Why sometimes, you don t even know yourself?

When the landlord asks this question, I don't think you know what you're thinking sometimes, whether it's love or confusion. It's clear that you're missing a goal. A firm goal, there are big goals and small goals, small goals can be accomplished tomorrow, big goals can be completed in the future and in the future, small goals can change from time to time, but big goals cannot.

Every day before going to bed, tell yourself what I'm going to do tomorrow. What am I going to do next tomorrow. This is not a plan, it is an attitude towards life, an expression of life!

That's why some people go to kill people and set fires, they are people who don't have any general direction. Just know what to do now. I don't know what the consequences will be after what I do!

Just ideal to think you can! After that, I did it without thinking too much, which is irresponsible to myself!! A sense of responsibility is the carrier of human life in the world!!

I hope that the landlord will treat life positively and treat himself!! Take out your courage, your guts!! Walk forward!!

The authorities are obsessed with bystanders, and the ancients had this kind of experience, so there is no need to worry too much, no one is perfect.

It's the same for everyone. I also have this kind of rush.

People are like that, it's complicated, don't be so entangled. Just go with the flow.

Summary. This is mainly due to your growth experience makes you have a strong dependence psychology in your heart, so that when you get along with the people around you, it is easy to affirm others and deny yourself, so that you care too much about others' views and attitudes towards you, and thus ignore the role of your own subjective energy.

Therefore, you need to read more books on psychological guidance to help you eliminate excessive dependence, so that you can effectively clear the interpersonal boundaries between yourself and the people around you, so that you can not only understand yourself better, but also resume your normal interpersonal interactions.

I don't know what my psychology is.

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Hello, dear, I don't know that I am caused by excessive dependence!

And it's easy to go with the flow, because of the lack of faith, there is no specific goal in life. The reason is: lack of planning for one's life, not knowing what kind of person he wants to be, what kind of lifestyle he wants to spend his life, and no stupid direction of hard work, which leads to decadence and confusion.

The confusion I feel at this time is the result of a lack of purpose in life and a quick hail of direction. Solution: Design a life plan for your own grandson - 1. Short-term planning and lofty goals!

This is mainly due to the fact that your upbringing makes you have a strong sense of dependence, which makes it easy for you to affirm others and deny yourself when you get along with the people around you, so that you care too much about others' views and attitudes towards you, and thus ignore the role of your own subjective energy. Therefore, you need to read more psychological guidance books to help you eliminate excessive dependence, so that you can effectively clear the interpersonal boundaries between yourself and the people around you, so that you can not only understand yourself better, but also restore your normal interpersonal relationships.

Hello, has the question of the foundation been clearly answered for you? If you have any new confusion, please feel free to find me again, and I will answer it for you as soon as possible. I wish you all the best!

Summary. Hello dear, happy to answer for you. In this world, there are many people who know themselves, but there are not many people who know their hearts, and there are many people who live and live, and the more they live, the more they don't know themselves, and they become strangers to themselves.

I feel strange because the whole person is controlled by the "false self", what I do, what I feel and know, does not come from the heart, therefore, I add endless pain and troubles to my psychology, and I am living an absurd life, rushing to a life of mistakes and contradictions. If you don't know yourself, it's not that you don't want to know yourself, but you're psychologically afraid of knowing yourself, and you do everything possible to prevent you from understanding yourself!

Hello dear, happy to answer for you. In this world, there are many people who know themselves, but there are not many people who know their hearts, and there are many people who live and live, and the more they live, the more they don't know themselves, and they become strangers to themselves. I feel strange because the whole person is controlled by the "false self", what I do, what I feel and know, does not come from the heart, therefore, I add endless pain and troubles to my psychology, and I am living an absurd life, rushing to a life of mistakes and contradictions.

If you don't know yourself, it's not that you don't want to know yourself, but you're psychologically afraid of knowing yourself, and you do everything possible to prevent you from understanding yourself!

Afraid to understand oneself and know oneself, I dare not face myself, but turn my head to face the crowd, **lively to **run, extroverted personality to play their own high-minded, laughing and funny advantages, in this way, desperately forget their own heart, forget the truth of various social rules related to themselves. Forgetting the various social rules that affect oneself also eliminates one's own psychological desires. Forgetting one's own heart also closes the door to establishing a connection between one's own heart and the outside world.

In short, forget yourself in order to protect your psyche from harm so that you can live mentally! Only by blending into the lively interpersonal communication and hiding in the familiar living environment and rhythm can you find a sense of existence and security, and once the crowd disperses, the lonely person will have an inexplicable panic and deep discomfort. What is the so-called "extroverted autism?"

Not for extroverted reasons, not for loneliness, but for psychological reasons!

From now on, everything is in time, think rationally about yourself, find the true "self" in your heart, and then listen to your inner voice more to understand what your heart needs! Only when you understand your own heart can you truly understand yourself, and when your psychology is strong, adjust your mentality, and then set off!

There are many aspects to everyone. From the perspective of personality, interests, hobbies, occupation, family background, culture, education level, etc., everyone has their own unique characteristics. Even those who know themselves well cannot fully understand all aspects of themselves.

Here are a few reasons that can cause you to feel like you don't know yourself:

1.There is an inherent characteristic of pluralism: the human heart is diverse and complex. There may be feelings, thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and so on that people are not aware of.

2.Lack of self-observation and reflection: Some people may not be aware of reflecting on their thoughts and actions, or may not see the results of reflection as an opportunity to make themselves better. If you lack the ability to observe yourself, it is easy to get caught up in superficial days.

3.Influenced by external influences may: Everyone lives in society and accepts the influence of society, culture, traditions, etc., and these factors will also affect a person's growth and outlook on life.

4.Losing self in order to adapt to the environment: Some people change their behavior to be like others in order to be accepted and adapted in the environment. As a result, you may feel like you don't know yourself when you move to a new environment.

In short, each of us is unique, and the degree to which we know ourselves can be influenced by internal and external factors, as well as our own factors. If you don't know yourself, try to set up more time for self-exploration, reflection, and a deeper understanding of your interests, hobbies, life goals, etc.