What are the signs that a wife looks down on her husband?

A person with a strong sense of self-superiority, or a strong sense of vanity, tends to look down on others. There are many wives in life who look down on their husbands.

A wife looks down on her husband in the following ways: indifference.

Xiaoyu and her husband are college classmates and free love, 4 years of college, her husband pursued her hard, and finally achieved a positive result, and after graduation, the two of them got married.

Xiaoyu's family conditions are very good, her parents are intellectuals, and her family education is also very strict, her husband is just a child of ordinary people, and he has a lot of bad habits, which make Xiaoyu disgusted.

Xiaoyu loves to be clean, cleans up the house every day, washes clothes every day, and folds the clothes neatly.

His husband was the opposite of her, and no matter what she said, he went his own way, smoking in the house, throwing garbage everywhere, eating without washing dishes, ......As long as he is at home, his home is a garbage dump.

Because of these things, Xiaoyu often quarrels with him, if it is another man, his wife nagged every day, he will definitely pay attention to his habits and slowly learn to clean up his things.

However, her husband's ears seemed to be gagged, and he couldn't remember what he said, mainly because he didn't take it to heart.

After a long time, Xiaoyu began to be angry when she spoke, and she disliked her husband more and more, she was often angry and noisy, and after a long time, her eyes when she looked at her husband changed dramatically.

There was no tenderness in her eyes, at first she was indifferent and helpless, and then it turned into ignorance, contempt, and disdain after the reprimand.

Some men will definitely be touched when they see their wives' eyes, and they will restrain their behaviors in time that they make their wives hate.

Her husband didn't do that, and when Xiaoyu's indifference to her husband became the norm, the relationship between the two of them began to crack.

The relationship between husband and wife is not an overnight thing, but it is accumulated little by little over the years, so both husband and wife should keep each other in their hearts, and do not affect the relationship between husband and wife and the happiness of marriage because of some small things.

A woman who looks down on her husband will be reluctant to go out with the other person and go to the mall together. When you meet friends you know, you won't be introduced to them. In short, all kinds of dislikes, for fear that others will know that you are her husband.

When a wife looks down on her husband, she will rarely speak, and she can talk eloquently to others, but she is silent in the face of her husband, unwilling to share her feelings, and at the same time will easily deny the fruits of his labor.

In daily life, they may speak coldly, ridicule and sarcasm, dislike the other party for not being rich enough, talented enough, handsome enough, and may often mention outsiders for comparison.

I don't discuss things with my husband, I often find fault with him, I quarrel when I don't agree with him, and I often say that he has no ability, and what other people's husbands are like is not a sign of looking down on my husband.

I rarely talk to my wife, and I don't discuss anything at home, I just make my own decisions, etc.

Ways to help the relationship last: First of all, let the other party not get bored with yourself, then you must trust the other party, do not keep pestering the other party, so that the other party can have free space and can breathe. Because people will feel bored when they feel pressure, maybe the days are long, and the dullness of life will make two people feel bored with each other, so what we have to do is to look for things that can arouse the emotions of two people after a period of time if we feel that the feelings of both parties have cooled down, such as going out to travel, going out to play together, etc.

A good relationship should be in the relationship in the face of people who don't love you, you don't need to make compromises, but to let go, don't want to or miss it. Learn to love yourself more, a good relationship should be on the way to find the future to make yourself live better, a good relationship should be to believe that you can meet true love and meet the person who is worthy.

The husband looks down on his wife's performance, and there are the following points:

1.If your husband, he is in life, as long as he talks to you, no matter what he says, he will be impatient and uncomfortable; Then it is safe to say that he looks down on you to behave like this; In his heart, when he looks at you, he feels unpleasant; That's why they look down on you, dislike you, and don't take you seriously; In his heart, you are worthless, nothing; When he looks at you, he thinks there is something wrong and feels very uncomfortable; So as long as you open your mouth to talk to him, it's as if you have offended him, and you won't be given a good face.

2.For example, if the wife's parents come, the husband can entertain them well, and when they are in difficulty, they will unconditionally pay for their parents, which is enough to prove that the husband has regarded you as his own, and if it is the opposite, it is enough to show that the man does not love you very much.

3.When you give to him unconditionally, when you pay him silently, he always doesn't know how to be grateful, and will accuse you of not doing enough, blindly taking, and any negative emotions will be vented on you, which is enough to show that this man not only does not love you, but also is very disdainful of you.

4.In a family, no matter what happens, it is normal for husband and wife to discuss and face it together, and this is the least respect; But if your husband, no matter how big or small, he will not tell you or tell you, but will do what he wants to do, then it is safe to say that in your husband's heart, he just looks down on you and looks down on you, so he doesn't want you to participate in anything, and he doesn't care what he thinks in your heart, and he doesn't treat you as a wife at all, but as an inconsequential person.

The husband looks down on his wife, on the one hand, it shows that he is a very arrogant and irresponsible person, and on the other hand, it may be that his wife's performance is unsatisfactory in all aspects, and he does not love his wife, so this situation occurs.

In my opinion, the husband looks down on his wife, mainly in the following ways:

1. He is very irritable when you talk to him.

If your husband, in life, as long as he talks to you, no matter what he says, he shows impatience; It is safe to say that he looks down on you to behave like this; In his heart, when he looks at you, he feels unpleasant; That's why they look down on you, dislike you, and don't take you seriously; In his heart, you are worthless, nothing; When he looks at you, he thinks there is something wrong and feels very uncomfortable; So as long as you open your mouth to talk to him, it's as if you have offended him, and you won't be given a good face.

