About adolescent love! What should I do?

Updated on educate 2024-06-04
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, does it really like you? If it is how can it be said that after leaving and then dividing such words, the person who said this kind of thing can't believe it. If you don't have a sincere love, you will let go easily, so I think he just wants to try love, and you are the object of the attempt, this is my opinion.

    Secondly, if he really likes you, then you should reject it even more. Because you are going abroad in 7 months, parting or not breaking up and separating the two places is unbearable for two junior high school students. After going abroad, you have to face a sudden environment, for you there is no time to take care of the previous love, and for him it is even worse, in the face of the pressure of the initial examination and the college entrance examination, and the thoughts that cannot be let go, will affect his future and future.

    Finally, don't think that this first love will become a good memory in the future, on the contrary, it can only be a green fruit, and believe that the late-blooming flowers are more beautiful

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't promise him, for his good.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If only he really liked you. There are still many opportunities when you grow up.

    You've all gone to immigrate. Now it's happiness.

    But what if you are separated from him?

    Pain will come.

    Not quite. It's better to let go of this feeling.

    Don't make yourself and him miserable.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Nothing hungry, you still refuse him to count pull! He understood.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    A story that begins and ends ... After parting with it, everyone was miserable.

    It's better to show him that you're good friends now.

    At least you can keep getting better.

    And you don't have to carry a burden that you can't put down when you go abroad.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you go, you will be divided, and you will be treated for something. I don't think it's better not to, if you really hit a spark, you will definitely be cut when you divide it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    END UP ... Although it has not started yet, because the future payment will make the future parting more sad and painful, because you have already chosen the future path, and the reality cannot be changed.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I had no choice but to refuse him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    At such a young age, it's better not to think too much and concentrate on studying.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    For what you like, you must be brave enough to pursue it, otherwise you will regret it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let me, a high school student, answer your question, and definitely choose not to talk about it, the choice of a wise person. The two can not be humble, learning and love, definitely choose to learn, the ability is the most important. Because as a boy, I know boys best, and we choose girls now with only one purpose, to satisfy our desires.

    And if it's not for the above reasons, unless that girl is a goddess of temperament or a god, of course, you are not. And in the end, I want to say, don't give up your life for the sake of momentary happiness. In the future, people who truly love you are waiting for you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    A lot of students in our class are in love, if that boy really likes you, then he will definitely work hard for you, and you will study hard to become better, (the pair of students in our class are like this, and now their grades are getting better and better, in order to be admitted to the same school, they have been together for three years, and the man has not done anything out of the ordinary, at most he has pulled hands, because he said that he is still young, and he will talk about it first when he is an adult) But the premise is that the boy really likes you and will be willing to work hard for you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you like it, just hint at it, that's how my girlfriend and I got together. After all, the girl's initiative to hint will more or less make the boy think about it seriously, provided that he thinks about it before doing it, as long as he doesn't regret it. No one will make you regret it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you're still studying, study hard, junior high school students are so young, don't fall in love and do bad things, study hard.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Learning is important, men have existing careers, and women later.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Say it, adolescence, joking, alas, teenagers.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Let's talk about it, just know it in your heart, don't do too much.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Academics are important, and children's love is the last.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Isn't it the same to treat her as a good friend?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As a person who has come over, I would like to warn everyone that if you don't fall in love during adolescence, then you won't flirt with girls when you grow up. You can only be single, but remember not to do anything radical when you are still a minor.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you like each other, try to be together, but don't do that, after all, you can't afford to be responsible.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's important to control yourself so that you can learn.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I'm also an adolescent, and I really want to fall in love. But when I thought about my studies and my future, I decided to think about it later.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you have someone you like, you will chase it, and it is a pity not to fall in love with your youth. But get it right, don't go too far.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you want to talk about it, you can talk about love without breaking up.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you want to practice your skills, swing your sword from the palace.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Kid, to be honest, I don't know much either. Since he likes you, you should be friends with him first, try to get along for a long time, and then talk about it if it doesn't work. Hope it helps. Come on, I wish you progress in your studies.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Try to fall in love with him or tell him I don't love you, you better give up and ignore him from now on.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It is possible to fall in love, but it is necessary to arrange the things of study and life reasonably. It's good to handle it, it's good for you and it's good for her. If it is not handled well, the ending will be tragic! Focus on your studies!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You can fall in love, learn from each other's strengths, discuss problems together if you have good grades, and choose to study each other if you have bad grades! Falling in love doesn't necessarily affect your studies, it just depends on whether you want to learn well.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Well, you can divert your attention, find any way, such as chatting with classmates, listening, watching, you can do it. As for that girl, you can talk to her about your future.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Well, falling in love doesn't affect learning, the key is not to over-imagine. It should complement each other and take a virtuous circle. Learning that way is only better.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Oops, this question is obviously not considered by me at my age. As someone who has come over, I see, let it be. Wherever you can go, it's worth it.

