Real problems, what are the common but difficult to solve problems in real life?

When we live in some buildings, it is easy to encounter a clogged toilet, at this time we may ask professionals to help solve it, this problem is very common, but it is difficult for most people to solve, the first is that you can't overcome that feeling, and the second is that you are at a loss after encountering it.

Problems that are common but difficult to solve in real life, such as the problem of boyfriend and girlfriend relationships, which are very popular now. If you don't think the same way as a girl, it's hard to avoid a fight, but it's really hard to solve the problem of a fight.

This kind of problem is actually a relationship problem. As long as you get along with people, you will have problems with interpersonal relationships. This problem is more difficult to solve because it can lead to the breakdown of the relationship between two people if it is not handled well.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very troublesome for every woman. It's already good to get along with mediocre, don't expect her to be your own mother, you will never change your sincerity. Only your mom can help you.

It is a family with children, they are the question of whether they will let the elderly take care of their children, because some people think that the elderly, their thinking is very backward, and their previous methods of taking care of children are very backward, so it is difficult to solve.

We should try to use as little or no disposable items as possible: disposable chopsticks, disposable toothbrushes, etc. Although these items have brought us temporary convenience, they have paid a high price for the ecological environment. Second, we should conserve resources and reduce pollution.

The personal life experience is the people who cut the queue when buying things, advocating a civilized society, but there are still some difficulties in implementing it in some places, and I hate those who cut the queue the most, and they are not civilized, and they can't always solve the fundamental problem.

After having a child, whether the child wants the elderly at home to take it, or don't want the elderly to bring it at home, to bring the elderly, not assured, many old people are intergenerational, overly spoiled, may give children some bad habits, do not bring to the elderly, busy with their own work, no time to take in person, please nanny is not at ease, of course, in actual life, most ordinary families still let the elderly bring, and then complain that the elderly give children a lot of bad habits.

Emotional problems, emotions are very complex and very common, when there is a problem, if you want to solve it, you have to figure out the minds of both parties, sometimes it will be difficult to guess, if it is not handled properly, more serious problems will occur.

There are differences in the understanding of survival in each person, and there are problems in our methods in evangelism, so there are many factions and discords, which are problems of history, of the present, and of the future.

Reality is as far away as one's own life. The reality may be that you are facing a very bad predicament. There is something wrong or mismatched between life and work.

It's all up to you to adjust. Open your heart and adjust your mobile optimism. To face life and work in front of the source positively. Kai do.

Anyway, if you love yourself, you will understand the truth.

Possibility and reality are a pair of categories that reflect the interrelationship of things in the past, present, and future. Actuality refers to the existence that has been generated, has an internal basis, and is inevitable. Possibility refers to the potential in the development process of things, and is the various trends contained in things and predicting the future of their development.

To grasp the category of possibility, it is necessary to distinguish between several different situations: to distinguish between possibility and impossibility. It is necessary to distinguish between the possibility of reality and the possibility of abstraction.

The possibility of reality is the possibility that there is a relatively sufficient basis in reality and can be realized at this stage; An abstract possibility is a possibility that lacks sufficient basis and conditions in reality and can therefore be realized in the future. To distinguish between two opposing possibilities, we should think about the worst possible and strive to make things the best possible way. It is necessary to distinguish between different degrees of possibility.

It is also necessary to pay attention to the difference in quantity, distinguish the degree of possibility, and strive to increase the possibility of being advantageous and reducing and avoiding the possibility of harm.

Possibility and reality are opposites. On the one hand, the possibility and the reality are different. It may not be reality, reality is not possible, and the two cannot be equated.

On the other hand, possibility and reality are interdependent and interdependent, and can be transformed into each other under certain conditions. There are many phenomena and problems worth thinking about in the course of everyone's life. In reality, perhaps the most frequent thinking is in the value or meaning of life.

From the perspective that career is created by struggle and happiness is created by struggle, life is a process of struggle in different degrees, and the essence of struggle is the process of turning big or small "impossible" into "possible", and "possibility" into reality.

The essence of the journey of life is to cross on a road full of "possibility" and "indispensable ability", and in the process of crossing, through the effective combination of subjective efforts and objective conditions, the "impossible" is transformed into "possible". The success of life and the degree of success depend on how much "impossible" he (she) can make "possible" and how much possibility can become reality. The main manifestation of unsuccess or failure in life is that too many things that were originally "possible" have been negatively transformed into "impossible".

The main reason is undoubtedly the lack of knowledge and ability reserves, and the most fundamental is that the ideological understanding and conceptual awareness lag behind the needs of life development, and the lack of a sense of responsibility and urgency in life makes too much time pass without leaving any "traces". Opportunity is reserved for those who are prepared, and "maybe" favors those who are prepared. Truly smart people try to prepare when the opportunity is not yet visible or unclear, and when the opportunity comes, they are "waiting for the vacancy" and are ready to welcome the opportunity to "take a seat in the house".

Those who are not smart or pretending to be smart will wait until the opportunity for the "guest" to come, and even have the idea of waiting for the "guest" to come home.

In today's society, some people may be dissatisfied with reality and fall into unrealistic fantasies for various reasons. Here are some tips to hopefully help you manage your emotions and cope better with reality:

1.Recognize reality for what it is: Understanding and accepting reality is the first step. Reality is something we can't change, but we can change our attitude towards it. Be clear about your expectations and goals, and understand the time and effort it takes to achieve them.

