I m a freshman in high school, and I like someone, will it delay my studies?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-14
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes, if you don't get in touch with them, you will always want them, and the more you think about them, the more tangled you become. Only when you get to know him, you will become good friends over time, not a couple. This will take your learning to the next level.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes. If you haven't talked about it before, you can confess it to her so that you can separate sooner; If you talked about it before, you don't have to confess, anyway, the ending is still separate. It is good to keep it in my heart and think of it as a kind of motivation.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think you better go and confess, if you handle it well, the two of you together will not affect your studies.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    At this stage, it is normal to like a person, and most of the more well-behaved people or shy people will choose to be stuffy in their hearts, which is not impossible, but it depends on whether you can control your emotions, and you may not really like him, but just have a good feeling, maybe after a period of time, you will laugh at your innocence at that time.

    But it is not excluded that you will always like it, so let it go, don't be too sensitive, try to be a "good buddy", you will gradually find that the power of friendship is very strong, and you can even do something that only friends can do but lovers can't.

    Study first, turn your love into motivation to learn, don't you think it will be very happy to be a person with excellent grades and easy-going? You can also satisfy your vanity in front of the opposite sex, of course, that's not the point, (*hee-hee......

    Study, you can, you have to work hard.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think you are now an important period of studying, even if you like her, you should quietly put her in your heart, let it become the motivation for your study, let yourself get a good score in the college entrance examination, if you just like him, wait until you go to college and then confess to her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, I think it's not easy to meet someone you like in this life. According to the most, you can like a few people in your life, very little. In my case, I think that when I meet someone I like in high school, I should actually chase after him.

    Because sometimes when the emotion arrives, you have to catch it, if you don't catch it, just let it go like that, and you can't delay learning.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think love in high school is good, but the second year of high school is in the upper hand of studying, so we still don't want to fall in love. But if you can fall in love with both parties, then you can still fall in love. If you feel that falling in love will affect your studies, then don't talk about it, and you can be free to fall in love after college.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you like someone in the second year of high school, you can tell each other, but you must restrain yourself, because this is the time to focus on your studies, and don't affect your studies and the college entrance examination because of this matter.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In this case, don't take the initiative to pursue the other party, because at this time you should still study hard, if you go to the pursuit of promotion, it will definitely affect your academic performance, so you still have to consider your own learning problems.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The sophomore in high school likes to chase a person, you have considered the consequences of affecting your studies, so you have to quickly and directly confess to her, if both parties are interested, you can be together, work hard together, if she does not agree, give up temporarily, do not affect and delay her studies.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't recommend chasing someone I like in the second year of high school, it will definitely affect your studies, and if you succeed, it will affect you more than once. The second year of high school is too important throughout high school, and it is still important to focus on studying, and everything will be done at the end of the college entrance examination.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No. Because this will affect learning, it will make you particularly distracted, and at the same time, you can't fall in love at this age, and you need to do something at what age, so that you won't leave regrets.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you really already like him, then think for yourself, will this affect your own learning? You also have to think about whether the other party will accept you?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It should not be pursued. Because if you waste time on this, it will definitely affect your studies, and your grades will also decline.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think when you realize this problem, it means that you have a certain amount of sanity, and the key depends on your mind and how much you like him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think it is usually possible to affect your studies, and I suggest that you wait until after the college entrance examination.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The sophomore year of high school likes not to chase alone, because studying is more important. It can affect learning.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Like someone to say it or not depends mainly on your courage and your scruples, as well as how she feels about you.

    It depends. It's hard to have someone you like, not to mention that you'll regret it in the future, but if you want to say it, maybe the two of you will be together, or he will reject you, and you may be embarrassed in the future (it depends on the person, you have to analyze it yourself).

    But I want you to focus on your studies.

    If you like someone and don't say it, then why should you like someone. There is no courage at the slightest. What if you like people and like you? Neither of them said? That must be a pity....Go for it!

    Beg. Let's start with the problem. If you like someone, you have to say it.

    I think you're supposed to be a crush or something. If you like that person and that person doesn't know that you like taThen after n years, you will regret it.

    Love him but can't say it, although it's not your fault, but it means that you are in water

    Then don't say it, just know it, and say that your friends don't have to do it.

    What I wrote below, you must take a look, patiently try for a few minutes, experience the psychological feelings, you may find the ultimate method of all mental illness, of course, it can also be used as an aid. Well, my real experience, when the heart is uncomfortable, I will recite the four words of Amitabha, and experience the feeling of touching and peaceful and soft in my heart when I recite the Buddha, and the mood will slowly become relaxed, full of hope, and I will think about it with one mind, try not to think about anything, I will experience the change in my heart, from melancholy to happiness, and feel that everything is indifferent to the kind of relaxation, just get it by reciting Amitabha, first recite it for 10 minutes to try, and you will feel it yourself. Don't think about anything else, just recite Amitabha Buddha with all your heart.

    Slowly, your heart will be calm and strong.

    If you want to be a lover with him (her),Just chase him、Tell him (the following are replaced by him) that you like him.,Of course, it's best to be on QQ or send a text message or something.,So at least after he rejects you.,You can continue to be friends.,Don't you have another chance If you don't want to tell him that you like him.,Just be friends.、The most intimate and iron-clad kind of friend of the opposite sex.,Care about him.,Take care of him (really stand in the perspective of a friend) Hide that love in the bottom of your heart.,I'm more in favor of being friends.,Because although it's very tiring、 But at least you can hear his hearty smile and see the smiling face like a flower every day. Also, I think that if the relationship between you is changed from a friend to a lover, then you may feel that he has become not so natural, and after getting along for a long time, you will find many shortcomings in him, if you want him to remain perfect in your heart, then choose to be friends, because distance produces beauty.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The third year of high school is a very critical period, and learning is the first place! It's normal to like someone, you think that if you abandon your studies because of ignorant love, the third year of high school is another turning point in your life, and you will have a bright future after taking a good university exam, and then pursue love! Otherwise, you will only regret your youth and ignorance in the future!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is advisable to go to your school's counsellor and tell him your thoughts and emotions so that he can give you ideas.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    For the sake of your studies, give up your feelings!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    After graduation, you must not spend your whole life for the sake of a moment.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Focus on your studies, and after the college entrance examination, it's like this.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's best not to go deeper, and then decide on the situation when you go to college in the future.

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