Very introverted and unconfident, are you introverted or are you not confident enough?

Start with the person you like and slowly get along, go out with your favorite friends first, and over time you won't be afraid when you see some scenes, because you are afraid when you feel unknown, and if you know it in advance, it will not be so scary.

People's self-confidence needs to be improved through communication, and it is not okay to live alone in their own world. Always remember, don't be embarrassed, you have to learn to be generous and embarrassed others.

Talk more in public, if you are a student, you will speak more on stage, and communicate more with your classmates, so that you will get better slowly! At first my situation was very similar to yours, now it is much better! But I'm going to work harder! Come on!

Be bold first, don't be afraid of people laughing at you, sometimes it's okay to make a joke.

If you are not good at communicating, you can learn slowly and listen more.

Make a few close friends so you don't get too lonely.

In addition, the main thing is to think more about others and not think too much about yourself.

I think you're timid, but don't be afraid. Just be cautious when communicating with people, use your ingenuity a lot, and make mistakes and improve

When you are young, others will understand, and when you are older, others will not appreciate you.

Go to public places more, give speeches in crowded places or talk to strangers, and over time you will become bolder, and that's how I came over, talking to the mirror every day, I can, I can.

Introversion is not a shortcoming, a person can live without anything, the only thing that can not be without is self-confidence, now in this society, everyone is equal, you have no worse than others, why you have no self-confidence, if you yourself are not confident in yourself, how will others treat you, remember a sentence, don't look down on yourself, you are not worse than others.

You can try group sports activities, such as mountain climbing, playing badminton, and cultivate slowly and be sunny.

Since you have the courage to ask this question, you have to muster up the courage to step out of your own world, you are just using your introversion and timidity as an excuse, no one is born a sunny boy or girl, they are all on their own, come on, if there is anything else, you add mine.

Seeing some people say that walking 25% faster than others can overcome lack of self-confidence. I suggest that you show yourself in front of others, the so-called bystander, so that the people around you can see your strengths. Actually, it's up to you whether you want to or not, and we're just suggesting.

Actually, don't be afraid. Contact, communication, and exchange with people more. Naturally, they adapted.

There are so many introverted people in the world that you can be more introverted than you think, and you are even more afraid to face others and society, and even refuse to communicate with everyone, including your parents. It might be much better to do more things that you don't normally dare to do.

Take your time, and this phenomenon can be caused by being bullied as a child or not having many playmates.

As long as you get in touch step by step, you can slowly develop from one or two friends

I recommend reading Carnegie's book. You can watch "Happy Life" and "Beautiful Life" first

Be brave and take the first step! Life is not to fantasize and hypothesize, but to experience.

The cheek is trained, trust me.

People are equal, just take the first step.

Sometimes you should be yourself.

The more you don't communicate with people, the more introverted you become.

I'm not good at talking in front of strangers and I blush.

Should you drink less often?

Introversion and extroversion are nothing more than two personalities of people, introverts like to be alone, taciturn, and not good at expressing themselves, which is the weakness of introverts. However, compared with extroversion, introverts have more advantages, such as being good at thinking, having a stronger sense of responsibility, being cautious in doing things, being more independent, and getting along with themselves better. Introversion is not terrible, what makes people worry is that introverts feel that this is a shortcoming, a problem, or even because of introversion, they are ashamed and inferior and cannot work and live normally.

In my opinion, there are some people who are introverted as an appearance, and their inner essence is caused by not being confident enough, not daring to express themselves, and not affirming and recognizing themselves enough. So how should such people build self-confidence?

The right amount of self-esteem is a prerequisite for our ability to build self-confidence. Sometimes we have too much self-consciousness and care too much about ourselves in the eyes of others, and our self-esteem is strong enough to lead to low self-esteem. We should let go of ourselves in order to better let go of ourselves, and boldly trying to do something is the beginning of change.

