Qiong Yao style gives everything for love, why can few women do it?

Speaking of Qiong Yao, I will think of her **, I remember when I went to school, many of my classmates almost had a copy, and reading her ** will make me feel that love is very magical, then I only know that Qiong Yao's ** is actually not particularly familiar with Qiong Yao, and later because I like her ** began to understand this author, only to know that Qiong Yao originally had a more wonderful love than **, treat this love,Qiong Yao gave almost everything, and her parents were right, and she insisted on guarding her love, which is indeed rare now.

Qiong Yao's love is a poignant love story, and the spirit of giving everything for love is rare for women now, but I have such a friend by my side, she met his boyfriend when she was doing her hair once, and the two of them fell in love at first sight, the boy was out of town, and then the two of them were together for a while, and the love at the beginning was sweet, just when the girl decided to bring the boy back to meet her parents, the girl's parents did not agree to anything, Friends around her also told the girl to let the girl think about it, but the girl also firmly told her parents that her husband was this boy, and despite his parents' opposition, he still wanted to marry this boy and leave his parentsI gave up my high-paying job and came to the boy's city, and everything started from 0, so that the girl should be happy when she made a comeback for love.

It didn't take long for the two to get married, and soon after the marriage, they also had children, it was a girl, everything looked very calm, but her mother-in-law was patriarchal, always complaining in front of the girl, saying something ugly, the girl impulsively mixed a few words with her mother-in-law, and afterwards felt that her mother-in-law was an elder after all, so she went to apologize, how did she know that his mother-in-law came back and went to her husband to complain, her husband didn't say a word and was a mouth,Full of foul words, this was the first time he hit her, and after that, this happened again and again, and finally they ended the relationship.

Before pouring everything into love, you should also keep your eyes open to see if your partner is worth doing it yourself, and listen to the advice of your parents and friends before making such a decision, and don't make impulsive decisions.

Because Qiong Yao writes **, the characters in it are all idealized characters in Qiong Yao's mind, and the women in reality are not stupid, how can they be the same as the people in **. Reality is reality after all, and it is impossible for a woman in reality to give everything she has at all costs, because then she is likely to get nothing and be injured.

Everyone's personality and other aspects will have different differences, Qiong Yao may be the type who dares to love and hate in terms of personality, and can give everything for love.

Love is only a part of life but not the whole story, why give everything to love? People who love brains in life are the most unbearable, and they still need people to do it?

As an adult, be sensible before choosing.

Look at what kind of life you want, then first measure what kind of life you deserve.

We can have a little fantasy, because love is inexplicable, and fate doesn't know when it will come.

But at the same time, we should also be sane adults, so that when we meet the real other half, whether he is poor or rich, I can get him and live the life I want.

In the end, they will wake up in reality. Qiong Yao-style love flaunts possession, everything about the other party is their own, from body to soul, from wealth to identity, from the past to the future. At the same time, this kind of love means giving up everything about yourself, including yourself.

Many women are wrapped and closed by love idol dramas, princess dreams, and the self-expectations of "husband and child hot kang head", resulting in them being separated from the real world and unable to see the truth and operation of the world.

They will finally realize that feelings are not the whole of life, not the only life, and women can also have a journey and a sea of stars. Love is only a small part of life, it is something that needs to be tried and experienced, but it should not be "supreme", it should not be your sunshine, air and water. You're not a fish, love isn't water, it's just a dessert after a meal.

With it, the heart is happy; Without it, it's a bit flawed, but it's not so much that you have to die or live for it. Whether to confine one's life to petty love, or to release one's own energy on the earth, the sky, the mountains and the sea, is just a choice.

Some people are lucky to meet the right other half, and some people are annoying and lonely all their lives.

They have all become yellow-faced women who deal with firewood, rice, oil and salt every day.

I have gradually begun to reflect and regret that love is never the only thing to cherish in the world。I used to be unwavering in Qiong Yao's view of love, why did I change? Maybe it started when I found out that love is not as important as we imagined after some hardships in life.

Love itself is of course very beautiful, but it is far from the extent that you have to love with your whole life. After falling out of love, it's not about dying or living, it's good after a while of pain. Moreover, it is possible to live well without love, and love does not necessarily happen to everyone.

