How does it feel to have a gossiping relative at home?

These people are idle and panicking. Their world is probably just gossiping, and they can have some fun in life. Their lives are so boring. I never felt that I was wrong, and that was the most ridiculous.

My aunt is all kinds of gossip, tell you what she is not today, and tell her that you are not tomorrow. In short, it made the house a miasma. In the end, I cried and said that I was all kind, but you were blinded.

In fact, there are really not a few such people in life, but there is no way, I have lived all my life, I have become accustomed to it, and it is useless if you want to correct or oppose it. I can only be patient, try to listen to her words as a joke, and don't take it to heart.

I am very disgusted with people who gossip all day long, just take care of their own affairs, why should they judge others, others have other people's lives, considerations and plans, as an outsider who doesn't understand the situation and chews the root of his tongue behind his back is really annoying.

You can only see people talking about people, and you can talk nonsense when you see ghosts. However, I personally am more gossipy, if my relatives are so idle with me, I will definitely fight poison with poison, gossip more than her, and finally gag her with the news from gossip. Although I actually gossip, I never gossip about the things of people around me, and I don't say bad things about others.

If someone gossips with me, I'm definitely not happy.

There are always a few relatives who can't see you who are better off than her, who have nothing to do, chew the root of their tongues in the pile, and reverse black and white, because they are elders, they can only comfort themselves from seeing them in general.

They are all people who don't have back pain when they stand and talk, and they are tired, but they don't have to worry about it, they just have a broken mouth, see you during the New Year's Festival, and just endure it.

I am most worried about associating with these relatives, because they are very gossipy, but they are embarrassed to talk to them for the sake of face.

My mom loves to gossip, and I don't dare to say it yet.

Is there anything that can help you?

Dear socks line, hello, the teacher thinks that the question of relatives should be approached in a polite manner. When a relative gossips about me, I will first express my opinion in a polite manner, respect the relative's point of view, and not offend him to enlighten them. I will try to understand my relatives' point of view and respect their ideas, but I will also express my own opinion so that I can reach an agreement.

I try to express my point of view in polite language so as not to offend my relatives and quietly try to avoid quarrels and arguments. If relatives still stick to their point of view, I will respect their ideas and try to understand their point of view in order to reach a mutual agreement!

Do you often encounter such things in your life? Can you tell the teacher more about it? In this way, the teacher can also better prepare for you to analyze the loss of the finch and help you.

Summary. Good afternoon, dear, about your question: what should I do if my relatives often gossip about me? Did you say it in front of you or behind your back? Can you tell me more about it? It is convenient for the teacher to help you analyze it specifically.

Did I say it would be illegal to go back?

Good afternoon, dear, about your question: Relatives Jing Xiangyin often say that I have a few friends, what should I do, who do relatives usually talk to about your potato banquet? Did you say it in front of you or behind your back? Can you tell me more about it? It is convenient for the teacher to help you analyze it specifically.

She was talking to outsiders about Zen blocking, and she also told my other relatives that I had caused serious damage to my mental health, and what if she had an underlying disease, scolding me on the way, and then she herself suddenly died of anger.

Dear, this has nothing to do with you, she has an underlying disease, it belongs to her personal problem, it has nothing to do with you, as long as you don't do it.

What if I contradict what she says about me?

And then the more he thought about it, the more angry he became, am I responsible?

If we meet such a relative, we can go back in person. She says whatever you say, and you say whatever she says. There's no need to endure it.

As long as the pro didn't do anything, and she didn't use words to instigate her suicide and other behaviors, it has nothing to do with the pro.

I'm so aggrieved, can I use foul language to greet her? If she's so angry, and I'm talking about her at the time, can I fight back if she does it? Or maybe I don't fight back, I just lie down and call the police, okay?

If she was too serious, I defended Kuan, but she was injured by my defense, and I don't have to make any compensation, right?

What if she did?

If she makes the first move, it's still a good thing for you. You can pretend to lie on the ground directly, and then call the police, what she is about to face is not only the detention of the police, but also your medical expenses, mental damages, etc., which is very not cost-effective for her to crack envy. So let's not do it, or we'll regret it.

