Indulge in pain, please help! I don t want to suffer for a long time!

Be yourself!

However, it is not a bad thing for your boyfriend to ask you to study more, but he does not approve of machine reading. It's not good not to be a nerd. Don't read books for the sake of reading, study for the sake of learning, relax yourself, try to treat books as your friends, you can get knowledge inspiration from friends and increase your experience.

A truly beautiful woman is not just an appearance, an intellectual woman is the most beautiful, wisdom is not innate, as the old saying goes: there is a ** house in the book. So it's better to read more books, and you might as well cultivate it slowly as a hobby.

I think your boyfriend is too manly, why should you do this, if it were me, I wouldn't be able to stand it.

The reason why two people are together is to make each other feel happy and happy. If both parties are not satisfied with the current situation, you can try not to contact each other for a while, give each other a little space and time to sort out the distance between the relationship between the two people and their own hopes, and think clearly about the future path of both parties.

If you love him, stick to it

In fact, he is also good for you, but he is too strict, you can go to him and talk to him calmly.

Love him and change for him.

Love is mutual, changing each other.

You must not squander his love for you.

Faint is just one word, too mediocre people to disturb themselves!

It turns out that it's not good to be too sensitive and too emotional. Alas.

I insisted on reading it, in fact, you care too much about gains and losses, and loving him should be fulfilled rather than possessed.

When two people are together, they should adjust to each other and learn to appropriately "give up" their original "characteristics".

It's useless to talk too much.

Don't think about what didn't happen, solve it when it happened, fantasize about uselessness, and it's more reliable to start from reality.

There is a very good saying, everything is an illusion.

In fact, people to succeed may not only have a way to study, and everyone's definition of success is different, I think the ordinary life is also success, as long as I am happy, as long as I have a pair of hard-working hands, I am not afraid of anything, is your mentality is not correct, if you don't want to study, don't force yourself, think clearly about what you want to do in the future, if there is still no answer, just read more meaningful books, or do what you like to do, all kinds of flowers, cross-stitch... But don't be addicted to the computer, watch the movie once in a while and be inspired, don't worry, we were like you when we were kids, everyone has the same experience as you. When people grow up, you will understand a lot of truths.

If people don't learn, they will easily be eliminated by society. Even if you don't take a cultural course, it's a good way out to learn the technology you're interested in. If you don't want to be responsible for yourself, of course, you can go straight to a job after graduating from junior high school.

I've all had this kind of experience, I've had it, and I've had times when I didn't want to go to school. What can I do I am still young, let me go to work, the boss doesn't dare to ask me, stay at home. Let the parents talk about it.

I've had the same experience as you, and looking at them, I feel like everybody has had that experience, but hasn't everybody made it through? A great man once said that there are two kinds of people in this world who have no freedom. One is a military man.

One is a student. (Prisoners don't count.) Because his freedom was bought by himself, and students and military men are really professions without freedom) so you have to insist on it too.

Don't regret it in society later! Go for it. Relationships are trained, and you don't just have them by birth.

Read more books on interpersonal communication! If you really don't want to learn, then learn the language well, and then you will know in society that no course is as important as a language class.

If you really have a mind, you can not go to school... There are thousands of roads to success.

Speaking of people, it doesn't mean that everyone has to succeed...

Don't study,,What are you doing,,I don't know,,No goal,,Then it's better to study honestly.。。。

I'm also in junior high school, so going to school was really painful. You can tell the parents, and if the parents don't listen, they can tell the teacher.

But you have to figure out what to do. I'm struggling with my parents to keep me from going to school.

I can't imagine that some people are in the same situation!

Honestly, memories are not easy to forget.

If you want to get rid of the pain and get rid of the depression, you should start a new life, find someone who truly loves you, and establish a new relationship, so that you will naturally forget the past and devote yourself to a new life.

Don't dwell on the pain of the past and not be able to extricate yourself.

If it's a man, you have to be cruel to yourself.

Try to create your own new life and let the past become history.

You don't want to think about those things yourself, and don't try to forget her, just do what you have to do every day, and it's okay slowly, I know it's very painful for you to do this, My things don't have much to do with you, you tear to find someone who loves you, maybe this will fade away from her. Don't think about her.

Listen to more songs, find more people you don't know on the Internet, and put the grievances, unwillingness, and pain in your heart... Pour it all out... Say more, say it repeatedly, and slowly you will find that the pain you think is healed ...

