What should I do if my girlfriend can t have children, and what should I do if my girlfriend doesn t

Personally, I think that if you can't accept it, you can give up on her.

Don't blame me for discriminating against her, don't think I'm cold-blooded, don't think that I reject abnormal people, the fact is that if you choose her in the future, you will also think that she insists on marrying you, and you compromised, which is not good.

If true love, then it will not be written out in knowing, but silent love.

As a man, you have a responsibility on your shoulders, you already knew about this problem in advance, you didn't let go at the time, and waited until now?

If your persistence is affected by external reasons, then if you find a girl again in the future, you will also have such and such problems, will you also let go?

What happened to IVF? It's better than not having children, even if you don't have children, what's the matter?

You are an adult, you have to know how to have your own ideas, and if you really love each other, you have to go on bravely.

I think there's only one reason to break up, and that's that you don't love each other anymore.

If not, stick to it.

Nabs!! Support you!! Everything will be fine.

Contradiction. If you had proposed a breakup, I think she would have understood.

But then you would be too immoral.

Don't break up, there is a condemnation of filial piety in the psyche...

I think it's the most important step in your life. If you choose to break up, have you thought about the consequences? Will you regret it.

I think your shadow is the shadow of the high-tech industry. Suppose the child is born healthy. You touch your heart and think that the shadow is still there ...

You are a current person, use the concept of the current person to conquer your filial piety to complete your morality.

Brother support you...

IVF is also your child, except that it is not conceived naturally, and there is no difference in others. You have baggage in your own heart, and if you really love her, you should throw away those baggage and accept her well. You are afraid of hurting her now, and you don't want your family to feel uncomfortable.

You can try to persuade your family to accept this.

Since you love each other, you should be together, and since you love her, you should be responsible for her! I don't think either of you will be happy if you are separated because of this! You may find one that you can give birth to, but you will be burdened with a lifetime of guilt, don't you think?

IVF can be considered, and I don't think it's anything else, but the cost may be bigger, and modern people should adapt to modern life!

Hello, this is a good life case, first of all, when your girlfriend was dating you, she had clearly told you about this situation, and you also said that you didn't care too much, in fact, you made a wrong move at that time, of course, you can ask this question, which means that you still love him, but you can't get over a pass at home, one side is family affection and one side is love, but have you ever thought about if you abandon this woman, what else does she have? She gave everything to you, her life is no longer meaningful, in fact, you can think clearly, are you with a woman just for the sake of children? Even IVF is your own flesh and blood, it's just that you don't want to believe this fact.

Let's put aside the so-called traditional and feudal thinking.

If you really love each other, this kind of thing is not a problem. I have a relative who is like this, preparing for artificial insemination, but you have to consider the financial situation, and the cost is not low.

If the test tube can be conceived, it is still possible, and the child will still keep your blood in the future! If you love her enough!

You have watched the TV series "Those Things About Husband and Wife", haven't you watched it.

Love is in everyone's heart, if you really love him, there will be no such doubts, since you can't let go, ask his opinion, and then the two of you solve it together

Give the other party a promise, first of all, the boy can come up with his own promise to the girl, it does not need too many beautiful words, it is better to be from the heart, that will make the girl feel a sense of belonging, and it is not easy to be afraid of pregnancy and the whole process of having a child.

If women are more sensitive or reflect very violently, then don't talk too much at one time, the frequency of repetition can be higher, and one time will say a little less, so that in the long run, when talking about this kind of thing, there should be no obvious reflection.

There is no way to force this method, if the two of you can't agree before marriage, it is a very rational thing for everyone to break up now although it is painful. Otherwise, it will be too costly for you to divorce in the future because of this matter.

Another is that I think you should also communicate well with your girlfriend and ask her why she doesn't plan to have children after marriage. Does she want to work hard, but she has a child, and she is afraid that it will affect her work? Or is it because she's afraid that she'll change her body shape if she gives birth?

