What if you have someone you love very much, but your family doesn t agree?

Updated on society 2024-05-27
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you really love each other, don't take care of these, you have to be a family, as long as you are happy, the family knows that their obstacles are wrong, and worry about this all day long, it is better for two people to work hard and love each other.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Find the reason, why not agree? Family or personal reasons? Targeted to solve the problem!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Alas, in my case, decide for yourself ... I chose to be with my girlfriend, but my family immediately cut off my finances**. But if you really love her, stick to yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Otherwise, if you have a baby and go home, you will have no choice.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That means that your family loves you too much and doesn't want you to suffer a little, but you will live on your own in the future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let's see what happens.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Take the liberty of asking, is it just that you love each other very much or do you love each other very much? What you said is very simple, so there are many points in the situation. If you love each other very much, the problem should be simpler, what you have to do is to first understand the opinions of the family, the family must also love you, maybe the ideas and ways are a little different from you, you have to understand this, and then you have to communicate with the family against your object What is the reason?

    Don't use quarrels to solve problems, this will only exacerbate the conflict, and don't hide these from your own objects, don't solve them alone. It's not a one-man business. If the reason for the family's objection is not valid, or the basis of the family's objection can be resolved through the joint efforts of you and your partner.

    It's a lot easier and simpler. There is also your own mentality, to give you an idea reference, two people together must go through some things, some difficulties, how can there be cherishing and happiness together without the experience together. So this is a test from heaven to you, come on!

    Because I'm from here! Hehe!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    True love can overcome all difficulties, and if you give up your love because your family doesn't agree, it means that you may not be true love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First understand the reasons why the family disagrees, and then look for a solution.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let my family know my thoughts first, create opportunities for my subject to get to know my family, and slowly let my family accept him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you love it very much, you have to stick to it, and do a good job of mediating between the partner and the family, and slowly they will agree.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Discuss it with the family, and it is best to take more of their opinions, after all, the starting point of the family is good, and it will not suffer if you listen to the "elderly" more in this regard.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you are in the learning stage, then you should have a private relationship and don't overdo it. Tell your parents that your studies have gone up, and if your studies have slipped down, say goodbye to him! You can't control yourself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First touch the family with actions, ask the family what they disagree with, and tell the family with my heart that I love her (him).

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Try to get your family to accept that if it doesn't work, break up.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's you who love, not your family.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then it will be scattered, and there is no point in unblessed love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I would talk to my family, show them how much I liked her, and hope that they would understand my heart.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on whether the person you love loves you and whether the person deserves your rebellion against your family.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Me too, but I decided to take him home to meet my parents in October, believing in the power of true love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Love is love, think about it first, think about it later, is it worth eloping with him, don't be a hypocritical face.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then it depends on the attitude of your partner, no matter how much you love your feelings, you can't force it!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then it's better to give up, otherwise the further back, the deeper the injury.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Communicate well with your family and convince your family.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I will hold on and I believe our love will last forever.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    When it comes to love, each of us is very much looking forward to it. Because we all know that love is happy, and it is very sweet.

    Especially when we meet someone we like, then many people will care more about each other and love each other, because we know that when we can care more attentively. And love the people we like, so that in the end we can be with the people we like to be able to have happiness and sweet love.

    Although love is happy and very sweet, sometimes we still see that although we like each other very much, the object we like does not get the consent of the family, so some people want to know if you will choose to break up because of the family of the object?

    Maybe for a small number of people, they will indeed be like this, because in fact, each of us also wants to be recognized by the family. Only with the approval of the family can we and each other be better together and get along. If the person we like and their family doesn't like us, it will make our love a lot of twists and turns.

    So if a lot of people have a partner and the family doesn't choose us, then they may really choose to break up, because only in this way can they find a suitable person.

    But we see that it is actually for most people who love each other. If the family does not agree, then they will try to convince their family that they may have some prejudice against the person they like. In fact, as long as their family members see that the person they like can always care and take care of them, they can actually understand our love.

