Please help, the confession was tactfully rejected, what should I do

Love needs to be paid by both parties You love her, she can love you so that you will be happy, on the contrary, she doesn't love you but agrees to associate with you, then won't you be more depressed?

In fact, it may be a good thing for you that he does this. In this way, you can clearly understand that you are not the other half of his mind, and you can know that you have no possibility and no hope of chasing her. Although you will be sad, if he doesn't say anything, doesn't express it, accepts your kindness to her, and then says, "I don't want to associate with you", wouldn't you be even more sad?

Maybe she doesn't really want to talk to you. I'm just afraid that you won't understand, so you will be pestered and chased, so that each other will feel very tired

So, adjust your mentality, hide your heart like her, just like a simple friend, maybe he will become your confidante 3....

There's nothing to say, stalking, don't believe you can't catch up, with the first failure, we will have the entrance to success, let's work hard.

Failure is only temporary, success is actually not far from us, give yourself a firm commitment, don't be afraid to pay the price for success. Any small discovery could be where your success lies.

Be sure to forget that confession. It's coming from the new!

It's about the same as me! I can't help it myself! Dude, let's do it!

Or choose to like her silently. One word, etc.

In interpersonal communication, learning to refuse is a compulsory course, especially in the relationship between men and women, we can't control others to have a good impression of us, and in the face of the confession of people we don't like, we can't force ourselves to accept, although rejection is inevitably a harm, but polite refusal may not make the relationship between the two sides stalemate. So how should you refuse to be confessed by someone you don't like?

1. Resolute attitude, bluntly refusing as the saying goes: "If you keep breaking off diplomatic relations, you will be confused by it." "When the other person expresses their love for you, if you don't like the other person, give the other person a clear attitude, don't complain, and give the other person a chance.

You have to refuse directly, and don't contact him again after refusing, and don't ask him for help to avoid unnecessary trouble.

2. Leave enough dignity for the other party, and efficiently refuse the confessions of many people who dare not refuse others, always afraid of hurting their self-esteem and the weakest heart. Especially the sudden confession of a friend for many years, they were caught off guard and didn't know what to do. At this time, when you reject this kind of confession from a friend, you have to know how to be tactful, just give him some hints, tell him what type you like and what you imagine your future to be.

Let him stand back. As friends, they will understand your rejection. This also saves the other party's face and dignity, and minimizes the degree of harm.

3. If the other party confesses to you in person, you are afraid that the face-to-face refusal will hurt the other party, and you don't know how to refuse appropriately. For now, you can find a reason to be impatient to respond immediately. You can tell him your true thoughts through WeChat or text messages, which can not only alleviate the embarrassment of rejecting code sales in person, but also help the other party slowly digest the information.

4. Before rejecting him, you can praise him, praise him, save him enough face, let him know that you cherish and care about your friendship, and tease him so you don't want to deceive him, which doesn't want to cause any harm to him. Many people now know what a good hand means.

Once you've dealt a good card, he knows that you've politely rejected him.

After the confession, the other party generally does not reply in the following situations:

1. Get tangled.

After receiving a confession, many girls are likely to be entangled if they do not refuse directly. Girls generally have more thoughts about feelings, and they may think about whether the two people are suitable after receiving the confession, or whether they like it or not, in this case, the other party may still have some feelings for you, but you still have to wait for her to think clearly, and then tell you, so don't worry, if she thinks clearly, she will definitely give you an answer.

2. I don't know how to refuse.

There are also some people who don't know how to refuse, so after being confessed, their first reaction is that they don't know what to do, so they just let it go and don't reply, thinking that the other party will know what they mean after a long time. If you haven't received a reply from the other party after confessing, and then the person hasn't shown any willingness to chat with you, it's basically a refusal.

3. Use you as a spare tire.

Although this situation is more heart-wrenching, I have to say that both men and women, like to keep a spare tire, will think of you when needed, but if there is a more satisfactory will ignore you, so if you confess to her, usually the other party will not reply, do not refuse or agree, do not want to lose your spare tire but do not want to be responsible for you. If you encounter this kind of situation, you must simply leave by yourself, everyone is unique, you don't need to be a spare tire for others, you deserve better.

Second, the correct way to open the confession.

1. Pay attention to the sense of ceremony.

There is one word that many people will mention nowadays – a sense of ritual. What is the ritual sense of confession, to put it bluntly, it is the degree of your heart, not to say how lively the scene is, but a formal attitude, so that the other party feels that this is an important thing, it is something you really care about, and it can leave a better memory for the other party, rather than casually saying I love you I want to be with you, this kind of will seem more frivolous and insincere.

2. Courage and self-confidence.

If you decide to confess to the other party, you must think about it yourself, and then confidently tell her what you think, if your attitude is hesitant and indecisive and you don't have the courage to judge the lenient and free spirit, then how can you expect the other party to be willing to believe you, so the confession must have courage, confidence, and give the other party a sense of security.

1.The rejection will be straightforward.

If you are too tactful, the other party will mistakenly think that you are shy or reserved, many people are ready to face difficulties when they confess, your hesitation or procrastination is equivalent to encouraging the other party, and people will increase their horsepower to catch up. If you don't like it, you should resolutely reject it, otherwise it will only make the damage overlap repeatedly. Of course, it is understandable to think seriously for a few days when you are faced with a confession that you are not sure of your heart.

2.I will deliberately reduce the frequency of contact and meetings.

The pursuit of attaching importance to availability, few people will pursue a person who they feel is completely unattainable. If your explicit decision never works, perhaps your actions and words are not "consistent", giving them a hint of false caution. If you still reply to the other party's messages, go to appointments from time to time, and even accept gifts from the other party, it's no wonder that people are stalking.

An effective rejection should be to reduce the frequency of your contact and meeting, and to draw clear boundaries between your interactions.

3.I'll be honest with my reasons.

The rejection should be justified in order to convince and accept the other party. People are more inclined to believe in what they expect, and a vague reason is tantamount to fantasizing about the other person, which is tantamount to throwing an open-ended question to the other person. For example:

4.I'll think more about myself.

It is not uncommon for courtship not to engage in extreme behavior, and now Kuanmu should have basic precautions against people. Weigh the other person's personality and way of doing things in advance, and choose a reasonable way and occasion to refuse. If they are not good at managing their emotions, choosing to communicate in public may be more conducive to your personal safety, even if there may be embarrassing out-of-control scenes, although face-to-face is more respectful and sincere, but online communication may be more secure, in short, I will express my thoughts and will protect myself.