What do you think of the divorced crowd? How to look at the divorced crowd

Divorced women are cheated of money.

When I wasn't divorced, I thought why should I get divorced, I couldn't bear it, I was different from anyone. Now that I'm divorced, I feel that the divorced people are very pitiful, because they have experienced things and pain that others can't imagine.

They are all people who dare to correct their mistakes and take responsibility for their own lives.

Today's people can't compare with the post-70s.

Who will get divorced if they live well?

One person has one way to live, don't meddle in things.

Whoever wants to leave, how can you leave if you are not forced to have no way out.

If the marriage is not happy, you shouldn't have to work hard, then the two of you will be more tired. It's better to let go of each other, and it's a relief for yourself. will live a good life again.

Divorce is normal, and if you can't get by, you will get divorced. A marriage that is not favored is completely meaningless, it is directly torment.

I feel that when they got married, it was a very irrational behavior. If you don't think about it well, and then live together, it doesn't feel right.

Divorced men and women can no longer accompany the marriage certificate, they can only apply for an independent certificate, and no one will divorce.

They just can't stand life, and then they want to find the life they should have. And then it's also for the pursuit of a higher level of life.

It's a very rational behavior, rather than barely supporting it, it's better to let go of each other, and then find your own happiness again. ‍‍

Divorced people still need a lot of courage, and since they choose to take this step, they actually need to be encouraged. After all, everyone has the right to pursue happiness.

Divorced people should be very selfish, only care about their own thoughts, and never think about each other's families and children, which will cause them very serious harm.

In fact, it is for the sake of the children, and the impact of an unhappy marriage on the children is even greater. It is better to divorce and then find a better life, which is the best protection for children. ‍‍

I think that's an exaggeration, right? On the first day of work, the Civil Affairs Bureau was crowded with people handling divorces, what a big situation is this? Even if there is a divorce, it will not be a crowded scene.

The reason why some people choose to divorce after the Spring Festival is mainly due to the following considerations.

The first is to let everyone have a happier Spring Festival. Because the Spring Festival is a festival of reunion, if the relationship between the husband and wife is not slippery and filial, they generally will not choose to divorce before the year, because in this case, it will bring very unhappy psychological feelings to their families and the families of both parents, as well as relatives and friends. This is especially true for families with children.

Therefore, for fear of causing damage to their relatives, friends and children, everyone chooses to divorce after the New Year.

Second, it may be that the Spring Festival period has triggered greater family conflicts. Originally, the relationship between husband and wife is very general, plus everyone is busy during the Spring Festival, there are many housework, and families with poor economic conditions also spend a lot of money during the Spring Festival, which may cause some family conflicts, especially for those who are already very indifferent to the relationship between husband and wife, it will add to the contradiction of shouting drama, which is becoming more and more intense, therefore, after the Spring Festival, immediately choose to divorce.

Third, it is the big family of both sides that affects the relationship between the small family. For example, who to go to during the Spring Festival to celebrate the New Year has become the fuse of conflicts between husband and wife. Many families will have disputes and cold wars every year because of this incident, because most families are only children, and every parent hopes that their children can celebrate the New Year with themselves, but after getting married, they can only go to their aunt's house for the New Year, so they do not give in.

In addition, the addition of oil and vinegar by individual relatives and friends has deepened the contradictions between the two sides. intensified the conflict and led to the divorce of the two people.

In fact, the issue of divorce should still be carefully considered, some contradictions can be resolved, and it does not necessarily have to be divorced. If we can adhere to the principle of mutual respect and mutual tolerance, we can calmly resolve some conflicts and reduce the divorce rate.

It should be the kind of person who is not right-minded, it should be the kind of person who gets married because of money.

Of course, the most common divorces are young people, because they are not very dedicated to their feelings.

It should be the irresponsible crowd. Or more half-hearted.

It should be those who usually love to do it. None of these people will be fruitful.

Analysis: Hello, according to your description, in today's society, the divorce rate has been rising, and many times you have to face it with a peaceful mind.

Guiding opinions: The happy family is the same, and there are various reasons and reasons for unhappy families, so many times we need to look at the people who leave the tomb and celebrate the difference, and do not discriminate against them, they will also meet a beautiful marriage that suits them, and I hope you are happy.

Someone has summarized the top 10 reasons that lead to divorce:

First, there is a big contrast between husband and wife before and after marriage, which is difficult to communicate, and second, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law affects the relationship between husband and wife. Third, the personalities of the two sides are incompatible, the cultural qualifications are not matched, and the living habits are different. Fourth, domestic violence, cold violence.

Fifth, there is a lack of responsibility on the part of one of the parties when it comes to the education of their children.

Sixth, there is disharmony in the life of the couple. Seventh, the intervention of a third party between marriages. Eighth, there has been a long history of uneven distribution of housework. Ninth, often quarrel and have cold feelings. Tenth, the impact of economic conditions, money issues.

Through these statistical data and conclusions, we will also find that there are many factors that affect the quality of marriage, and the impact of various factors on marital life is very important.

If marriage is so complex and changeable, why do people keep entering into marriage?

What exactly is marriage?

Different people have different definitions, and Mr. Yang Jiang's interpretation of the meaning of marriage is as follows:

It's not about dragging each other down, but in life, giving each other encouragement, it's encountering things, having someone to discuss, going home from work, having someone to eat with, being wronged outside, and having a warm hug when you get home. Life is too long, there must always be someone who knows each other.

Two people meet and know each other, because of the heartbeat and sympathy for each other's true feelings, they come together regardless of their bodies, and look forward to a happy life after marriage, but life is not easy, and living together cannot make life easy and simple.

However, the understanding, tolerance and mutual companionship of two people are like the warm light in a long life, to form a family together, and constantly give birth to joy and love, so as to better nourish everyone in the family.

Someone once saw a slogan at the Civil Affairs Bureau that read: "Marriage is not necessarily happy, single is not necessarily unhappy, one person is born, and it cannot be two people when leaving, love is a luxury, and it is okay not to have it." You have to understand that the most important thing is financial stability and a good mood, not whether someone loves you or not.

If there is no love, then do you want to divorce?

Many people say that the most pitiful thing about divorce is the children, but there is also a saying that is very reasonable, if the parents often quarrel and stay together for the sake of the children's appearance, in such an environment, the children will be more depressed, and it is better to separate.

Mr. Yang Jiang once said that when you think I am most like a "neurotic", it is actually when I care about you the most. Because I cared, I messed up and lost my self-esteem, at that time, I didn't want to be important or not, I was reluctant to break it, and I gave up rationally, better than blind attachment.

Therefore, if in married life, when encountering insurmountable obstacles and irreconcilable contradictions, the mountains and rivers are exhausted, and there is no chance to turn around, it is also a wise choice to choose to let go and divorce.

Marriage may be without love, but it must not be without love, and this love is far more profound and vast than love.