2.Develop a positive mindset: A positive mindset is an important part of maintaining a healthy mind. Try to focus on your strengths and accomplishments, and look at the little things in life with gratitude and optimism. Focus on solving problems instead of getting stuck in a cycle of negativity.

3.Set realistic goals: Set specific, achievable, and challenging goals based on your abilities and resources. Achieving these goals step by step can help you rebuild your sense of satisfaction and self-confidence in reality.

4.Expand your hobbies and social circles: Finding new hobbies and engaging in them can help you divert your focus and connect with like-minded people. Broadening your social circle can provide support and understanding to help you better face reality.

5.Develop the habit of self-care: When faced with real-world difficulties, it is important to learn to take care of your physical and mental health. Maintain a balanced diet, good sleep and moderate exercise, and find ways to relax and unwind, such as meditation, reading cherry blossoms, or creating art.

6.Seek professional support: If you feel unable to control unrealistic fantasies that are affecting your daily life, consider seeking help from a professional counsellor or psychologist. They can provide personalized guidance and support to help you regain a proper sense of reality.

The most important thing to remember is that everyone has their own confusions and frustrations, but we can change the way we approach reality with a positive attitude and appropriate coping strategies. Believe in your abilities, keep trying, and give yourself some tolerance and understanding, and you will gradually find ways to adapt to reality and achieve personal growth.

Your dream is also the dream of many rural people!

I also came out of the countryside, and later wandered in other places, and often returned to my hometown to build a mansion on the homestead of my hometown, living comfortably and comfortably, as if living in seclusion. And over the years of development, I have also saved a sum of money, which is enough to build a big house on the old house. But some of the problems I mentioned, you have to think about it clearly, and this is probably the problem that most college students from rural areas face.

1.After graduating from college, I want to build a big house in my old house. The premise is that you must have a career and income in your hometown, and develop in this place for a few or more years, otherwise, you only want to live here, but you have no ability to survive, it will definitely not work, there is no sustainability.

2.The second step is that you definitely have to think about what to do here and do a sustainable business. In my hometown, the only way to earn a living in my hometown is construction, because real estate is also being developed in rural areas.

A young person should have enough economic acumen to lead the development of the local construction industry, whether it is a construction contractor or a professional and technical worker, if there is no achievement in the short term, in the long run, there will be great achievements. This is an opportunity for personal development, and there are many more in society. You should use your professional advantages to start your own business.

3.A wanderer like me, who has been developing abroad, has had enough income in the past n years, and has already started a family abroad. The city where I work is where I have been growing for a long time, where I settle and buy property.

As for the old house, maybe after retirement, take out enough funds to build a pension.

4.Considering your personal income to build a big house is definitely unrealistic at the moment. For rural areas, it is common for parents to help their sons build a house and start a family, and your parents and relatives and friends will definitely give great help when the time is ripe to build a house.

Young people, now it is best to choose a good direction of development, set great ambitions, and achieve a career. Of course, not everyone has such interests and abilities, and they do not force them.

6.It is unrealistic to save money with a little income, if you can borrow, you will borrow, and if you can borrow, you will borrow. As for selling land, it depends on whether it is worth the money, and someone buys it.

7.Individuals are growing, seeing is also growing, ability and income are growing, and those with ambition will surely succeed. Your goal is clear, and considering the above factors, I believe you can achieve it within 10 years.

Ten years ago, I was the same as you are now, but with my current financial resources, it is more than enough to build this house on the homestead of my hometown.

I wish you success!

Everything starts from reality. It's okay to build a new house, but it's enough to live in, and don't be too extravagant and affect other aspects of life. 20 years old is still very young, the city is much more developed than the countryside, you also need to deeply grasp and improve your professional and technical ability, be the top person in the industry, slowly learn management and other knowledge, grasp the changing trend of the world.

As long as you can make a wish to study hard, work hard, and serve people wholeheartedly, hehe, then you don't have to worry about houses, cars, tickets, wife and sons, pension insurance, etc. You can learn the Dharma, get rid of troubles, believe in cause and effect, read and recite Mahayana (Diamond Sutra, Lotus Sutra, Lengyan Sutra, etc.), regardless of suffering, have few desires and be content, and be at peace with what happens, everyone's good fortune is different, you don't want to be fascinated by external illusions, in fact, life can be very simple and full and happy. For reference only, corrections are welcome.

Down-to-earth, step-by-step; It will take time.

Do it down-to-earth, do one layer a year, decorate one layer a year, like a fool moving mountains, it will be completed after all. Trust you. Don't be impatient.

Is it necessary that 400 is so big? Wouldn't it be okay to build a small two-storey? According to what you said, you are not a local hukou, and your descendants may not be willing to live in the countryside in the future.

Landlord, the real problem should be solved with a realistic method, your idea is not right, your goal is too big and too far, it seems to be out of reach, you should live well now, you should not think about ten years later.

As long as you are good enough and do what you should do in front of you, you will definitely have a bright future, and the 500,000 is nothing!

Don't be so pessimistic. You can think of it this way: when you start working, the salary will be a little lower, but it will not be only 2,000 yuan as you think, and in the coastal areas it will be at least three or four thousand yuan, and if you are a college student, the salary will definitely be higher, and your salary will increase every year.

If you don't buy a house in the city, you'll soon be able to build a nice house at home. It's like the young people in our village who built a new house at home after working outside for a few years.

Old Zhuangzi wants to take advantage. Change your mind. You have to know that it comes naturally.

Be aggressive, work hard, bear hardships and stand hard work, seize opportunities, accumulate experience, persist in patience, and the goals set will be achieved.