What do you do with the people who talk about you?

Everyone will meet such people in their lives, these people are always chewing on the root of the tongue behind the backs of others, and sometimes they deliberately let you hear. If what he says is a distortion of the facts, insult you, insult you. You feel that there is a breath in your heart, and you can refute it if you can't hold it.

That might make you feel better. Even if he won't change his bad habits because of this. You have to believe that most people like this don't have many true friends.

I believe in the saying that they will do unto you as you would have them do unto you, because God is fair to man.

No matter what you say or do, there will always be idlers to talk about, and it is impossible to satisfy all of them. If you are really serious with it, it will "I'll just joke" and "I'll just talk about it". There's no need to care about everyone's opinions, or you'll be tired.

For people who are idle and looking for some fun to satisfy themselves, it's good to ignore them, unless you happen to be idle too.

This kind of person is like this, his reputation is not good, and he belongs to the type of relying on the old and selling the old, I suggest not not to speak, when he says your mother's family, you are optimistic about the occasion and refute him, but don't be serious, you can take a joking attitude. Make your attitude clear. Don't let him think you're a bully.

In fact, it is inevitable that there will be some discussions in interpersonal interactions, and some people will talk about you, which means that they don't have what you have, envy, jealousy and hatred.

Everyone's behavior and pursuit are different, and he didn't get it, so the discussion is actually a manifestation of inferiority and jealousy. Don't bother with it, because they're the kind of people who talk about whatever you do, they just want to be dissatisfied.

I will choose to ignore it, there will inevitably be people talking about it, just be yourself.

After thinking about it for a long time, I felt that only by becoming better than them could I gag their mouths. If you just blindly shrink your hands and feet, it is really weak. The lion doesn't turn back when the dog barks, and I'm the lion.

Some people are born with a melancholy temperament, and some people are optimists, and their personality determines that you think more than others, and it may be useless to persuade you to look away. You can do more to distract yourself or force yourself not to think about it with a self-reminder method. I've also encountered this situation, but time can fade slowly and less exposure to triggers.

I generally turn a blind eye to this kind of person. Ignore it, just be yourself.

In the past, I would choose to ignore it, but in the future I would take the initiative and say that I was very bad, even worse than from their mouths, and I would let them leave in embarrassment.

It's very common to talk about other people behind your back, almost everyone will have it, and you can only say that he happened to say something you don't want to hear, so you ask this question.

But silence is the highest contempt.

It shows that the more famous you are, the more attention you have, and the more people talk about you, the more valuable you are. This is a good sign, it means that you are influential, charismatic, a person, a public figure. This is a person's success, a person's achievement.

If you are an ordinary person and you don't have any fame, then you have to be careful, and you will talk less and less, or even none, because you have no influence and no one pays attention to you. This is a person's sorrow, a person's misfortune, and a person's failure.

So, you have to work hard, you have to work harder, if you don't work hard, you will be eliminated.

Hello, the more people talk about you, the better you are. When a person is too good in his environment, it will cause dissatisfaction from others, because people in this environment are all at the same level, that is, this environment is a negative environment. When someone talks about you behind your back, you have to consider whether to leave such an environment, because a bad environment will not have too good results, so in the face of such discussions, don't pay too much attention to it, and don't shake your inner hunger because of other people's words.

Summary. Hello, dear.

Hello, dear.

This shows that you are excellent.

Because your excellence makes others jealous and envious, others talk about you.

What to do when a man who loves each other is talking about me in front of another woman.

Then it depends on what others say about you.

Say I'm chasing after the wind.

Chasing the wind is not a good word.

He listened to others.

But if this man really loves you.

It won't look like this.

The premise of love is mutual trust.

Instead of listening to others, you lose your own judgment.

Everyone is an independent individual, there are good and bad, there must be some people talking about it, so we can do a good job of self-absorption, living in the world, isn't it just to let the spine branch live happy, happy, why care too much, the mouth grows on others, we can't stop it.

It's not good to talk about other people. Especially behind the scenes, talking about other people's bad things.

We all talk about people, such as our friends. When mentioning them, there is the original intention of exchanging the latest situation, but it is inevitable to involve some small news of others, which is true and false, just showing up the phenomenon, discussing right and wrong, and using some previous stories as evidence of his understanding. However, some words are to rot in a small circle and cannot be passed on, which is not good for the protagonist of the incident.

We also talk about worshippers, and sometimes they make mistakes and are scolded by a large crowd that does not know the truth. At this time, as a long-term follower, you will have the attitude of "I know him better than you", thinking that "no one is perfect", and it is not "right" to evaluate a person with the greatest malice just because of one or two things. This kind of thinking is actually not wrong, understanding is an iterative process, no one can understand the whole truth of things at once, and things are constantly changing and developing.

If the mistake is too big, then he will inevitably have to pay for his mistake, just for a wrong event, on the facts, rather than denying it all (in terms of the value of achievement and contribution to society, it is actually quite utilitarian).

The group of people who stand tall think about the overall situation, not small rights and wrongs.