I broke up, my boyfriend was sad and cried, I felt that he was very useless, what was going on

You're not doing much. I just want to live a little better, and I don't want to have too much pressure.

But you have thought about it, you are 27, is it possible to find a boyfriend who can give you an ideal life and is considerate and gentle to you? You don't have confidence in him, you have no confidence in your future blind date or new boyfriend. Do you have confidence to live like that?

Crying is genuinely caring about you. Although this sentence is literary, can you find someone who cries for you and is good to you?

If you want a good quality of life, you can create it together.

Who can guarantee that your boyfriend won't be developed?

Nothing, you're normal......It's just that you don't love him anymore. I guess you must be a very independent girl with your own career and can still find the focus of your life when there are problems in your relationship. Your boyfriend should love you very much, and he cries because he will not be with you in the rest of his life.

Crying doesn't have to mean weakness, and strong people don't necessarily stop crying.

You just don't love him enough, 27 years old, I have nothing, my job is unstable, but my girlfriend has always supported and encouraged me, and we are under a lot of pressure, but it still affects our relationship. It's your kind of escalation that is the culprit that pushes your relationship to the edge, and you don't invest too much in your relationship, that's why you're so resolute. True love is experienced through ups and downs.

Wind and rain are the only test of love. No one succeeds in the first place. Your boyfriend's character is not bad according to your description.

Don't measure yourself by other people's lives, life is a marathon, naturally fast and slow. You may not be good when others are good, but there are times when you are good and others are bad. It's been a few years since I turned 27, and people who used to be more beautiful than us turned to me to do things.

So that's life. Giving up such a good boyfriend is your loss. Even if you give up on him now, I'm sure you'll have a bad time in the future.

Choose your own, and when you break it, you will break it.

Because the pressure makes you misunderstand love, his tears are not his cowardice, but his reluctance to you and his condemnation of himself.

It's not that you're wrong with love, it's just that reality makes you make a choice.

It wasn't his useless tears

A person can't cry when he's most sad, and if you ask this question, it proves that you're conflicted and don't know whether to trust your heart.

The wound that comes out of crying is a grievance.

The real sadness is that there are no tears, because when the real sadness is made, it is not the tears that are shed, but the blood of the heart.

Love will always encounter all kinds of ups and downs, and a person who truly loves himself will not let go of his hand at will and let himself go alone. Since you can't hold the other person's hand anymore, why bother thinking about it, you will find another more generous and safe hand to accompany you. Crying is useless except to vent your inner grievances, be strong.

You will find happiness!

Then do betrayal I'm in a similar situation to you now, I'm going to be very sad, I'll be hurt if I continue, if he loves you a little more, he'll give up on his current situation, so you can also redeem the love between you, talk about it together, talk about it all, and let his decision tell you what to do.

Because I was so sad, I couldn't cry.

It's too emotional, let it go!

What is the meaning of marrying a family who is not trustworthy in their words, and their family will not treat you well.

He doesn't treat you like any other.

Divide and divide, the old does not go, the new does not come, and you should not be so naïve in the future.

Oh, a little, but it shouldn't be about love, but it's just beginning to know how to care about him, take your time, emotional things are not something that can be summed up in one sentence, and slowly you will know how to express and how to deal with such problems, and it will not affect the relationship between you.

Don't rely on one person easily, it will become your habit, and when separation comes, you will lose not someone, but your spiritual support. Learn to walk independently whenever and wherever you are, it will make you walk more calmly. Learn to walk alone.

。It means that your tears are relatively high, maybe otherwise you are not close to him.

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As for the question of "my boyfriend said that it was useless to break up and say that I cried, and that it couldn't be recovered". It means that there is a certain problem between you, and your boyfriend has made up his mind to break up with you.

Even if you cry. He also said that it was useless to cry, and there was no way to get it back. He really wants to break up with you.

My boyfriend said that it was useless to break up, saying that I was crying, and that it was irretrievable.

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Good evening<>

As for the question of "my boyfriend said that it was useless to break up and say that I cried, and that it couldn't be recovered". It means that there is a certain problem between you, and your boyfriend has made up his mind to break up with you.

Even if you cry. He also said that it was useless to cry, and there was no way to get it back. He really wants to break up with you.

Dear, I understand your sad mood right now. But you must also calm down and adjust your emotions first. First of all, carefully analyze the problems and conflicts between you and your boyfriend, and what causes your boyfriend to break up with you.

Resolve the conflict according to the problems between you, so that you can get back together and go back to the past.

You can tell me about the specific situation first.