Why are girls so angry now?

The main factor is related to the family environment when I was a child and all the time, for example, it has always been relatively smooth, and I have not experienced any difficulties, so my heart is high, and the so-called high heart is not good-tempered!

First of all, heart qi affects temper, and a high heart qi is easy to have a big temper, and a big temper is easy to hurt people. Some people are accustomed to being arrogant and arrogant, self-righteous, it is difficult to speak kindly, treat others gently, and when something is slightly unsatisfactory, they will be angry and angry with the people around them. Over time, if you hurt people's hearts, you will lose the love of others.

Secondly, if the heart is high, the standard is high, and the high standard is mainly due to the high requirements of others, and it is easy to blame others and be difficult to tolerate. People often unconsciously have expectations for others, and others will get angry if they can't meet expectations, but in fact, others are innocent, and others do not appear to meet our expectations. If you demand perfection from others, you will end up looking down on anyone.

When the water is clear, there are no fish, and no one is perfect.

In the end, if you have a high spirit, you will take yourself seriously, and if you value yourself, you will easily take others lightly. This can have a series of consequences: focusing on oneself, ignoring others, not being able to stand grievances, not being able to withstand setbacks, working alone, not being good at cooperation, and so on.

Marx said: The essence of human beings, in its reality, is the sum total of all social relations. A person is just a connection point of social relations, obsessed with oneself is often easy to become empty, caring about the society, achieving others can finally achieve oneself.

1. I am very resentful and often complain that my husband is not good.

Women who are unhappy in their married life are generally resentful women. They are resentful and like to complain a lot. Complaining about her husband doesn't work, that doesn't work.

No matter what her husband does, she always feels that he is inferior to others. Over time, such negative emotions will drive men. Men will feel that it is better to divorce than this.

The two sides will compete, you don't like me, I don't like you, in short, all kinds of boredom and disgust. How can such a marriage that two people hate each other be happy?

2. He has a big temper and is cold and violent at every turn.

After some women get married, because they are tied up in a lot of trivial things, they always like to lose their temper, and their temper is so short that their children are afraid. And this is not important, more importantly, women will be cold and violent at every turn, and they will have a cold war with men. The two sides don't talk to each other, ignore each other, you do your thing, I do my thing.

It's like two strangers living under the same roof, in such a cold and violent family, whether it is a man, a woman or a child, they will be depressed.

3. The heart is high and cannot accept the reality.

Some women are always high-spirited and feel that they should live a superior life. But she didn't know that a high heart was a good thing, which showed that she had pursuits and was not willing to be ordinary. However, if the heart is high, you must also have the corresponding ability and strength to match.

If you don't have the strength to match your high spirit, it is purely too conceited and arrogant. Such a high-spirited woman is often unable to accept the reality, nor can she accept the blandness of herself and her husband. She will constantly spur men forward, and even force men to work hard to meet her requirements.

If a man is capable, it's okay to say, if a man is not, then he can only be miserable.

People go to high places, water flows to low places, and now girls are getting better and better, confident, and independent. The better they are, the more they hope that their other half will be excellent and their lives will be better. Therefore, the heart is high because he is strong enough.

It is a good thing to have a high spirit, and it is powerful and socially developing. What you mean should be that women are blindly demanding, this is mainly because women are not fully exposed to society, and only see the bright side around them, which affects their judgment of the environment, or she does not have a clear understanding of herself and overestimates herself.

Because girls nowadays are very confident, and even some girls are blindly confident, so they have high morale.

It should be that most of today's children are pampered, plus they are young and vigorous.

Because today's girls are more realistic, they are affected by all aspects of life, and the cultivation and quality of the girls themselves are also one of the reasons.

It's not that the heart is high, it's that the popularization of education has made girls more and more discerning. If a person knows the good and the bad, then she will definitely choose the one that is good for her long-term development. Education changes lives, and knowledge is power.

Not all girls are like this, and some people have been affected by the Internet.

Features of high-spirited girls:

1. Look down on others.

A woman who looks down on others has the trait of arrogance. High-spirited women often feel that they are the best, and women cannot accept those who are worse than themselves, so it is natural to despise others.

2. Love high consumption.

Women who are too high-spirited will pay more attention to their appearance, and will care more about their clothing, makeup, etc., so far, they will find the best things to dress up for themselves, and find the highest grade things for themselves to "find face", and high consumption is inevitable.

Change the approach. 1. Try not to buy luxury goods for yourself.

Many of the high-spirited girls like to dress up and even overdress themselves. Be sure to wear famous brands when dressing, and the clothing style must be up-to-date. Actually, it doesn't have to be like this, what you feel comfortable with is good.

Don't compare whose luxury goods are more expensive with the rich, and don't compare who has more LV bags than you.

2. Calm down.

When you see a mediocre-looking person, you should also treat it the same, you must know that the other person is not worse than you, but you just feel good about yourself in your heart.

From the small path, the influence of the environment on him has nothing to do with material things, it has to do with psychology.