Why don t you stay in each place for a long time?

It takes time for people to get along with each other! First of all, if you want to associate with some people, the first step is to open yourself, if you are embarrassed, it will be difficult to get along! Secondly, everyone needs to get along with each other, and if you can't get along well, you will stay away from those who can't get along well, and that's not good!

Acquaintance is an art to meet people! It takes time to explore、**! Spend more time without people who can't get along with each other There is no one to make friends with after staying in each place for a short time, and there is no one to share when you are happy or unhappy, open yourself up and get along more, and there will be more and more friends!

Why you stayed in that place for a short time, I feel it has a lot to do with your personality. I'm more introverted, I'm such a person, I feel that it's hard to fit into other people's circles, and I'm also slow to heat. In short, this kind of personality is not very likable, if you can try to be cheerful.

This will help you make friends and also help you establish yourself in a new place.

If, yes! Find out the reason from yourself! Is there a problem with the way you communicate, is it a flaw in your personality, or whatever? In short, we must know how to save ourselves three times a day.

Everyone's personality is different, and it is really difficult for people to get along with each other, especially in the workplace, they are afraid that others will be stronger than themselves and steal their jobs. If you want to stay in one place, learn to improvise and play dumb when you have time.

Freemasonry! Concentric correspondence; When I go to a place, I am full of hope, even if it is a minefield, I will create it! After a long time, it will be retreated!

How many self-summarizers are there? One is personal karma, which is related to personality! The second is that the work is not right!

Too tired or not your ideal position! The third is that I was forced to do this, and I can't do it, what else can I do!

This is something to learn, learn to behave and behave, and slowly become tactful.

It can only be said that you are a restless person who is not satisfied with the status quo, and you can always find a sense of existence and find your true value.

Everyone's personality is different, and I am the same as you, I talk and laugh in front of acquaintances, but I don't want to say a word in an unfamiliar environment! But working together, slowly get to know each other, open your heart, and maybe make some more intimate friends.

This is that you are not thoughtful in dealing with the world, and people nowadays are a lot of abnormalities in their hearts.

Everyone has their own personality and knows how to find the right harbor.

Will also greet them politely in addition to that.

What happens to people who stay in one place for a long time? I feel happy when I go to **, I feel happy wherever I go, probably I haven't been happy for a long time, as long as I change places, I will be satisfied, and I will be happy naturally.

There is no 2020 that cannot be passed, and the difficulties and setbacks will eventually pass. 2021 has arrived, and after a year, I was sent out on a business trip again. At this time, there is no need to do nucleic acid, and there is no need to do nucleic acid when you go back to Beijing.

A passenger in the same carriage on the high-speed rail road snored very loudly, and came to the terminal station - Taiyuan with his snoring.

Taiyuan is a very lively but civilized place. Why? I still remember coming to this place with the leaders when I just graduated, when the subway was still under construction, and the street stalls and vendors were also being renovated.

Now, the subway has been built, and the stalls and vendors on the road are gone, and the road is very clean. The drivers in Taiyuan are very interesting, maybe I have met fewer people, and compared with the drivers in Beijing with my limited knowledge, the drivers in Taiyuan are a little happier. Why?

Different cities have different cultures and different rhythms.

Go out to buy fruit at night, observe the crowd on the street, people come and go, this street has a more people-friendly design, not far from the door of the store on both sides of the street, there are some tables and chairs, people sit together in twos and threes and chat, what is it like in Beijing at seven o'clock in the evening? I've only been to the 4th and 6th Ring Roads, and it's rare to see anyone so relaxed at night, the shop is lively, the streets are full of adults talking, children are playing, and the cat is scratching the ground with its little paws at the door of the store, this is the first time since 2020 that I feel such a real life.

And Beijing always gives people a strange feeling, the old people basking in the sun in the community, the old people with children, and the young people basically can't see it when they get off work. I still remember once participating in a comic con, in which the little brothers and sisters of cosplay, wearing makeup, wantonly showed their beauty, and suddenly felt old. But are you really old?

The biological age is not old, but the mental age is old. We have been controlling ourselves not to allow ourselves to be exposed to new things, but we have lost ourselves.

After work, slowly, I found that I had no ability to love, I would no longer be moved, knowing that others would actively contact me like when I was in school, this is not a continuous state, and I still covet this kind of contact. Maybe it has something to do with the nature of the work, there are only a handful of people in contact, there are few opportunities to open your mouth to speak, and you slowly become silent and sensitive, like a mute, closing yourself.

This situation mostly occurs in women, who lose themselves and close themselves, which is actually not conducive to life. We express our feelings in words, and receive feedback to enrich our feelings. In order to become a better version of yourself, don't suffocate your heart and take your time to try to get back to your best.

Summary. It depends on whether it is a voluntary or passive resignation.

It depends on whether it is a voluntary or passive resignation.

Voluntary resignation may be that you have never known what job you are suitable for.

Active. Every time I work for a while, I feel that I am not suitable for me.

Right. Either that's lazy or too lazy. Don't want to work.

When I went, I had a good relationship with the same time, but it slowly became bad, I don't know why?