Summary. Hello dear, sometimes there will be some verbal misunderstandings or conflicts between relatives, but if they often gossip about you, it will make you feel uncomfortable and troubled. Here are some suggestions for dealing with this situation:

Stay calm and objective: Avoid emotional reactions and approach their words with a calm and objective mind. Don't let their words affect your mood and life.

Communicate with relatives: If you feel uncomfortable with their remarks, you can choose to communicate directly with them. Tell them how you feel, try to communicate with them in a calm tone, and let them know your attitude towards this kind of speech.

Hello dear, sometimes there will be some verbal misunderstandings or conflicts between relatives, but if they often talk about your idle orange myth, it will make you feel uncomfortable and troubled. Here are some tips for dealing with this situation: Stay calm and objective:

Avoid emotional reactions and face their words with a calm and objective mind. Don't let their words affect your mood and life. Communicate with relatives:

If you feel that their remarks make you feel uncomfortable, you can choose to communicate directly with them. Tell them how you feel, try to communicate with them in a calm tone, and let them know your attitude towards this kind of speech.

Keep your distance: If you don't feel like you've been communicating with your relatives or if their comments make you feel bad, you can choose to keep your distance and reduce contact with them. Don't let their words affect your life and emotions.

Find support: If you find it difficult to deal with the situation, ask a friend or other loved one for support and help. Their understanding and support can make you feel stronger and more confident.

Most importantly, maintain a positive mindset and a confident attitude. Don't let other people's words affect your self-esteem and confidence, believe in filial piety and be determined to follow your own path.

In life, you can accept that relatives and friends often come to your home.

In life, I don't accept relatives and friends to come to live at home often, the reason is very simple, I like my own home only to live in, I feel inconvenient to have outsiders in me. But I will not directly refuse the other party, I will use the other party can not refuse the way back and forth, the following I will talk about my thoughts and practices on this matter, for reference only.

Question 1: Relatives and friends rub the normal way to say that relatives and friends come to borrow something if it is convenient for them, but if they often encounter things to borrow it is not very normal, so when relatives and friends come to borrow, generally do not agree, unless it is particularly urgent and the relationship is very good. The reason is very simple, with the first time, there is a second time, when there is something, the first thing that comes to mind is you, so as long as there is the beginning of the first time, there will be a steady stream of chaotic borrowing, people with high emotional intelligence will be embarrassed to give gifts, and those with low emotional intelligence will feel that they should be.

Problem 2: There will be many problems in rubbing the house that may be troubled, for example, if your house is very large, it is okay, if it is very small, it is suitable for yourself, but suddenly there are 1 or 2 more people, and the house will be small immediately; Different living habits, you may be used to room temperature, but the other person may like low temperature, these are different living habits. Therefore, when there is a problem of rubbing, as a host, seeing that the relatives or friends who rub against him have different living habits from his own, he is very repulsive from the bottom of his heart, but because of the relationship of face, he is embarrassed to say it, even if he wants to say it, he doesn't know how to be appropriate.

Question 3: How to refuse to rub in fact refusal is very simple, but we are usually embarrassed to speak, there are ways and means for refusal, when there are relatives and friends and you greet, do not tell him your recent situation, when it comes to wanting to go to you to borrow, directly tell him that you are on a business trip or your father is late to send your mother to come. At this time, people with high emotional intelligence already know what you mean, and those with low emotional intelligence will continue to ask you, you just borrow me to live for a few days on a business trip, you can say that your boyfriend and girlfriend have been at your house recently, which is not very convenient, and basically you can effectively refuse.

Summary of the problem, I will personally refuse, when you are embarrassed to refuse, you can try the above way to make a fuss, this is my personal opinion and thoughts, for reference only.

Yes, they think I'm easy to talk to.

The heart is not strong enough, you can go to the psychology department and understand.

Those who are pure are self-purifying, as long as they do right, they are not afraid of their irresponsible remarks.