How do you get along with your confidante?

Don't have money with the other person. Some friends have strangers in the relationship between the two because of money, not to mention that you, as a man's confidante, must not borrow money from the other party because of your own difficulties, or let the other party give you alms.

The way for me to get along with my confidante is to talk to him about things that only the two of you have, such as his other party's relationship or something, and don't ask about it, it's a matter of the other party's own private space.

The proportions of the village with the soul confidant, you must keep a certain distance, not too close, too close, it will make you feel very stressed.

You must not spend more time with your confidante than you spend with your other half, and don't do it secretly when you're together.

The proportions I get along with my confidante are mastered by using a degree, and there is a reasonable scale.

It's okay to play casually when you're single, but if either party has a partner, you should keep some distance. In particular, intimate acts should not happen.

Don't cross the line, don't show too close, it's a normal friend relationship, don't let your girlfriend misunderstand.

I have a sense of proportion with my confidante, and I think it's just what I should do and what I shouldn't do.

The way I get along with my confidante is very easy to grasp, because of some facts, I can't do it.

It's okay for a friend to ask for help, but you can't do everything. To put my friend's psychology, you must be moderate in your relationship.

When I don't want to be disturbed, she always spends time quietly by herself. When I miss each other, we die together. When you don't want to miss it, you are busy with your own things.

If you want to become the top leader of a Void World, there are many and complicated things to do. The integration of forces, the creation of the void world, the reserve of knowledge. Any idea why I'm working so hard?

With your thoughts and insights, you will not be able to break through the barriers of technology and space in tens of thousands of years. Why else do you need us to come down? It is because your understanding of the universe and the development of civilization is limited, so every hundred years there will always be people who come down to pave the way for the future gods in advance, so that the development time of civilization can be shortened.

Otherwise, with your technology, if I don't show up, the whole world will start a world war because the economy is stagnant. It's a given. If the economy does not develop, human beings will reduce the cost of population to ensure the growth of wealth and promote the development of science and technology.

All have to use money. If I don't provide knowledge, I'm afraid that in the future, countless people will be buried in the underground world, and their lives will be harvested by death. Who told the two Grim Reapers, who are now suppressed by me, and the process is interrupted?

You can't make your wife angry, Hongyan is just a confidant, and your wife is an intimate companion who accompanies you in life.

Keep a certain distance, contact every day, and only give without asking for anything in return.

Confidants are like flowers, standing not far away and looking at her, admiring her.

A red face is a red face, and it does not involve money and fame.

I also have confidants of the opposite sex, the two sides don't talk about feelings, don't talk about family or each other's partners, and have no financial relationships, but the scale is properly mastered!

Go with the flow and throw away the shackles.

Personally, I don't think there is absolute friendship between men and women, since they can be confidants with each other for more than ten years, in fact, they like each other more or less in their hearts, maybe for some reason they are not together. But since he chooses to be with me now, he must consciously reduce his interactions. If he doesn't, I'll warn him, and if he doesn't, I'll just tell him to cut ties.

The words confidant or confidant are learned from Qiong Yao**, everyone knows that Qiong Yao is a romance** author, confidant or confidant of blue face They actually like each other from time to time, but they can't be together because of practical reasons. So whether it's a confidant or a confidant, it's like a time bomb between you.

Now that I know the nature of my confidant, I will ask him to cut off contact with him. I often see two lovers who were originally very affectionate from ** or TV, and in the end they broke up because of their confidants. Now that I have learned from the past, there is no need for me to follow the old path.

Of course, I will tell him the reasons why I asked them to break off contact, and I will tell him that there are three bottom lines in marriage that cannot be touched;

First, I have to have a confidant in life, and this confidant can only be me.

Second, I can't have an emotional relationship with anyone other than me.

Everyone is an adult, and now that you have a lover, you can avoid some things that can be avoided, let alone establish emotional relationships with people other than me. I think that as a mature person of the opposite sex, I should take the initiative to cut off contact with his confidant, and I should not be asked to remind him.

Thirdly, don't be friends with people who speak ill of your lover.

Since you have been a confidant of the opposite sex with the other person for more than ten years, then she will say good or bad about me in front of you, and your opinions will be influenced by her. And as an outsider, she can't easily judge my emotional condition, let alone judge my good or bad person.

A confidante is also called a confidante in fan, which is a female friend who is spiritually independent, equal in soul, and able to achieve deep resonance.

I once heard a friend say that he has a confidante and their other half also knows about their relationship. They usually exchange their experience of reading, cooking and so on.

He said that when a confidante and a wife quarreled, her husband would ask him to help persuade him. It can be seen that he has handled the relationship with his confidante very well. He also once said that confidantes are hard to find, and he can meet them, so he said that he is very lucky and content!

Yes, not every man will have his confidante!

Unlike a girlfriend, a wife, and a lover, she is a gray area in between.

Taking a step back is still unfinished, and further messing around. There are very few men who can grasp this degree well.

So what kind of man can have a confidant?

Naturally, they can be clear about their position and refrain from keeping their distance, avoiding physical contact, and only communicating with their souls. Many people mistake confidantes for lovers, but in fact they are not so calm, many men use the excuse of finding confidantes, and they actually want to find a lover.

A confidante is a friend of the opposite sex who goes beyond an ordinary relationship, but it is not a lover relationship. A man who wants to have a confidante should be mindful and treat her only as an excellent friend, not beyond the relationship.

And this man has to be open-minded. Because having a confidant is not for the purpose of possession. It's just a pure appreciation, a spiritual resonance.

Because confidantes are different from lovers, they are not entangled in body and interests. If you turn your confidante into a lover, then your confidante will change its taste, and the trajectory of your life will also change.

And most men are difficult to achieve this "degree", many times men are in the name of finding a confidante to approach more women, let them become their lovers, most men are not suitable to find a confidant, because curiosity and external factors will make them go against their original intentions, more and more deviated.

Even affect their own family, when a man can't control himself mentally and physically, then it's best not to think about finding a confidante, otherwise it will only break down the emotional relationship between his family and the other party, and eventually harm others and himself.

A man who can have a confidant must be a person with particularly strong self-control, who will not hurt his family for this, let alone hurt his confidante because of this, and only men with high emotional intelligence and strong self-control are equipped with a confidant.