We give ourselves more positive feedback when we do things, form a reward mechanism, and slowly we will start to be satisfied with ourselves in our hearts. We must have a pair of eyes that are good at discovering their own beauty, and everyone has their own shining point. For example, if you can write every day, you can insist on writing every day and give yourself a small reward every day, and you will feel that you are really good after a long time.

If we have strong skills in our field of work that no one can replace, this is a tool to develop self-confidence and strength. We need to improve, and diligence is a process of continuous imitation. Imitation may not be a catchy word, but it is a necessary process in the early stages.

When the imitation reaches the point of realism, the next step is to innovate by ourselves, there must be enough input to have output, we need to do a lot of reading, practice and reading and practice, and finally form our own things.

This is not absolute.

There are many people in life, although they are introverted, but their lives are very regular, their daily affairs are handled in an orderly manner, and their careers are thriving, this is because they have full self-confidence, are very wise, do things with confidence, but also have patience and perseverance.

There are also some people who are very strong on the surface and live a very romantic life, but when he encounters a little difficulty and challenge, his heart softens, he can't support it, he is more dependent, and even does things so-so, gives up halfway, and in the end, he doesn't have any good results.

are clearly two opposite words.

<> everyone is not born to do everything, and it is not possible to do everything well once. Many great people are often very good today, and this is also because of the accumulation of early years.

You might say that people are inherently smart, and that's true. But the wizards are a minority after all, and most of them are ordinary people. The difference between people is not too big, and often there is such a big difference between people, because there is too much difference in the effort put into each other.

If you are an introvert and are not brave and resolute enough in dealing with others, then you must first realize that you are not enough. If you don't like to talk, to put it bluntly, it's a kind of insufficient, it's that you can't break through yourself, it's that you're not brave enough, it's that you're not good enough.

When you understand your situation, you have to learn to change. Introverts have fewer and fewer discussions with the people around them, which can make it difficult for others to understand you well and hold you in high regard. So when you belong to this kind of personality, you have to stick to one thing, and that is to constantly improve your abilities in all aspects, which is the real solution to the problem.

The fundamental reason why a person does not like to talk and hesitates is because he is weak in his heart, not brave enough and not confident enough. And these are all because the overall strength is not enough and not good enough. When you continue to improve yourself, it is not only your ability level that rises, but also your self-confidence and courage.

A person's personality can be changed, and in the current social development, it is really difficult for a person to have a certain degree of great achievement in the workplace if he is too introverted.

When you realize that there is something wrong with your temperament, when you realize that you are not brave and decisive enough to deal with things on your own, you have to pay attention. If it goes on like this, it will definitely not work, and change is urgent.

A person's introversion and hesitation are all due to the fear that they will not say good things and do bad things. First of all, we must treat the two things of speech and work correctly, not who is born to be very good at talking, not who can get things done smoothly from the beginning. Everyone is not a sage, and they all have to go through the experience of learning, training, and growth.

If someone else can do it, why can't that person be you? When you are overwhelmed, you have to learn to try, to try, to change. You should stick to learning how to express your emotions and thoughts.

Surely you won't, you go to school, you're not skilled, so you practice more.

If you're an extremely introverted person with little self-confidence, try doing this! What is the meaning of the path of life? Uncle Qing feels that you can recognize your own shortcomings, and then strictly require yourself to change.

Although we will not be able to do anything to the extreme, we can bring ourselves closer to perfection according to our efforts, and this is the best interpretation of the actual meaning of life. Temperament can change, things are not easy to learn, if you figure out these two aspects, if you try to ensure these two aspects, your life must be shining.

I think you can improve yourself, don't always think cranky, spend more time with positive people, and slowly make yourself sunny and cheerful.

You can get up every morning and exercise consistently, then develop an independent habit and try to talk to the mirror every day.

Be brave enough to take the first step to socialize and communicate with others, who are no different from you. Only through social interaction can we understand our own shortcomings and correct them.