How do you reject a pursuit of the opposite sex without hurting him?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-18
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's better to be ruthless than gentle, don't leave him with hopelessness, that hurts more!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hurt is inevitable, but the long pain is better than the short pain, let him die!Don't drop Dada, he'll hurt even more!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    That's a good question, do you know anything about love? Love is the responsibility of two people, since he loves you, so you can refuse it directly and decisively, because he is willing to do everything for you, this is love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Anonymous man:

    Look into her eyes and tell her sincerely: I don't want to hurt you, so tell you, I don't love you enough, at least within the time of a country's five-year plan, I don't love you enough. Then pat her on the shoulder, leaving her with a back and a word:

    I'm sure there will be people who love you more than I do.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you hurt, you will be hurt, and if you can be hurt, you will get hurt sooner or later, and it's just inappropriate

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You say, "I'm sorry, I'm gay." Maybe this one is too scary.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's impossible ...

    Or just tell him that the harder the better

    Otherwise he would have been more miserable ...

    Tell him harshly, it's enough that you don't love him. It's hurtful.,But it's necessary to keep him in love so that he doesn't think there's still a chance.。。

    Be ruthless.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You say you have a boyfriend, or someone you like. If it doesn't work, you just say that boys should be able to resist.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Like, is a faint love; Love is a deep love ......

    Do you know which kind of person he is dealing with you? The former, let him go! You don't have to care. The latter, just stay away from him, and it's OK to stay farther away!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's better to say it directly and clearly in person.

    Otherwise, it's somewhere in between, and it only makes things more rigid.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's impossible not to hurt him.

    But a direct refusal would be best.

    Don't let him feel hopeful.

    That would be even more disappointing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It depends on how old he is! It's easy to do if it's sane, but it's easy to do if it's a student....It depends! Can you provide some information?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Introduce him to another woman.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's best to say it directly and express your own thoughts.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Tactfully tell him that it would be more appropriate to be friends.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Reject a disliked opposite sex.

    Generally speaking, when rejecting the opposite sex, then you can tell the other party that you have an object, or that you don't want to fall in love, the most effective way is that if you want to make the other party more satisfied, then the best way at this time is to become friends with the other party, but it can be shown that only friends have no special other feelings, so this can also make the other party understand themselves, and at the same time make the other party easier to accept, In general, it can be considered from the following aspects.

    There are already people who like it.

    2) Tell the other person that they can be best friends, but that's just a friend. Generally speaking, if the other party is more sincere, then you can understand the other party at this time, so the best thing to do is to become friends with the other party, and it can also let the other party better understand their true thoughts, in general, if it is indeed because of many reasons, you can also become the best friend, this is the best choice.

    Just friends.

    Specific problems should also be dealt with in a case-by-case manner.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can directly refuse, because in this way, the other party will especially understand what you mean, and it will not make the other party particularly embarrassed.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can directly tell the other party that you feel that the personalities of the two people are not very suitable, or you can tell the other party that you have no plans to fall in love for the time being, so that the other party will understand what you mean, and this way of refusing is also more tactful and will not hurt the other party.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Telling this friend of the opposite sex that he already has someone he likes, it is also more tactful to refuse in this way.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's okay to get along with friends normally, but if you don't see each other often and don't know how to get along, you can contact as little as possible. If you can see each other every day, get along with each other with a normal attitude, after all, you still have a chance if you reject you, not that you will never have a chance after rejecting you, maybe you will be good to her as usual in the next time, and be attentive to her. One day she'll have a crush on you.

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  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    At this time, you must first think that if this boy comes to pursue you, then he must like you. Because people who don't like you won't waste their time pursuing you either. You don't like this boy, you don't know how to refuse, you don't want to offend him, you are in a dilemma, you don't know what to do.

    If you don't want to offend him, and you want to refuse tactfully, without hurting the peace, you won't think of a way, people are alive, flexible, you just find a reason to refuse, there is such trouble to ask us, you can also make up a story, just say to the boy, you don't have an angry face, calm heart, say softly, you just say that you have a boyfriend, that is, not long ago, we have a good relationship, and we love it very much.

    But you have taken a step, I already have someone, it is impossible to play friends with you, we are really fated, you can be lenient with this boy and say, whitewash, I actually have a good influence on you, and the person is not bad, you see, I have a boyfriend now, and it is impossible to play friends with you, the boy heard you say this, his face was full of disappointment, and his mood must have plummeted, and his heart was half cold.

    At that time, I couldn't accept such a thing, so you comforted the boy and said, there is no grass at the end of the world, I believe you will be able to find someone you like, you must be able to do it, at this time the boy may have nothing to say, there are ten unwilling and no way in his heart, and it is not good to pursue you anymore, so you also rejected the boy euphemistically, and you must not offend him, and retreat in the face of difficulties, this method is the best, that is, let him know that you have a boyfriend.

    If you refuse directly, the boy may not necessarily listen, maybe repeatedly entangled, because you are single and do not have a boyfriend, you will not die, and it will cause you a lot of troubles and troubles, and you can't scold people with a red face, and it is not good for you to meet often, which is also something you don't want to see.

    Girls should deal with emotions cleanly and neatly, and some girls make their emotions muddy, and some problems may occur in the end, which is the result of improper decision-making.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you don't like the guy who pursues you, then you have to tell him decisively that you don't like him and don't waste each other's time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's good to refuse directly and politely, and don't leave the boy you don't like if you don't like it.

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