You gave everything for her and she left you, do you like people like this? Think about it.

Don't think about her, there are many good girls! \

In fact, everyone has fantasies. Dude, you're not always fantasizing about games, life, and later. Fantasy about how to soar in the future

Everybody fantasizes about it, and it's better to hear that it's called an ideal. Just don't overthink it, you should be realistic. How to move forward to your ideal step by step.

When you always fantasize, you can listen to **, and listen to the beat of ** and forget it all of a sudden. Or find another joy in life. You can do more exercise.

I'm always fantasizing about winning the lottery now...How to spend it in the middle and back, what store to open. What car to buy. Ha ha.

Excess energy, going out for a run, voluntary labor, catching thieves.

The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.

Understand your feelings.

The feeling that you don't get in fantasy.

Gradually, you will find that life is no longer important.

Let's be realistic: Opportunities are for those who are prepared.

I can't do it, but I hope you understand.

If you feel like you're really too addicted.

Why not get out and play?

Relax.

Or hang out with friends often.

Have fun.

Go and be a soldier, the army will tell you how to be a person, the army is complicated, it will teach you how to behave in this society, some people say that you regret being a soldier for three years, and regretting not being a soldier for a lifetime.

To be a man, first of all, you have to have goals, at least perseverance, otherwise no one will look up to you, you are not the age to stick a knife in the ribs for your friends, because you are not capable of helping your friends and helping your relatives. It will only make trouble for them, so thin and fighting can't do it, men never reach out to women, they can't do this, how to get a girlfriend, indulge in Internet cafes, how can relatives look up to you, your family itself is not sound, so you have to know how to be self-reliant. Only when you are self-reliant can you gain the respect of your relatives and friends.

It's not that I'm preaching here, and my family is not very sound, so I feel the same way and suggest that you study medicine well, and it is best to graduate from secondary school, in any environment, if you don't have a specialty, then you will never have a bright future. Only with a secondary school certificate can you take the officer exam.

I hope you can regain your self-confidence, be self-reliant, shameful and almost brave, thank you.

I'm actually a little touched to see you write so much. Because you're in the pursuit of self-motivation right now. No matter what happened in the past, I think as long as you can maintain this kind of self-motivated mentality, everything will be fine.

I'm not a soldier, so I don't have a say in that. But I deeply expect you to work hard to get rid of your mistakes, whether you want to be a soldier in the future or not. In fact, as long as you make up your mind, you can change it if you don't become a soldier.

Treat the past as the past, and don't regret it excessively. Take advantage of the future. I think you need to change the environment (like you said to be a soldier or go out and find a job), especially with friends who are with you but don't have a job.

There may be difficulties or setbacks in the process of correction, but I hope you can persevere. Because there can be a rainbow after the storm.

I'm a little older, 17 years old, my God, sentimental, I'm still in my second year of high school at 17.

Support you as a soldier!! I will definitely be able to be an iron-clad soldier.

I know a soldier who often complains to me about this bad and that it's not good.

If you like the past, it's good to train yourself in the army.

First of all, I thank you for telling you all about this! Thank you for believing in me! I see a lot of my back in you.

My parents divorced, and I lived with my mother. Our lives are hard. But we are happy because we have to look forward to the future.

You have to use your heart to influence life, and tell you a little story! Once upon a time there was a little girl who had a mother-in-law who was very bad to him, and he came to the pharmacy and asked the doctor: My mother-in-law is very bad to me, I want to kill him, you can prescribe me medicine.

After saying that, the doctor took out a bag of things from the medicine cabinet and said to her; You take this packet of poisonous honey and give it to him, and he will die after a hundred days. The girl took it back and gave it to her mother-in-law for a hundred days, and in that hundred days. The mother-in-law saw that the girl was very good to him, and she gradually cared for the girl.

A hundred days after the honey was eaten. The girl regretted it and came to the doctor; Said to the doctor: Give me the antidote, I don't want to hurt my mother-in-law, he is very good to me now.

The doctor said: You have found the antidote, which is your kind heart. You also have to face life with your heart.

You have to learn to be grateful, to be grateful to your parents, and to be grateful to your family. There is a ** in the United States, and he closes the door every time he walks through it. His assistant finally timidly asked him why he kept closing the door.

He said earnestly: Every time I close the door, I will forget yesterday's failures and embrace a new future. Friend, your future is not confused, as long as the heart is not humble, you will always be strong.