I ve liked a girl for 9 years Do you want to give up on a girl who has liked a girl for many years?

First of all, I have to say that you are a boy worthy of love, although I don't think very much but I can't forget, in fact, it is a very normal state, maybe this person is hard for you to forget in this life, and when you recall it, you feel that you were also very beautiful at that time, so you don't have to deliberately, even if you have such a feeling in your heart, but it is different from real love, so you should find a girlfriend, but remember that this person in your heart is not your lover, just a shadow of your love, just the past, so you don't have to feel guilty and don't have to be absent-minded.

Forehead ......Do you know anything about her? If you don't understand, it means that what you like is not her, but the idealized her, the lover of your ideal. However, I don't think you will completely forget it in your life, after all, this is a nine-year memory.

Having said that, don't you think that it is with her presence like this in your life that your life is so meaningful and ......hopeful?

If you are familiar with each other, then I advise you to show some courage and wisdom to pursue your life o( o haha

I once liked a girl, I chased her for three years, and she didn't agree! Later, a girl chased me! At that time, in line with the principle of "find someone I love, it's better to find someone who loves me", I agreed to her!

In the end, I fell in love with her, and then I realized that I just liked the girl I used to like, just a feeling, not love, just a habit! So she became me for a while.

Since I can't forget it in my heart, just let it be, don't take liking as waiting, like her, be good to her, look at her well... That's it, if she's happy because of you, you'll be happy too, won't you? After a long time, maybe she was moved by you and fell in love with you, maybe you can be together.

Or maybe, after a long time, you will gradually fade this liking, and you will become very good friends, isn't it great?

Dude, you are my role model, ask what is the situation in the world, teach people to live and die, and so on, is that a thing? A person must dare to love and hate, like is like, like to fight, and not in vain to pay for the feelings he has paid.

, nine years! If a guy likes me for nine years and I don't know it, I'll die for him. Of course, he has to be rich and handsome.

If you can't forget, just keep in mind that being uncomfortable is also a kind of enjoyment!!

If you can't forget, find an empathy that is better than her.

If you can't forget it, you will remember it diligently...

Although it is a very happy thing to be able to find someone you really like emotionally, but many times for some couples, they have liked someone for many years, and in the end they are likely to be unable to be with themselves, and they have to give up this relationship helplessly, although this process will make you fall into a period of pain and confusion, but this is also a process of growing and maturing.

As far as I am concerned, the reason why I will give up the person I like for many years is that I am still relatively young at the time, and my understanding of feelings is still very superficial, and the reason why I like each other is that I lack a real understanding of each other, just because of the other party's appearance, because of the ignorant feeling and impulse in my heart, I like each other, and then let myself fall into a state of paranoia and confusion.

But as I grow older, my mind is becoming more and more mature, and my life is getting richer and richer, gradually, I also realized that the people I like for many years are not as perfect as I imagined, and after the two people really interact together, I find that there is a big difference between each other, and even two people are difficult to really communicate, and there is a relatively big difference between the two people in the three views, in this case, I gradually have a doubt about the relationship I once had. Gradually realized that I may not have found a person who is really suitable for me, this person I like for many years, can not really bring happiness and joy to myself, when I weigh it again and again, I gradually realized that for this person who likes for many years, I should still choose to give up, which is a good thing for me and for each other, and I hope that in the future, each other can pursue their true happiness.