Second, he treats your mother's family inappropriately.

In fact, a woman's maiden family is her backing; But if your husband, he doesn't take your mother's family seriously at all; It's as if your mother's family, in his eyes, is so worthless; After seeing it, I said hello casually, not so enthusiastic, and not so concerned; Especially for your parents, they have a cold attitude, so it is safe to say that your husband looks down on you, so he looks down on your family; This is quite a sad thing for a woman, and it is also a particularly helpless thing, and there is no good way.

3. He doesn't consult you about anything.

In a family, no matter what happens, it is normal for husband and wife to discuss and face it together, and this is the minimum respect; But if your husband, no matter how big or small, he won't tell you or tell you, but how he wants to do it, he will do it; Then it is safe to say that in your husband's heart, he looks down on you and looks down on you; So I don't want you to participate in anything, and I don't care what you think in your heart; I didn't treat you as a wife at all, but as an inconsequential person, and such a marriage really doesn't make sense.

Fourth, he talks to you cynically.

In life, if your husband, when he talks to you, he doesn't respect you at all and doesn't consider your thoughts; Always when talking, cold and ironic; Then it is safe to say that in your husband's heart, there is the idea and psychology of looking down on you and looking down on you; In his heart, he will not speak to you well, nor will he say some gentle words to you, but will embarrass you and make you feel special pain; This is a particularly helpless thing for a woman, and it is also a very chilling thing, which is more uncomfortable than hitting you, and I have experienced it myself.

So for women, marriage is a kind of gambling, if you meet such a husband who looks down on you, you may not be happy for the rest of your life, every day will be painful, tangled, uncomfortable, so it is better to love yourself, no one can be reliable.

The two become husband and wife, and they live together for the rest of their lives, and the husband and wife must also manage the relationship together, and sometimes there will be some friction between the two people, such as the deterioration of the relationship between the two. The husband looks down on his wife (or the wife looks down on her husband), and basically behaves like this:

1.Will be very strong, always pointing fingers at his wife.

Looking down on his wife, it must be dissatisfied in any way, and even looking at her is very unpleasant, no matter what his wife does, it is wrong.

2.Let my wife do all the chores, and I still dislike it very much.

At home, I only move my mouth and don't use my hands, and I feel very high at this time, and I don't take another person to heart at all.

3.Impatient and disdainful of communication.

The wife and husband must be very discordant, and there is an estrangement between the two, and it is particularly difficult to sit together and communicate well at this time.

4.The two are either quarreling or in a cold war.

At this time, their relationship must be very poor, the two can't get together at all, and the two must have had a lot of quarrels.

5.He makes his own decisions without consulting his wife, and treats his wife as if she were nothing.

Marriage is not a romance under the moon, not a leisurely walk on the boulevard. Marriage is to give you a home, a warm, real, plain home. Marriage is also a big school, here, there are books you can't finish, love that you can't understand, and equations that you can't solve.

Don't look down on the people you live with and live with. Two people love each other and support each other to make their married life better!

Any intimate relationship begins with the desire to confide.

If you like someone, you definitely want to tell a lot of things about yourself.

Even if it's a small thing, no matter how boring a topic, it can make everything different because the other person is someone you like.

This is the magic of love.

Therefore, you will find that those who have just been together, or who are going through an ambiguous period, always have endless words to say, endless stories to tell, and two people often talk in the middle of the night.

Actually, it's the other way around.

The disappearance of the desire to talk and listen often means the disappearance of love.

In a marriage relationship, if a man is unwilling to listen to his wife, no matter what reason he finds, what is caused by her talking too much, or some other objective factors, in fact, the essential reason is still with him - he is unwilling to listen.

If he doesn't want to listen, even if you only say one word every day, it will seem to him to be a kind of verbosity, a kind of consumption, a waste of energy, and he just doesn't want to talk to you. People's subjective consciousness is often the key factor in determining personal attitudes.

I don't care about her feelings, I hate and complain about her in everything, and tell her that I earn the money you spend, and you don't just take the children to do housework at home and so on

I don't respect her ideas, I don't care about her emotions, I don't understand her behavior, and I don't feel worthy of myself.

1. Always praise other men in front of her husband, saying how good other men are, how capable, and how rich, but not praise their husbands. 2. Ignore her husband's career. 3. Always complain about the husband who lacks himself in front of her husband, instead of praising her husband.

4. For her husband's shortcomings, she can't always be tolerant and acceptable. 5. For the husband's family, they cannot live in harmony. 6. For the husband's friends, disrespect, not enthusiastic.

7. Unwilling to have intimate contact with her husband and share a bed with her husband. 8. Always with other men, ignoring the existence of her husband. 9. Always with other men, and forget the existence of her husband.

1.Don't save face for your husband. Some wives always give their husbands enough face in front of outsiders, but as soon as they get home, they start pointing out and speaking ill of their husbands.

2.I always look at my husband with colored glasses. "A wife looks at her husband not for his strengths, but for his weaknesses, and always looks at her husband with colored glasses.

3.Always picky about her husband. Some wives always look down on their husbands, and always dislike their husbands for not being good here and there.

4.Always pointing fingers at her husband's behavior. Some wives are always unaccustomed to their husbands' actions, and whether they are doing the right thing or not, they have to tell their husbands and point fingers.

5.It's not good for her husband's family either. Some wives are also not good to their husbands' families and have no respect for their husbands' families.

6.Also unfriendly to her husband's friends. Some wives are always very unfriendly to their husband's friends and always make irresponsible remarks about their husband's friends.