    Of course, falling in love takes time. Again, bother. You have to set a fixed time for studying first.

    As for the mind, if you don't let it move, you will move. The best thing is that you can study together and talk about love after studying. Keep a proper distance, preferably, for your future.

    Let's talk about it at the university.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think that being in love doesn't affect learning, but it will motivate both of you to be self-motivated, as long as both parties believe in each other, those problems will not affect you, and you can learn from each other's strengths, help each other, and at the same time increase the temperature of the relationship, why not? Although it is just a few words, it is my experience with my boyfriend, I hope to adopt it, thank you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Many people have a misconception that falling in love at school will definitely affect their studies.

    In fact, a really good love should motivate each other and influence upward.

    Just don't be playful, don't indulge in those unwarranted fantasies.

    Study hard, and if you're in love, you'll be in love too.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Tell your parents that as long as your grades do not drop in your relationship, don't interfere, and if you don't agree, prove it to him.

    I believe you can do it! ^_

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If it were me, I would choose to fall in love, because in this youthful age. It's easy to get pure love, but it's hard to get out of society! Learn from each other, help each other, and care for each other in love! This will be more effective than crushing!

    Of course, if you choose to fall in love, you will be responsible for the promises you make. If it's just a playful mentality. Or if you're curious and want to try it, it will only hurt each other!

    If you want to love, you have to say it out loud. Love is crazy, if you don't love, you are strong!

    Landlord: If you meet the right one, you have to grasp it! Because I missed it. and there will never be again!

    I wish you happiness!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Falling in love during the student period, on the one hand, you can get in touch with your love life, and on the other hand, you can have a spare time in intense study, and your beloved.

    People get together, talk about hearts, and relieve the pressure of studying. It is not necessarily a bad thing for the two to help each other in their studies and promote each other.

    False: When you fall in love during your studies, it is easy for people to ignore their studies, blindly pay attention to their feelings, and their studies decline, so that falling in love becomes a burden to study. After all, during the student period, the most important thing is to study, and love is just a product of loneliness.

    I personally fell in love when I was a student, which also affected my studies to some extent. I feel like the problem lies with you. If you want to fall in love, talk about it, don't let feelings affect your studies, just feel yourself.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In fact, parents should not be too opposed to this aspect, do not let the child know what you think, and don't scold the child when he sees how the child is, after all, it is puberty, and everything is for the child to experience by himself, let him try it once. Silently care about him on one side, but don't be too indulgent, if it's a particularly naughty child, you must not let him learn badly. It's hard for kids nowadays to manage.

    Trust your child.

    Be friends with your child

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The main thing is to learn Dayu's method of water control, dredging and guiding, rather than blocking.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I think if you can control yourself, then it won't have a big impact on your studies, but if you can't control yourself, it's better not to fall in love, it should be sad and sad ......Empirical ......

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's okay not to delay learning, but it's generally best to strangle Ai Miao in the cradle.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    How old is it? It's normal to say that you are in adolescence, and I don't dare to say anything else (I'm in the first year of junior high school).

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It depends on how parents communicate with their children, and if they guide them well, their children will understand you in their hearts.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Although you don't have the idea of falling back in love, your current state of control is similar to the normal pre-relationship behavior of humans: paying attention to the other person.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Relax, don't overthink and be yourself.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's probably a longing, think about those who have fallen in grades due to early love, can't get into middle school, college, have no job, etc., and then think about the future you want, set a goal, and you should not want to fall in love.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Let's not talk about it, adolescence is a rebellious period, and it is easy to lose yourself at this age.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    You're like me, I'm not talking about it now!

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