I wanted to give up, but I couldn t

Understandably, it is indeed difficult to make a girl forget an unforgettable love. But you still have to think about it calmly. After reading your short story, I feel that the man you love deeply is not worthy of your life, and it can be seen from the haste of his marriage that he lacks a sense of responsibility, and after he got married, he developed a relationship with you, which can only prove the man's heart from the perspective of others.

Such a man somehow makes you fascinated, "Leaving him means that I can't live anymore". I advise you not to look at your life so narrowly, you are not the only two men in your life, and it is not that you can't live without anyone. "Parents of the body", people should live for themselves and know how to cherish themselves.

He asked me to wait for him for two years", I don't know how he was embarrassed to say this sentence, using you as a substitute after the divorce, so that he didn't seem to have lost anything? You know, how many years can a girl's youth be wasted waiting?

Finally, I wish you to get out of the emotional whirlpool as soon as possible and find a more open living space.

Hehe, there is an old saying: It is better to demolish ten temples than to break a marriage.

It's a bit old-fashioned, but it makes sense.

No matter how much he and his wife don't get along, how many conflicts there are in the family... Or that his house is a dynamite bag, and if you show up at this time, you're the one who lit the fuse...

And then you're the culprit, and you're the target, and when you're together, the woman will hate you, the child will hate you, and the child's grandmother won't have a good impression of you. Is it okay to have a good time?

From the perspective of your relationship, that man doesn't necessarily mean that he is really good to you, no matter what sweet words he says, he drowns himself, and suddenly the opportunity catches you, then you become her lifeline, he just wants you to help light the fire... Don't get carried away by love, and be calm when necessary.

Is your boyfriend stingy? This is his fault, I feel that now you have no right to find his mistakes, you are not single-minded enough, this big problem is in your body, how can you laugh in fifty steps and a hundred steps?

Think twice, after all, it's up to you to decide what to do.

Two suggestions. 1 People say that life is precious, and love is more valuable... Regardless of everything, they are leaving, you two are married, and after marriage, they will be better to the children and the elderly...

2. Stop the precipice, concentrate on your boyfriend, get along well, look at the advantages of others, look at yourself and look at the shortcomings, deal with the things between you well, maybe you will find that he is the one who loves you more.

3. It is definitely not recommended that you wait for two years, and the reason is obvious, after two years, you are likely to become the little dog bear who lost the corn and the watermelon. That's the dumbest choice.

From your description, I can understand that you are a very emotional woman, there are not many women in today's society, women who are too emotional, in other words, the IQ in terms of emotions is not high, and the scene of his family life that you described was known from him? Or did you witness it with your own eyes? Nowadays, many selfish, irresponsible men use these kinds of topics in exchange for sympathy.

Hope you can make an informed choice.

Friends, emotional things are better than natural, what should be yours will always be yours.

If love. Go on.

If you don't love. Leave.

Summary. If I can't give up on you, then I'll give up on myself, since I can't give up, you can't do it, I can't look for you, I can't ignore you, then I'll give up myself, I give up my own so-called giving up myself, that is, I don't work hard. It means that there is no fighting spirit and no future, that is to say, from now on, you have to get by, live a day is a day of work and study, no plan and no dream.

Therefore, when a person is giving up on himself, he is also giving up his future goal. Therefore, we must not be a person who gives up on ourselves, but to plan the future for ourselves, and then follow this future step by step, then we will eventually realize our dreams, because there will be gains if there is hard work, but if you don't work hard, there will be no gain, and giving up yourself is equivalent to giving up your life value.

I can't give up on you, so I'll give up on myself.

Hello dear, can you describe your problem in detail.

If I can't give up on you, then I'll give up on myself, since I can't give up, you can't do it, I can't look for you, I can't ignore you, then I'll give up on myself, and I know that giving up on my own so-called giving up on myself means that I don't work hard. It's just that there is no fighting spirit, and there is no meaning of the future, that is to say, from now on, you have to get by, live a day is a day of work and study, no cheating, no plans, no dreams. Therefore, when a person is giving up on himself, he is also giving up his future goal.

Therefore, we must not be a person who gives up on ourselves, but to plan the future for ourselves, and then follow this future step by step, then we will eventually realize our dreams, because there will be gains if there is hard work, but if you don't work hard, there will be no gain, and giving up yourself is equivalent to giving up your life value.