If you like someone, will you take the initiative to confess?

I will confess 10,000 times in my mind that I have no action, and I am afraid of being rejected. I like a person who keeps his distance even in contact, but in his heart he can't wait to hug him tightly.

Confessed, was rejected. But I think about it a lot, even if I don't like it, I don't like him anymore after confessing that the white family doesn't like me, and if I don't confess, I still like him.

If you like him, you can talk to him more or ask him out with him or something, but you can't be too enthusiastic. Try to show your strengths in front of him. If he really is interested in you, he will take the initiative to confess to you.

If he pretends not to know, then he is not interested in you, so give up as soon as possible.

If you're a boy, yes. But if you're a girl, you shouldn't. Don't listen to those women chasing men's veils, most boys have a desire to conquer, and they don't know how to cherish it if it's too easy to get their hands on.

If you like someone, you tell him (her) that love is to be fought for by yourself, and what goes with the flow is just making excuses for your escape.

I also like someone, but she doesn't like me, so I don't have that kind of thought. To avoid embarrassment, it is also a good choice to watch from a distance!

Look at the people! I rejected a bunch of people, but my confession was rejected. It would be wise to throw a bone at him and ask him to tell you...I'm just too straightforward, too crazy to scare my uncle.

I will evaluate it in my heart, and if I am sure that the other party is also interesting to me, then I will still take the initiative.

I've had two very different crushes, one acting like I hated him and didn't pay attention to him at all; Talk at a time. Now that I think about it, I don't like any of them.

It's hard to say, it's hard to do, and there are a lot of things that are usually babbling, but in fact, there are some things that are absolutely unspeakable.

Think! But I'm afraid he doesn't like me.

No, because I feel like I won't be together if I confess.

I have to make sure that she has me in her heart, and I am the only one, and I will confess.

Yes, it didn't work out, but I don't regret it.

I like it very much.

Let's see how much you like it.

The confession still ruthlessly refused.

It must be confessed and never let go.

The only person who wants to confess and dares to confess. But he is not qualified.

But for the time being, I haven't found anyone I like very much.

In love, when you like someone, will you take the initiative? Let's take a look at the following three scenarios:

Although in this era, the boundary between men and women does not seem to be so obvious, but in the matter of love, it seems that many women still feel that this kind of thing should be taken by men, when a woman has this kind of hidden branch idea, then even if she has a very good impression of a man, and then likes a man, she often will not take the initiative to talk, take the initiative to approach and take the initiative to confess, she will only wait and see if the man will take action, even if it's missed.

The second is to be afraid that they are just wishful thinking, in fact, whether it is a man or a woman, they will be the same afraid, afraid that they will take the initiative, but the result is just their own wishful thinking, so that they are very embarrassed, more often than men, women will have this kind of thinking, after all, women are still more shy by nature, and it is also because of this kind of thinking that women are unwilling to take the initiative.

Why don't you take the initiative to confess?

I wonder if the above scene has poked your heart? Everyone has thought about their own emotional or interpersonal issues to a greater or lesser extent, especially when they are struggling with whether to confess or not. The reasons why boys and girls do not take the initiative to confess are not the same, but the reasons are generally similar.

1 You are a person with low self-esteem.

The gap between two people is too big, or because of low self-esteem, you yourself think the gap is too big. For example, you are not confident in your appearance or ability, feel that the other person is too good and you are not worthy of the other person, and you are afraid that you will not be able to give the other person what they want. Will you think that if you are so ordinary, will you accept it?

2. Unsure of the other person's true intentions and attitudes.

We have a good feeling for each other in our hearts, but we are not sure of the other person's true intentions and attitudes. Or, there is already a certain degree of contact and understanding between the emotional parties, but our subconscious feel that we are not good enough, lack confidence in the relationship, and are not sure that the other person really likes us.

3 Fear of loss, fear of rejection.

confessed not that he was afraid of not being able to fall in love, but that he was afraid of losing a friend from now on. "Human beings instinctively fear losing, and the pain of losing 100 dollars is much greater than the joy of getting 100 dollars. If there is a possibility of losing, it is better not to get it, at least there is hope.

You are afraid of rejection, afraid that even your only relationship will be destroyed, and you choose to remain silent after weighing the possibility of chasing the other person. The fear of rejection is essentially a fear of failure. Because out of the fear of failure, the fear of losing this person and this relationship, I would rather give up the pursuit of success and the extravagant hope of further strengthening the relationship.

4 Personality reasons, psychology is matched with bright movements.

You are not an active person, you are very passive psychologically. You feel that if the other party likes you enough, they will confess and regret it first. You're even so passive that you're a little scared to start, afraid that this relationship isn't what you imagined, and you're afraid that you won't be able to cope with it.

Your only motivation is to avoid failure as much as possible and keep yourself in the maximum safe zone, so your performance is relatively more passive.

Yes. Love can only be obtained by bold pursuit. When you meet someone you like, you have to take the initiative

Dear, you definitely need to confess, if you don't confess, the other party doesn't know that you like her (him). Speaking of confession, many people have more or less unforgettable and profound memories, for example, if they like a girl, they have never dared to confess that in the end, they can only be sad and use wine to kill their sorrows. Or sometimes when I confess and am rejected, I am also sluggish and drunk, and I am also happy and excited after a successful confession.

In short, all sorts of things happen after confession. Since you like someone, you have to take the initiative to fight for it, and you have to be brave enough to confess. After confessing, it may be rejected and affect the mood, but it is much better to always love a crush and not confess, after all, long pain is better than short pain, timely confession is timely and relaxed, don't keep things in your heart all the time, it will be better to say it when necessary.