Qiong Yao's love is somewhat unrealistic in the end, not only bringing pain to herself, but also to others. There is also a particularly real discovery that extramarital affairs are really unreliable and immoral. First of all, it is unethical.

No matter how good an extramarital affair is, it is based on hurting another woman, and no matter how much he and his wife have nothing to say, it is undeniable that they must have had a good past. Even if the ascension is successful, you must wonder if you will one day end up like his ex-wife.

unhappy, because their love is too idealistic, and they can't find such a man in reality.

Those women who pursue Qiong Yao's "love supremacy theory" are depressed when they don't get love.

Some are awakened by reality, and some are still living in dreams.

In the end, they all divorced, and they lived very miserably, and the women written by Qiong Yao were not suitable for the real society.

It is difficult for such women to find their own happiness because their view of love has been distorted.

1: It's been a mere life, just like us.

2: Broken by reality, and finally fly separately.

Either harm others, harm yourself, or harm others and harm yourself

Falling in love is sometimes easy, so easy that it only takes one look to determine a life. Sometimes it is difficult to fall in love, it is difficult to live together for many years, and it is still that he doesn't know you and you don't know him. As the lyrics say, falling in love is the hardest, because each has its own hopes.

What to do? In fact, love is like two moths fighting a fire, burning themselves and turning into a fused fire. Destroy first, then regenerate.

Love, that is, without me, there is only us.

Qiong Yao is a contemporary Chinese writer, screenwriter, film and television producer, and a member of the Chinese Film Literature Society. Her representative works include "Outside the Window", "Tide Sound", "Between the Water and Clouds", "A Curtain of Dreams" and so on.

Global Ju, an associate professor of the Department of Chinese at Jinan University, once commented that she "Qiong Yao's ** meets the most simple and primitive desires in everyone's heart, although the story has an obvious stylized tendency, and can only be "read at one time", butSpiritual coreBut it can make every work achieve the readerJoy and sorrow togethereffect. ”

She has created a total of more than 60 ** and scripts, in fact, her creation is also from many aspects, and it is also rich in varietyMeaningfuland historical context. It's not that her romantic fantasy of love hasn't kept pace with the times at all, but it should be said that her own thoughts about love and the world have always been beautiful, and what she wants to express is her true feelings in life.

Everybody knows about herEmotional experiences are richer。When she was in high school, she fell in love with her Chinese teacher, and due to such a large age difference and not being favored, this relationship was destined to end without a problem. Later, he met her first husband, Qingyun, who was a companion and a lover of words.

At first, they fell in love because of resonance, but after all, love can't match the firewood, rice, oil and salt of life, and later, they divorced. Her second husband is Ping Xintao, who has an ex-wife named Lin Wanru, but they divorced because of Qiong Yao. His bitterness, she accompanied him to eat, he finally came to the bitterness, but he went to enjoy the sweetness of love with another woman, as the most injured original partner Lin Wanzhen, for 50 years, she chose to be silent about this past.

Later, Lin Wanru exposed this incident in the book "The Past", and everyone was shocked to realize that the vigorous love stories written by Qiong Yao are actually very much in realityUnbearable, the protagonists of her early books are all third-party love, which may be related to her state of mind at that time. Later, after getting his wish, onLonging for a beautiful love, and then in the later books, the hero and heroine are all from the beginning.

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Because they think things openly, and if women do the same, they will not be worse than men.

Ha It's hard to say, aren't there men who have small hearts and don't have big worlds?

Because your mother didn't train you in the direction of Comrade Liu Hulan.

If he really doesn't repent, it's in my mind. Long pain is better than short pain, love yourself, a man who beats a woman is not even as good as a brute, you can consider making a decision, learn to protect yourself well, if you hesitate now, the situation may be worse in the future. Women must be self-reliant.

Then it's really addictive, after all, it's a good thing.

Because Xiao San has been a fascinating creature since ancient times.

Because at that time, the carriage and horse were very slow, and there was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime.

Because there were too few TV series back then, Qiong Yao's is still relatively classic.

Because there were no TV series to watch back then.

Because the era in which the fathers lived was indeed very suitable for this kind of love.

No, he will have many, many women.

I think it should be, to love someone is to choose someone to grow old and spend quality time with him.

I have to believe that there will be, but there should be fewer of them.

There will definitely be such people, but there are very few.

Let's watch less romance**, and do everything to see if that woman is worthy.