Reality, the reality before marriage!!!!

In fact, you don't have to worry about this,,, your girlfriend has agreed to marry you, so she still loves you very much, women will be very entangled before marriage, worried about whether they have made the wisest choice,,, and worry about whether you will become more and more cold to her after you get married,,, and so on,,, serious lack of security, she asked you to buy a house and pay the mortgage may also be a test of how much you love her,,, you should promise her, she will still help you share it when you really buy it,,, do you think, After you get married, you owe debts because of buying a house, because of the loan repayment to save food, but she takes her salary to live easily and happily,,, how can it be, she will definitely feel sorry for you, just like me, now tell my boyfriend that you save your own money to pay for the down payment, and you pay the mortgage yourself,,, my family has no money, my own salary is also moonshine, and I can't save money,,, in fact, I am encouraging him,,, I am not saving the money for the down payment, but I will not ,,,let him know that the mortgage in the future will definitely be repaid together, When you get married, your money is her money, even if your salary is repaid for the loan, her salary will be used for the family, and the unused is also your family's savings,,What's the difference,,Fortunately, he agreed,If he says that I can't share the ups and downs with him,,, then I will definitely be angry,,Doubt his sense of responsibility and trust in me,,I will also ask myself whether it is worth it to be so well-intentioned,Alas,This is a woman,Always have to doubt,Reconfirm,Redoubt,Reconfirm,Reconfirm,,, The most important thing is that your girlfriend has now agreed to marry you,,, it takes a lot of determination for girls,,, so you should cherish it,,, I wish you happiness!

Often the reality of the problem is more serious, I hope you can work hard to achieve your common wishes!

It's normal for things like this to happen now, so you'd better work on your own.

What do you want to do with such a woman, mixed with a lot of love, do you still need it? Resolutely pedaled, no conscience.

I'm starting to disbelieve in love again.

Be sure to keep these three sentences in mind before getting married.

It's really annoying.

First of all, you have to make sure that your friend is someone you want to marry and want to live for the rest of your life, and also make sure that you are mentally ready to face the upcoming child.

The second point, if yes, then you have to let your girlfriend and you on the same front, you have to give your girlfriend's parents a reassurance, that is, to reassure the elderly that you will not have anything else to do when you go out to work, you must be only 25 years old, get married too early, some of the psychology is immature and may not be able to bear the pressure of life, not to mention that the conditions of both of you are not very good, and you must face a child who is about to be born too early; Moreover, during pregnancy, a woman's physiological body has undergone great changes, and she needs to be accompanied by the old company, and others cannot replace it, otherwise it will affect the fetus;

The third point, I think that all your conditions are not suitable for marriage, both parties should calm down and consider, although you are very manly and responsible, but the future life can not be lived with courage and impulse, your problems can not be solved by marriage at all, marriage is also full of contradictions;

Fourth, in fact, your girlfriend's parents are very realistic, and because having children may make them have to face another reality, that is, children, so I think you and your girlfriend should think about it before getting married, listen to your parents' opinions, this kind of thing must be solved by yourself, otherwise you are in great pain now, and when you have a child, will you let the child hurt with you.

I wish you happiness.

The child still wants it, everything else is easy to say, if you really don't want the child in the future, you will regret it My girlfriend's father also wants his daughter to be able to live a better life, get the certificate first, there must be a little guarantee, or how can you rest assured, do a good job at home, it will be fine!!

It is recommended that you discuss it with his parents, and try not to beat the child, because it is possible to form a habit of miscarriage, and you also let your girlfriend do their ideological work with you, I wish you happiness.

If you want to get married, don't leave your girlfriend alone, or find a job in your girlfriend's city, or you can take care of your girlfriend at any time. Or either both of you go back to your own home, you get a job in your hometown, and your family can take care of your girlfriend. Besides, marriage is to marry a girlfriend, and it should be settled in your house!

First of all, seek the consent of the other party's parents, explain the situation clearly, I believe that they don't want their daughter to get pregnant to do **, and then prepare to get married, and finally you still have to go to work, what do you use to support your wife and children without money...

Invite the parents of both parties to have a family meeting together, it is better to talk about what you have now, what can you bring her, it is best for both parents to help, even if it is just support in action, it will also bring you some comfort.

Marriage is a matter for two people! Or a matter of two families! But the knot that is necessary for the sake of the child! The child is innocent!

There is always a solution to the problem! Let's talk about it....

, what are you going to do, and now you don't want it, are you a man! #

Her father also wants to see her daughter, and if you have a house at home, it seems that you can only let your girlfriend go to your house and discuss it with his family.