What are you afraid of?

I am most afraid of bees last summer that the screen door of the room forgot to close, and the garbage of the peaches in the trash can was not thrown away. After a day and a half out on the weekend, I went back to my room and saw several bees faintly on the screen window on the ground. Disappreciatively, I took a magazine and rushed it.

I didn't go around and flew behind the TV. I don't know if I don't know it, and I'm scared when I look at it. The back 3 sides of the TV, including the back of the TV stand, are densely covered with bees.

Tens of thousands are no exaggeration. I immediately ran out of my room and went to sleep. Lost the room to the property disposal.

Since then, I can't help but shiver when I see bees.

I'm so afraid I'll get sick like my mom and die. She left before she had time to enjoy her happiness, she still had a lot of things to do, she had an incurable cancer, and the disease would make you lose both money and money. In this world, you are afraid of being sick, you are afraid that your family will get sick, you are afraid that you will get sick.

You see Brother Yong died young, and God is jealous of talent. He is such a wealthy person, and there is nothing he can do in the face of illness. No matter if you are a high-ranking official or nobleman, you can't afford to get sick, and illness comes like a mountain.

Shrimp. When I was cooking braised prawns at home, I bought a few live prawns and put them in a pot, and I ran to tease them, when suddenly a shrimp jumped up from the water and jumped on my arm. I was so shocked that my hairs stood on end, and it felt like I was seeing bugs (I'm scared of bugs too).

Shrimp has never been eaten since, including that dinner.

I am most afraid that my family members will get sick, or my cat will get sick, and I can't do anything to see them feel uncomfortable more than I am uncomfortable. Seeing that his relatives are suffering and his own powerlessness is the most devastated, he would rather be sick.

Afraid of losing, I always inexplicably give myself an invisible sense of crisis. I am afraid that what I have gained will be lost, and what I have lost will be far away. I'm afraid that there will be no gain after paying, and there will be no result after struggle. I always spent it in fear and fear, and then I thought about what I was afraid of losing, the more I lost something!

The most feared thing is that one day I will completely lose my self-knowledge and self-control and become mentally ill. I don't know how much damage this will do to the people I love. I told my friends that I don't know how far I can go on the road of "people".

I hope that whenever I die, I will be a human being, a creature that can be called a human being.

I'm afraid that I'm sick, the body is the capital of the revolution, only a good body is still in time, keep the green mountains, not afraid of no firewood. Nothing is anything in front of life.

Because I have been very thin since I was a child, sometimes I imagine what I look like when I am middle-aged, and I don't know if others have that feeling, precisely because I have never been fat, so I am particularly afraid of becoming fat.

Reasons for being timid and fearful: seeing parents arguing, parents being overprotective, lack of contact with the outside world, and verbal intimidation of children.

1. Seeing your parents arguing.

Children are actually a blank slate, and we parents are a paintbrush, and the children's personality and habits are depicted by ourselves. In life, many behaviors of adults can lead to children being timid, for example, husband and wife quarrels are one of the reasons for children to be timid.

2. Parents are overprotective.

Parents are too protective of their children and are the main reason why they are timid. Nowadays, most families are only children, and the whole family takes good care of them, whether it is in the details of life or in the learning process, some of the problems that should be solved by the children themselves will be taken care of by the parents.

3. Lack of contact with the outside world.

Children have less contact with their parents and spend less time living with their grandparents. Parents are not around and do not establish a good sense of security. Grandparents overspoil their children and take care of them too carefully, resulting in a lack of opportunities for children to have contact with the outside world.

In addition, family discord and frequent changes in the care and living environment can also make children feel insecure, causing them to feel fearful and become timid.

4. Use language to intimidate children.

Some children do not listen to their parents at home, such as crying or not eating well, parents use the child's scared language to scare him, saying that if you cry again, I will throw you outside; Some children don't sleep, and the adults say that the devil will come and catch him; Some children want to play with mud, parents are afraid that the child will get dirty clothes, saying that there are insects in the mud to bite your hands, and use these to intimidate the child, so that the child becomes timid.

Timid

Timidity refers to a person's (mental state of mind that is too afraid of deterrent things to face reality) and cannot extricate himself. Cowering and considerate.

You can exercise yourself for some specific occasions and situations, such as in more formal occasions or crowded occasions, if you are particularly timid, then participate in more social activities, communicate with others more, strengthen your interpersonal skills, and overcome your easy to be nervous and afraid. In addition, it is important to participate in more activities, exercise more, make yourself lively and cheerful, and maintain a positive attitude.

Timidity refers to a person's psychological state of being too afraid of deterrent things to face reality, and to act timidly and considerately. Timidity is a person's personality, and the reasons for timidity are many, and it is not yet fully clear, and it is generally believed that it is related to personal experience, growth environment, and one's original personality characteristics. Many things can be changed, and if you are determined to change, you must let go a little bit and work hard to act.

Timid means very timid, afraid that things will fall on you, afraid of getting into trouble.

1. Source: Zeng Pu's "Flower of the Sea of Evil" Chapter 29: "Who knows that I have searched all over the place, and most of the people I met are prodigal sons who are drunk and dreaming of death, spending all day and drinking, otherwise they are cowardly businessmen who buy and sell." ”

2. Synonyms:

1. Timid as a mouse: It means that he is as timid as a mouse, and he is described as very timid, from "Wei Shu Ruyin Wang Tianci Biography".

2. Fearful: looking forward and backward, very cautious and fearful; The metaphor is that people are timid and have many concerns; It can be used as a predicate and a definite in a sentence; Derogatory.

3. Be cautious: It originally referred to being very cautious in speaking and doing things, but now it refers to being too cautious about some things. "Huainanzi Human Training": "The sage respects the small and cautious, and loses no time at every turn." ”

3. Antonyms:

1. Boldness: refers to doing things without scruples or doing things boldly, such as extreme sports. From "The Flower of the Sea of Evil". For example, he was a bold man, and he dared to row a boat on a rushing river.

2. Fearless: It means that because there is some reliance, you are not afraid, dare to do it, and dare to challenge. From "The Twenty-sixth Year of the Reign of the Emperor". For example, he relied on someone to protect him and rowed freely in the rapids.

Example sentences for being timid and afraid

1. In the eyes of the timid and indecisive, everything is impossible, because at first glance it seems so.

2. She is timid and fearful, cowardly as a mouse, but in order to hide her embarrassment, she often pretends to be pretentious, but this is just a bluff.

3. She is really timid and afraid, and often hides far away, for fear of involving her.

4. An incompetent person who relied on his father's shadow to obtain a knighthood, was timid and fearful, but was coveted by the strongman because he carried a heavy treasure, and by chance, turned his castle into a pet, so as to get the opportunity to change his life.

5. She has always been so timid and afraid of things, and never thought about solving the problem.

6. Vigorous and fierce people are always high-spirited, dare to do and dare to act, she is not vigilant and cautious that her courageous approach will cause her to suffer setbacks and even destruction, but to be obedient and polite as a timid and fearful thing, and always do everything to use her energy to stop.

Pinyin】 dǎn xiǎo pà shì

Xie Ye is very timid, afraid that things will fall on his head, and he is afraid of causing trouble.

Source: Song Pai Bridge.

Example] He turned out to be oneTimid and afraid, a small civil servant who bows his head, is cowardly, and is willing to be bullied. (Ba Jin, "On the Cold Night, He Zhu").

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