Or maybe she just doesn't want children. It's better to figure out the specific reasons and then discuss them with your girlfriend in a targeted manner.

Then break up, there will be many problems if this point of view is not consistent. I don't know what your girlfriend thinks, but I made the same request to my ex-boyfriend, if you want to continue to be together, you will never have children after marriage. He asked me why?

I really don't like children! And it hurts too much, and it's too hard to raise. Two people are good.

He was an only son and his family was traditional. However, he accepted such a reason! In fact, the real reason for cruelty can only be understood in one's own heart.

I can't say it at all, it's too hurtful. I said sorry 10,000 times in my heart. I don't have the confidence to raise a child with you, I don't have the confidence to be with you all the time, and I'm afraid that the child will become a constant entanglement between us.

If you still can't help but leave in the end, the child is innocent. I don't want him to come to earth and suffer.

Then I chose to break up. Because of soft-heartedness and fear of not meeting someone who also loves you, and not daring to leave someone you don't love, it is cowardice, selfishness, not confident that you can become a better person, and not worthy of having someone you love. Not only is I sorry for myself, but I am also irresponsible to others.

Shengsheng occupies his feelings, but cannot respond to his same love, and also deprives him of the right to find a lover.

Never regret your decision. I was lucky later. It turns out that if you really like someone, you will change with it.

I began to like children slowly, and even smiled happily at strange children, and almost every child would magically return the smile with a smile! yes, I don't want to say this until now, maybe your girlfriend doesn't have any special past, she just doesn't love you that much.

I think if I really love someone, I want to have a home with him, and the two of them work hard to manage their lives and live happily every day. Although I am afraid of pain and triviality, I am still willing to have a little baby of ours, we raise the baby together, look forward to his worry-free and healthy growth, and teach him the truth of life. Slowly, the child grew into the two of us, and we who were not unrelated in this world had an inseparable bond.

Children are proof of our love.

Every child who comes into the world should have a lot of love, instead of being given up by their parents and facing the unknown life alone. May every child be a happy child. Every day he sees his parents loving each other, and his parents give him the best love in the world.

Don't worry, many mothers don't like children when they are young, and they have the idea of not having children in the future, but as they get older, a woman's motherhood will be enlarged a little bit, and slowly she will not be able to walk when she sees a child, and she has the idea of having a baby by herself!

I myself am an example of this. When I was in my early 20s, I didn't like children very much, and I felt that they were noisy and annoying, and they would cause damage and trouble, so I left away when I saw them.

Once, my sister-in-law was busy and asked me to help take a look at my niece, so I put her in the walker and gave her a toy to play with, and it was okay at first, but after a while I started to cry, I was about to pick it up and coax, but I found that she pulled a pants poop, and the car was everywhere, and when I was at a loss, the naughty child actually grabbed the poop with his hand and started playing. I yelled, "Stop!"

The child stopped crying, but he was frightened by my hands and waved around, and then the poop on his hands was spilled farther away. I shouted "sister-in-law help", and when my sister-in-law came, I quickly ran away. At that moment, I thought, I will never have children in the future, it will be too troublesome.

However, when I reached the age of 28, I seemed to have changed as if I was a different person, and I unconsciously liked children, every time I saw other children outside, I would patiently play with them for a long time, and the children would get dirty things on me, and I would not be angry, and I felt more and more cute about children, and I was more and more able to play with children.

Later, after getting married, I soon became pregnant, gave birth to my own baby, and I couldn't put it down, until now, I have always liked children very much, whether it is my own children, or other people's children, I like it from the bottom of my heart.

Your girlfriend may be the same as I was before, it doesn't matter, take your time, and she'll like it when she grows up.

Maybe it's just that, as time goes by, she will gradually change, and there is no need to have children just after getting married and do more ideological work.

Try to communicate, share your opinions, and strive to seek common ground while reserving differences.

Needle prick, try raw rice cooked rice, if your girlfriend still insists on knocking it out, then you can basically GG.