What is it like to be forced on a blind date by a relative?

It must be reluctant, and it is a very awkward and embarrassing thing to meet the other party and have an introduction from a middleman. But do you still feel this way when you meet someone you like? We need to be clear about this question:

One is the buying and selling of marriage, which must be illegal; The second is that some people think that the person who is being blind date is old enough to deal with personal problems, and they are anxious about it. Therefore, to be blind date, first of all, we must know what kind of relationship the person who is in a hurry to get married and the person who is in a hurry to get married; Secondly, it is necessary to correctly understand the thoughts, behaviors, cognitions and feelings of the married person, and achieve inner understanding and recognition through communication with each other, so as to obtain the unity of behavior and avoid misunderstanding or even harm.

I don't want to. Because they are not satisfied with the child's intercourse, or feel that the child is older, or feel that the child's social circle is limited, parents or relatives and friends are anxious and use the forced matchmaking method. Because it is not the child's active behavior, under normal circumstances, the blind date will often end in nothing, however, if parents or relatives and friends know the child's thoughts better, the object of the introduction is suitable, and they will also have a good impression of each other through the blind date and are willing to continue to communicate.

I don't think I'm old enough to start a family. But the old people hugged Sun and urged them to go on a blind date. This part of the people, although they are also disgusted in their hearts, will not be too urgent, and have a kind of "let's go" idea.

If the blind date is very suitable for the person you want, it is possible to successfully become a lover. If not, it can only be described as "the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water"!

In today's society, most single men and women are free to love and complete marriage, but for single men or single women who come into contact with a single man, it is also necessary to introduce suitable candidates through trusted people. Or participate in some department-organized singles sororities, or choose your favorite candidate through a trusted matchmaking agency. In reality, single men and women, especially some single young people, are urged by their families to go on a blind date, but there are exist, I personally think that please understand your family, and take the initiative to communicate with your family to achieve mutual understanding, you love your family, and your family also loves you.

Feelings vary with age. 25-28 years old, impatient, can't support themselves. 28-30, driven by hormones, took the initiative to find a girlfriend, to no avail. 30+, frustrated, feeling defeated, no woman likes it, this feeling belongs to helplessness.

Reluctantly! Especially knowing that the other party's conditions are not good, the two hundred and fifty or eighty thousand are enough! The question is not to go, the look in the eyes of the mother at home, as if you have done something to be sorry for her, or just crying and wiping tears to count you, from morning to night non-stop ......So, if you don't want to, go through the motions!

I already have a sweetheart, but for various reasons, I don't want my parents to know! In this case, it is very repulsive and disgusting for parents to urge them to go on a blind date.

is a divorced woman, and she lives in her mother's house, and her mother's family will urge her to go on a blind date. It's just that it's not a big group, so it's not listed separately!

When we graduated, our parents began to worry about our marriage, hoping that we could have the same sweet love while completing our careers. But often because of people who are busy with work and life, many of the opposite sex that they can usually come into contact with around them are either married or not the object they like. At this time, many parents will arrange their children on a blind date in a hurry.

In fact, blind dates are more to provide more opportunities for single men and women to meet and get to know each other. But not everyone is willing to go on a blind date, because a blind date is different from falling in love, and he has screened the information of both parties. It can be said that falling in love is similar to opening a blind box, and you don't know what kind of opposite sex is in this blind box.

What about his family, his career, his personality? However, blind dates often have basic information, and parents are more satisfied with each other's families and children's situations.

Many people resist blind dates because blind dates are like being arranged by someone, just waiting for themselves to nod. Moreover, he also denied his ability to fall in love. So when they reluctantly go on a blind date, it's like they're wearing clothes they don't like.

I felt uncomfortable and wanted to escape from that scene. Even some people will choose to deliberately dress up differently from usual, how to rebel and let the other party give up automatically in order to escape from the blind date.

It is true that marriage is now free, but marriage is not a simple union of the opposite sex, he needs both parties to build a family together on the basis of love. We don't blindly reject blind dates, after all, our parents want us to go on blind dates, and they also hope that we can have someone to accompany us in the future. You can face the blind date with a relaxed attitude, after all, there are many times when you can meet the right person on a blind date, but you can also become friends if you can't do it, or tell the truth and let the other party give up.

And as parents, we should not force our children to go on blind dates. After all, the child has the freedom to choose love and marriage, even if he is forced to go on a blind date, it does not mean that he will eventually enter into marriage.

It's an uncomfortable experience, it can only be said that we still don't like to be forced to do things, or we want to follow our own ideas, so going on a blind date will only become embarrassing, and the process will be shameless.

It's a very uncomfortable experience because being forced by others can seriously affect your mood and affect your life.

Being forced to go on a blind date is a very bad experience, because it is particularly embarrassing for two strangers to sit and eat together, and there is nothing to say, two people eat with their heads bowed from beginning to end, and it is embarrassing to death anyway.

The sense of experience will be very poor, and it is generally more resistant when going on a blind date, and the probability of the final success is also very low, which is also a waste of feelings.

It's a very devastating experience. Because I didn't really want to fall in love, but my parents insisted on forcing me to talk, and it felt really bad.

Being forced to go on a blind date is a very helpless experience, forced by the pressure of the family to get married, to do what you don't want to do.