Slowly running in, some people, getting along with others may be due to personality reasons, and each other's shortcomings are exposed after a long time.

Getting along with others is also a science, remember not to be too demanding.

If you push too hard, you'll be tired.

I felt that someone was deliberately bullying me.

Disrespect me. Sometimes you can't be too sensitive.

I guess you should be a sensitive person who is not very confident yet.

It needs to be cultivated slowly.

What should I do.

It's hard to change your personality.

Basically, I figured it out slowly on my own, and I can read more inspirational books and books on communicating with people.

Some are because of relationships, and some are because of salary issues.

Unlike before, everyone feels that it is not easy to find a job, and they all want to be stable, rather than easily changing jobs. It is no longer strange for a person with good ability to change jobs.

However, now job-hopping is no longer the preserve of young people, job-hopping means a change in income and network, there is a certain risk, and there are people at all levels in job-hopping. In order to get a job I liked, I carefully prepared interview clothes, interview materials, and looked at various interview skills, which one didn't require energy?

To sum up, there are three main reasons for changing jobs.

1: The company is unstable and always in arrears of wages.

This kind of Hengpai Zheng Company is the most reluctant and feared by employees. I work hard for the company, make money for the company, and in the end even the salary is in arrears, such a company really has no development prospect at all, in such a company, their career planning, ideals and ambitions are difficult to realize. As a result, it is a matter of time before job hopping is a matter of time, and most of such companies are encountered by novice job seekers, and veteran job seekers will not work in such companies.

2: The salary is okay, but I am not happy in the company.

In such a company, some employees will choose to change jobs, because they are not happy in the company, and think that I should do a job that can make me happy and profitable, but in real life, it is difficult for someone to encounter a job that makes them happy and profitable, so in such a company, only people who have courage and high requirements for themselves will choose to change jobs. Many people would rather get a decent salary and do unhappy jobs.

3: It is not in line with the leadership values, and it is not a like-minded person.

In such a company, some employees do what they are happy with and earn a considerable income. Employees with high ambitions will think about the direction of the company's development, and if their development direction conflicts with the company's development direction or is too different from the boss's values, these employees will choose to change jobs and go to work in a like-minded company.

Some people say that job-hopping is the patent of young people, when you have a family, old and young, no matter how hard the work is, how unhappy you are, you just think about it, and dare not put it into action.

You always work in one place, whether it's in a city or a company, and it's easy to be stupid if you spend too long. Because things are constantly advancing, new things are emerging, and you need to find a way to follow up and find a way to reach out to research.

No, there is a solution to everything, it's just a matter of time, why you can't stay in a place for a long time, first consider what problems you have, you may always be afraid to face reality in your heart! Maybe not being able to adapt to the working environment is also a reason, do you want to leave again? I advise you not to leave yet, or the old saying, set a goal for yourself first, and when you achieve this goal, you can find that it is actually such a reality after life (to add:

Don't always think about how much you give, and what you get is not the same as what you pay. Always believe that you will pay off).

No one can make a conclusion from these estimates alone, first of all, you must be clear about why you want to leave, whether you are dissatisfied with the salary, environment or other aspects, you compare the two jobs before and after, the difference is in **, summarize the reasons why you left the previous one, and what attracts you in the latter unit.

I don't think life is easy.

Although there are a lot of things we don't want to do ourselves.

But we have to pressure ourselves to do what we don't want to do.

That's the only way. to progress.

It is only in an oppressed environment that you can experience the difficulty of survival, and life is hard.

Unless dead. Because death is a relief.

In fact, all work is a waste of life in the form of a monk hitting the bell, and you are waiting for death unless the work you are engaged in becomes a kind of enjoyment. Or most people's work is originally a regression of human beings, the productivity of human beings today can feed all mankind by a very small number of people, and everyone can retire after working for five years, and then pursue their own dreams, human thought will enter the process of accelerating evolution to God, perhaps the ancient Xiuzhen civilization is orthodox, and the so-called science is just a stage of human astray.

Internal and external causes. The internal causes are mainly in you, and the external causes are mainly in other people and circumstances.

Internal factors here include: your ability to do your job, your ability to deal with people, and whether you like the work you do. The two are also mutually restrictive and mutually influential.

The external cause is to see if others like you and whether they are willing to accept you. Does the environment in which you work feel comfortable and full of enthusiasm for your work?

Internal and external factors are mutually restrictive and influential, but it is the internal factors that play a decisive role.

Of course, you have to find the reason for this from yourself.

1；The first thing to think about is how you relate to the people around you or your boss.

2: If it's good, then look for the reason from your personal ability.

3: If it's neither, it depends on your attitude and interest in the job.

4: It is recommended to be smooth in dealing with people, strengthen their abilities, and find a job that they are suitable and interested in.

This is more like going to school, always thinking about holidays at school, and feeling bored during the holidays, it is better to find something interesting to do at work, so as to achieve a combination of work and rest.

Not a normal reaction.

It's like people eat the same thing all the time.

It's been a long time. I wouldn't like it either.

Because you haven't found what you need yet.