Why are my colleagues so indifferent when my mother dies?

In fact, many people will be indifferent to many things, because it is not their family business. Your relationship with them isn't that good.

A colleague is just a colleague, the death of your mother is your family affair, and your colleague is not familiar with your mother, what do they have to be sad? Working together, you are colleagues, when you leave this unit, you are not even friends, do you say that such a relationship can expect them to be sad?

Calm down, that's your mother, it has nothing to do with others, don't care about such things.

There are several possibilities.

1 I don't know how to express it ...

2. Because it has nothing to do with yourself. It is useless to say more.

3. After all, it's a lot of work. I don't have time to pay attention to the above issues (because of your wedding and funeral period. A lot of the work is shared by other people. Didn't have the energy to go)

Don't be angry, sometimes it's not that colleagues are indifferent, it's because no one takes the initiative to organize this matter to make a small favor, report an indifferent attitude, and exchange courtesies, I have also encountered such a thing,

When my grandmother passed away the year before last, my colleagues in the department didn't care.

Today, the mother of a colleague in the department passed away, and they are discussing how to express condolences and give red envelopes, what should I do?

If you have eye problems, you should change your style and attitude in the future, and be more sunny and cheerful about the characters.

Whose mother died? If it weren't for his own mother, basically no one else would be sad.

Now my colleagues are all contract or temporary workers. It didn't take long to dry.

I was very sad to hear that my colleague Lao Wan's mother had passed away. In the spring of the year before last, when the new coronavirus was raging, his father died, and now his mother is driving west; The year before last, more than a dozen people in the unit took the initiative to go to his house to mourn and help do something, but now, the epidemic is still tight, and there is snow to close the road, so it is impossible to go.

I have been with Lao Wan for 30 years, he is three years older than me, he can be called the big brother, he is the same height as me, but he has experienced a lot of things, he has been suspended for two years, he can be described as well-informed, rich life experience.

His father used to work in the highway section, and also served as a leader, they have four brothers and sisters, he is the elder brother, the following three younger sisters, there is something in the family, almost all of them are in charge of him, as well as his aunt's family, uncle's family, and parents-in-law's family, if there is something, they must discuss with him, let him finally make up his mind. In the years I have worked with him, often, he suddenly has something to do, and when he comes back, he asks, this time it is his brother-in-law's family; What if again? It's his aunt's business.

He is also very enthusiastic about his colleagues, he is still the pillar of the school, he is 57 years old, he still works as a class teacher, he is the oldest class teacher, he said that he is hard-working, conscientious, should be well-deserved, deserved.

In his father's absence, his mother said, "Do not leave the house, but stay at home alone, guarding her house and land; She was 80 years old at the time, and for less than two years, she had been alone in her hometown, keeping her promises, living her own life, and not affecting her children.

Recently, due to the epidemic, the school was closed early, and Brother Wan took his mother to his home to fulfill his filial piety; The day before yesterday, I also cooperated with the community to do the eighth nucleic acid test at the scene, and suddenly had body pain after returning, Lao Wan immediately called "120" to send her to the hospital, and after examination, she died due to the rupture of a tumor on the liver, from the discovery to the final stage, a total of only ten hours.

I don't know when I hear a sentence, for everyone, I'm afraid it's unwanted; If a person's life can reach these four points and twelve words, it can be regarded as the luck of happiness. Those who are born well live long, those who are sick are late, and those who die quickly. Especially the last two, it must be the luxury of every person who enters old age, and Lao Wan's mother can be regarded as meeting the latter two, she is not in pain, and she does not cause trouble to her children.

In the spring of the year before last, Lao Wan buried his father, and in the autumn, he married his son; Now, the old mother has passed away, and the son in Hangzhou can't come back due to the epidemic, life is like this, there are joys and sorrows, and it is unpredictable.

Birth, old age, sickness and death are something that everyone has to experience, just look at it correctly. The father of a classmate once said: I am 80 years old, which has exceeded the average life expectancy of Chinese people.

I admire this state of mind very much, and often the more people who have this state of mind, the longer they live, and vice versa.

May the mother of all brothers rest in peace!