My confession was rejected, what else can I do

Updated on psychology 2024-05-06
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hehe. You can impress her with your concern for her, but don't be vain. Be plain.

    If she's disgusted by your concern, then you should be cold to her. If she has feelings for you, she will have something to do to arouse your attention, and if she doesn't take you seriously at all, then she can only regret telling you to give up! I'm a girl, I'm also from here, trust me!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think that after the confession is rejected, the attitude towards her should be the same as before the confession. Then confess again after a while, and if you fail again, it means that the girl really doesn't like you. And you can also tell yourself to die and have no more illusions.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The countryside surrounds the city, and she has a good relationship with her best friends, and then, if you have something to help, nothing to talk about, people's hearts are flesh and blood, unless you are too different from others to be worthy. Otherwise, there will be results. Good luck.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If the other party is a good girl, worthy of your relationship, and you really want to date, then continue to work hard. However, regardless of the outcome, sincerity is important, and liking does not mean possession. It's better to go with the flow.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Go on! Don't let go until the last critical moment! You know? Looks like you're really going to have to put some effort into it! Maybe it's not the right time for you to confess! As soon as people are a little good at you, they confess not to intimidate them? Let's take a look!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Silently care about her When he is your little sister, it's okay.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Stalking, hehe.

    This is the secret that a girl told me.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Take it easy. Maybe there's still a chance.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Over time, we should be considerate with practical actions.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love can't replace all of them, you know??? Love is so important now! Not really.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Are you a student?

    The spring light outside is infinitely beautiful.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When the confession is rejected, the atmosphere will be awkward and the air will condense, and the best way to resolve this atmosphere at that time is to use humor to round the field. You can say humorous words such as "I'm sorry, it's my cat just typed", although the other party knows that the reason you are looking for is very clumsy, but he understands that this is equivalent to giving two people a step, and responding to your words will also be able to resolve the embarrassment at that time.

    2. Get out of the sadness of confession failure as soon as possible.

    I must feel sad and a little regretful when I confess my failure and be rejected by someone I have liked for so long. If you blindly indulge in it and can't extricate yourself, then it will be difficult for the chaotic relationship between the two to maintain naturally. For yourself, at this time, you must quickly get out of your sadness, continue to muster courage, and continue to overcome obstacles on the road of love.

    3. Adjust your mentality and regain confidence.

    Confessing failure doesn't mean you're worse than others, or that you don't deserve it. Love is about fate and love, and only when you meet the right person at the right time can you create a real spark of love. Believe in love, you will naturally meet true love, you don't have to be nostalgic for the passers-by in our lives, and you will meet more and better people in the future.

    4. Follow your heart, and if you still feel like her, then continue to work hard.

    The unsuccessful confession must indicate that one party is unrequited, and it also shows that the other party just regards himself as a friend, and does not have a crush on this layer of window paper, and the emotional position of the two suddenly becomes clear, and it is difficult for both parties to adjust their original positions. At this time, you must be cheeky and make it clear that the two can still be good friends. Talk to each other to quickly open the knot.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello, I think confession is rejected if you don't respond. In fact, it is very likely that he may not have a strong love for you between men and women, he just treats you as a friend, but it is not good to say it to death, directly refuse, afraid that he can't even be a friend, and hurt your heart, don't worry, just treat it as a friend, don't force him to break it, don't make both people embarrassed, will he fall in love with you, time will tell, be a confident, independent and emotionally intelligent person.

    Wait patiently Although love is beautiful, but if you don't get a reply after the confession, it will become a tragic love experience, in fact, you can't blame the person who is confessed, they suddenly receive your confession, they may be at a loss, don't know how to deal with it, and forget about the reply to you. That's why you can't get a reply for a long time. The more you are at this time, the more you can't panic or choose to give up.

    Confessing to a girl and not replying doesn't mean that the girl has blocked you, or that the other party doesn't like you. Perhaps, they just need a moment of calmness and figure out how to deal with it and how to respond. Then all you have to do is quietly wait for a reply.

    When the girl thinks clearly, she will reply to you with her answer. Even if the reply you wait for is a rejection, don't lose faith. Don't be like a headless fly, restless.

    Recognize yourself. In fact, we also know in our hearts that sometimes if we send a message to others, others may not necessarily be able to see our message on time, so if we send a message to others, we will comfort ourselves that the other party, if we do not reply in time, we must be because we did not see it. But we also need to know that if a person really hasn't replied to your message for a long time, then he is actually really rejecting you, he just doesn't want to reject you in a particularly direct way, at this time we should actually know what to do in our own hearts.

    Make it clear in person.

    In the Internet era, more and more people have become dependent on mobile phones, and even confessions and breakups can be solved on mobile phones. I saw this story on Weibo before, the boy proposed to the girl on WeChat, and said to the girl Would you like to marry me, the girl said that no one proposed on WeChat, and the boy said that you are on QQ. Isn't it a little funny, such an important thing as a marriage proposal is done through a mobile phone, I think no girl will agree, girls don't necessarily ask for a lot, but at least need to make it clear in person.

    Confession requires warmth, and we often prefer to face each other directly rather than a cold mobile phone, because through the mobile phone we cannot feel the joys and sorrows of the other party, and we cannot see the other person's expression at this moment. So through I like you on WeChat, the girl can realize whether you are sincere or tentative. If you want to confess, you have to ask the girl out and tell her to her face, I like you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Many people have experienced rejection of confession, in fact, this is not a big deal, and the following methods can be taken after the confession fails: Let's take a look at how the confession failure can alleviate the uncomfortable mood.

    How to relieve the uncomfortable mood by confessing failure?

    1.Don't get tangled.

    After the rejection of the confession, the boy should recover his emotions. He doesn't have to pester the other side or ask the other side why. Because this will only make the girl more and more bored, and the boy should understand and rationally solve it is best.

    At this time, he doesn't have to bother you more because you need to attract her again. At this moment, you should sort out your emotions and allow yourself to return to your normal daily routine. You don't have to get caught up in the spiral of rejection.

    Let the girl see your atmospheric side and your open side, and let the girl have a different opinion of you.

    2.To live better.

    After the confession is rejected, you should no longer pursue the perfection of the other side of the argument, just for the sake of your own rationality for a while. When boys recover their emotions, you need to make yourself stronger, when girls see that you have a better life, it will arouse a certain curiosity, in this link you don't have to break up with the girl, you can be the other side of the thumbs, meaning that you are still there, but can not disturb her every day, let the girl make you the illusion that she does not care, so the girl will have doubts and feel that she cannot catch you. You need to make the most of your strengths and have your own highlights, so that the girl feels that it is not right to reject you, and that the girl has an uncertain state of mind.

    3.Wash your heart and face.

    In this link, you should improve your style, enrich your extracurricular life, and make yourself look better. After all, you can only attract others if you are good. You should understand that only confident and happy boys are more elegant.

    The low-level pleasing that has been going on will only greatly reduce the value of your use.

    Boys should understand that if they want to pursue perfection to the girl they like, they don't have to use humility as a form of attack, and they don't have to throw a stool to try all kinds of warmth to impress her. They should understand that attracting girls according to their best selves is the best option. It is only when boys become better and stronger that they are not afraid of rejection.

    If you fight back completely, you will become a new person and it will be even more mysterious to the girls. At this moment, you will once again strive for perfection. Only the pass rate can be improved, and you can get the most perfect love.

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