    Therefore, if in love, the family does not understand and support us for the time being, then many people will be very positive and will be very proactive. To let their family know that the love between them is very sweet, and I believe that through their own efforts, their family members will be able to understand the love between them, so that the family will also support and understand him.

    Therefore, many people will not give up easily for love, even if they are family members, they may not agree for the time being, they will also work hard to change their family's minds, and it is through their active efforts that their family members will eventually be able to agree with their love, so that they can finally have a happier and sweeter love with the person they like.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I will not choose to break up with the person I love because of family reasons, if the other party breaks up with me because of family reasons, I will also work hard to fight, will not give up, I think feelings are the basis of love, external factors may affect the emotions of two people, but Xiaodong can change the other party's mind through their own efforts.

    Your lover broke up with you because of family reasons, and at this time, you should not accept fate; Because you are not separated from your lover for her happiness; She, like you, will be miserable when they are separated; Therefore, not giving up and not abandoning is the most correct choice.

    1. Accompany the person of true love for a lifetime, so that there will be no regrets.

    It doesn't matter who it is, whether it's a man or a woman; In this life, the happiest and happiest thing to live is to accompany your beloved, watch the flowers bloom together, and slowly grow old.

    If two people really love each other, but because of external factors, the two people are separated, such a life is the most regrettable life; Therefore, on the road of love, we must do our best to save our happiness; As long as there is a glimmer of hope, never let go of the hands of the person you love.

    In this life, if you really love someone, you can't stay with each other for a lifetime, and you will live a very humble life; In the days to come, you will remember, miss, and worry about your beloved for the rest of your life; But the beloved person cannot walk with you, but accompanies other people; Both of them are left with regrets, which is the most painful thing.

    If you really love someone, you must think about the other person, and you must not think about any other person; Love is selfish, for the sake of oneself and for the sake of the beloved, the debate team must do everything and work hard.

    Second, because the family broke up, you are in pain, and she is also in pain.

    There are many couples, because of different family situations, so two people really love each other, and in the end, they will be opposed by their families; At this time, it is actually very helpless and the most painful thing.

    Sometimes, in the eyes of parents, what seems to be for the sake of their children is actually harming their own children; If you and your loved one are forcibly separated, either your parents are against it, or her parents are against it; At this time, you must think about whether the two of you are happy or not; It can be said that the hearts of the two of you are still together; After separation, you won't be happy, and she won't be happy!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I will communicate with them, try to get their consent, and I will not choose to fight with them, because there is a conflict in such a thing, and I think family affection is the most important thing:

    One: Learn to tolerate everyone's temper is different, which requires us to be able to tolerate each other, and when tolerating, you will find that the other party will slowly change, too much for you, and the attitude towards love will become better, so only one party shows that it pays, then the other party will also get a response, and everyone will have their own free space, so give each other a little more personal space, then you will become very relaxed, and your mode of getting along will become very harmonious, That's why it's important to be inclusive.

    Two: learn to let go Everyone has their own private space, don't limit the freedom of others because of love, then this kind of love is destined to be unhappy, so this requires us to be able to recognize the relationship of love very well, when you give the other party space, then the other party will also give you space, so that the two people will become more affectionate, if you limit the freedom of the other party, then the other party will feel tired, for a long time will feel that love is meaningless, and in serious cases, it will make the love break, That's why it's so important to have a free space.

    Three: recognize the meaning of love Many people cite that since two people are together, then they have to understand each other, this idea is right, but it does not mean that you can limit each other's activities, love is formed by a person who loves each other in the coming year, if you become bound because of love, then this kind of love will make many people not accept, love is to let two people support each other, not to supervise each other, so we have to recognize the meaning of love, so that our love will become more long.

    As parents, they are also for the sake of their children's marriage, and there may be something wrong with the way and method, so we have a good attitude, communicate more and communicate more to enhance mutual understanding, so that the relationship can get better and better!

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