, although it's difficult, but you have to give it a try, all day long, grandpa will be even more sad, grandpa not only has to endure physical pain, but also bear the pain in the heart.

Although it is said that birth, old age, sickness and death are human nature, they are all from the perspective of a bystander, and they will only experience the pain of the bones when they really come to themselves, because no matter how they are, they are powerless to change, and they can only watch the passage of life. The comfort of words is very small, you can only digest it while bearing it, you understand the words of comfort, so it's better to rely on yourself, at this time, in addition to accompanying grandpa more, grandma should also pay more attention to it, I'm sorry I can't empathize with you, I don't want to empathize, if grandpa is really gone, at least he doesn't have to suffer from illness anymore, relieved, and the living people have to live a good life with the thought of grandpa, take care of a large family, our final destination is the same, No matter how reluctant you are, there will come a day when you will learn to accept and grow up, and learn to look down.

I hope you can cheer up, maybe a miracle will happen.

Seeing your situation, I am very touched by your filial piety. You are so close to your grandfather, which shows that your grandfather is kind to you, and it makes you very sad in the face of your grandfather's increasingly serious condition. Since there is no hope of cure, then keep it and prolong his life, give him whatever he wants, and do whatever he wants, as long as he is happy.

I hope you cherish your grandfather's limited life, honor him well, and don't leave regrets after his death. Of course, you also have to think about it, this is not up to people, birth, old age, sickness and death, human nature, you can do your filial piety.

It must be that you are not worrying about it, causing grandpa to be sick!! I've heard of people who have been living for 30 years with terminal cancer, and I haven't heard of people who are getting worse and worse with their families around the disease. You tell me?!

Birth, old age, sickness and death are human nature, life and death are fate, don't be sad, as a junior, try your best to do what you should do. As an old man, he hopes that his descendants will have a good life and live well, and the old man feels that as long as you live well, he will have hope. You just study hard and be filial to your grandparents.

Birth, old age, sickness and death, human nature, you don't have to be too uncomfortable, since grandpa has little time, you have to do more filial piety in front of him, chat with him, cook for him, fulfill your responsibilities, don't leave regrets.

There is no solution to this disease now in the whole world, you can only accompany the elderly more, buy something you like to eat or something, it is estimated that the elderly also have a number in their hearts, I can only say that at this time companionship is the best medicine, because no matter how much you can't do it.

No one can change this, spend more time with him, and he will be happy.

The old man's time is running out, so you should spend the rest of your time with the elderly, cook something delicious for the elderly, chat with the elderly, stay by the elderly's side for a few more days, spend the last time with the elderly, and don't leave regrets for yourself.

Everyone will experience birth, old age, sickness and death, although the heart is uncomfortable, but also face it calmly, since your grandfather has little time, then accompany him through the last days and take good care of grandma.

People are born, old, sick and die, so accompany the elderly and take care of the elderly in a few days, and don't leave regrets for yourself.

Psychoanalysis: Hello, friend!

On the issue of birth, old age, sickness and death, each of us will encounter it in our lifetime, and most of us should be able to face it calmly, but there are still some people who can't accept it, especially the death of their loved ones.

The relationship between you and your grandfather makes you completely unwilling to believe that your grandfather is now critically ill and about to leave this world, but whether you want to or not, you have to face it now.

From your description, you can see that from childhood to adulthood, almost always your grandfather is with you. He gave you too much warmth and tolerance, or your greatest reliance, everything you are facing now is a great test for you, after all, you are still too young to experience this, and it is normal for you to not tremble and be willing to face it. It's just that you have to understand that there are some things that are not beyond our control, and what we can do now is to take good care of grandpa, spend more time with him, and cherish every minute and second with him in the final period of time.

People have joys and sorrows, and the moon is cloudy and sunny. This is an eternal truth, I hope you can strive to look at these things, maybe this experience, can make you have a better understanding of your loved ones, learn to cherish the people in front of you.

Hello, thank you for the invitation and trust.

Seeing this description, I feel that your grandfather is really good to you, accompanying you, carrying you to the market, he not only has love, but also craftsmanship, and will knead clay figures and make chili sauce for you. To be honest, I'm envious.

Did you know how to save pocket money for your grandfather at such a young age? I think my grandfather must have been as happy as honey in his heart. So you are a grandchild who is sensible and knows how to be grateful and repay gratitude. Grandpa must be content to raise you into such a good child.

If I were you, I'd definitely have a hard time accepting that fact, and I'd probably be scared, scared, scared.

But if this is a fact that we have to face, I hope you will be stronger to face it. That's how life is. Grandpa will definitely be reluctant to you, but the laws of nature are like this, none of us have the ability to disobey, we have to learn to accept it.

Your father told you that to prepare you psychologically, Yunhuai is to treat you as a sensible, independent and equal person, not as an ignorant child. He did the right thing, and I hope you will live up to your father's trust and expectations.

Moreover, Grandpa definitely doesn't want to see you in such pain. If you are like this, is it possible that grandpa will also be uneasy and sad? Therefore, for the sake of grandpa, for the sake of mom and dad, I also hope that you can try to be strong to accept this matter, accompany grandpa well, and take good care of grandma and mom and dad for grandpa Sencha.

If the least expected thing happens, don't deliberately avoid things and emotions related to grandpa, it is recommended to talk about grandpa's goodness with your family, and talk about good memories, humorous memories, and warm memories with grandpa. This will help you express your love for grandpa, put your emotions together and move on. Life is a one-way street, and we all end up meeting at the same destination.

Grandpa will not leave, he will always be in your heart, warm you, and you will warm him. As long as you remember, grandpa is in your heart, and he has not gone anywhere. He will be in your heart and watch you grow into a responsible person.

If you are too sad to do so, I recommend listening to the song "Someday" by the band Mr Woohoo, which is written by the lead singer of the band to his grandmother who has cancer, which warmly sooths many people, and "The Song of the Dead" by the tour band.