It was a very frustrating experience. There was a very devastating feeling. Because it is very uncomfortable to be forced to go on a blind date by others.

For their own family,In fact, a very important part of the reason why they force themselves to go on a blind date is because they want to be happyThat way they will be reassured.

1. Communicate and discuss with your family.

For our family members, although they are disgusted by doing this, we should also understand their intentions and find a good time to communicate with our family members, so that it is more conducive to persuading our family members not to force us to go on blind dates. Because everyone advocates "free love" for the current relationship, we should not force ourselves on the premise that we don't want to be in love, so that we can better change such a status quo.

2. Make your position clear.

For my own marriage, I think that the vast majority of people should still make their own decisions, rather than listening to the opinions of their families, let alone implementing them according to the route planned by their families, so we must make our position clear to our family members, and make them feel that they are very disgusted with blind dates, so as to stop their such behavior. In the past, I also had such an experience, when I wanted to focus on my career, so I didn't care much about my feelings, which caused my family to be very anxious, but since I made my position clear, even if my parents wanted to let me go on a blind date, they would ask for my advice in advance, and then make a decision.

The family's coercion is only for the sake of our children, and we should understand the family's intentions, so as not to disappoint their kindness. But each of us should also have our own opinions when facing our own feelings, and share them with our family members, so that similar things will not happen again, and I hope everyone can pay attention to them.

If you don't want to deal with the object for the time being, you can find some reasons to refuse, or you can be perfunctory, try not to have conflicts with your family, after all, they also care about you more.

If you really don't want to go on a blind date, make it clear to your parents, you don't want to settle casually, you want to find a suitable person to marry, I believe your parents will understand your thoughts.

Parents will always worry about their children's marriage when they are older, your family often forces you to go on a blind date, probably because you are old, but you have not found the right other half, they are actually very anxious, so they will force you to contact more people, if you are very resistant, you can tell your parents that you can find true love, so that they worry a little less.

I also have this trouble, and I am often forced by my family to go on a blind date, you can go and tell your parents that you have someone you like, and now you should not be forced to go on a blind date when you are in love.

You should go, you must understand the good intentions of your family, even if it is not successful, for them, there is a psychological comfort.

You can talk to your family about why you don't want to go on a blind date, or that you are very busy with work and want to focus on your career, so that your family will not force you to go on a blind date.

You can try to accept the advice of your family to participate in a blind date, and maybe you will really meet the real man. Generally speaking, before the blind date, you can understand the other party's family background and growth experience, and accepting the blind date is also a way to expand the circle of friends.

Blind date is a stage that everyone who should get married must go through, face it indifferently, and it is not something unseemly, forcing you to go on a blind date is also to worry about your lifelong events.

Summary. My dear, according to your question, when you are forced to go on a blind date, you can first choose to take the initiative to cooperate, and then explain your love life to the other party.

My dear, according to your question, when you are forced to go on a blind date, you can first choose Fengshan to take the initiative to cooperate, and then explain to the other party that you have lived in a few previous relationships.

My relatives introduced me to someone.

But I'm afraid of what to do if I don't get entangled.

The reason why Rotten Chong will take the initiative to cooperate is because in the eyes of parents and relatives, if you don't go, will you not give them face? Even if Peng Li is unwilling to go on a blind date late, he must give face to his relatives and elders.

Why are you afraid of being entangled, my dear, what kind of person is the other party? will make you have such concerns.

I don't know, anyway, I know that the relatives introduced them are all scumbags, so I asked if my consultation was anonymous.

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So you're not at ease with the other person.

Then you can deal with it appropriately.

I'm just a little scared that I think this introduction is all scumbags.

I kind of understand what you mean.

My dear, the reason why you are afraid that the other party will introduce you to Pi Yin is a scumbag, Ying Heng should have encountered a scumbag in his previous love life, so he is afraid of meeting him again, right.

Or do you know something about this boy, or do you hear that he is a scumbag?

It's just that I haven't heard of that man rushing to get along with someone else.

Something is wrong.

My dear, if that's the case, a big part of the reason that the boy didn't want to live with someone else is that he didn't meet a good fit.

But this does not mean that the other party is a scumbag.

Maybe the teacher understands this kind of thinking of yours, because you are afraid that you will be hurt, right?

1. Don't get angry.

When a lot of people get home, relatives introduce them to someone, and even if you hate it, you need to know what to do. Everyone's thoughts are different, if relatives have a good relationship with your family, and you use this attitude, then they will not be able to get along with your parents, so for some relatives who must be seen, you have to stop in moderation, if you can, you can't go, no matter what the situation, as long as you meet someone you don't like, don't force yourself. Many people can't get along with their parents, let alone relatives, so you have to stay by yourself when relatives get together.

Second, express your thoughts to them.

Many relatives want to introduce you to someone because they don't think you have it, and if you don't want to, you can also share your thoughts with everyone. Don't allow yourself to tolerate it all the time when you feel that your relatives are nagging, because it may also cause them to feel that you agree, so there must be a barrier between parents.

3. Summary. You should smile or smile during the New Year, if you always have a straight face, then others don't want to come to your house to pay New Year's greetings. For example, some relatives like to take advantage of it, so you have to lock your door during the Chinese New Year, otherwise they will want to take everything they see, and it will make you feel very painful.

Don't show it on your face if you hate it, it will also make your relatives feel very embarrassed.