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When women reach a certain age, the blessing of life path and knowledge, and the hope for feelings should have faded away from the ignorance of teenagers. You should be clear that some men are not suitable to talk about feelings with him, and he is not the one who can go through your life with you. When a woman reaches a certain age, she can't talk about feelings with this kind of man, so don't suffer from gains and losses.
Not enough attention is paid to the boys in the family
said that he was too busy with work, as if he was not particularly busy, in short, he just refused to stay at home longer. With someone like that, you live with anxiety every day. When they are middle-aged, women are just for a stable, ordinary daily life, and they don't want to be in any difficulties and obstacles, but this kind of man can't meet the life you want.
Therefore, when women reach a certain age, they can't talk about feelings with this kind of man, so don't suffer from gains and losses.
A boy who doesn't care about his future
When they get older, most men feel that their future cannot be saved, so they don't want to work hard, and they don't want to devote all their energy to work. Therefore, when looking at work and career, it is a negative attitude.
In fact, such people are generally not very stable, they have a strong laziness and luck. A boy who doesn't care about work, do you still expect him to give you a good second half of your life? This kind of person can't give you financial security and the future you want.
When a woman reaches a certain age, she can't talk about feelings with this kind of man, so don't suffer from gains and losses.
Women should figure out that some men really can't love, and with him, you can live a very tired life, as if you can't see hope. Once a person reaches middle age, he actually has the right to pursue true love, but you should no longer be innocent, you should still have a clear understanding in your heart, what kind of man is suitable to talk to him. At a certain age, you really don't have much to regret the opportunity, so you must be more cautious and serious in making the right choice.
Be vigilant and avoid the above boys, so that happiness can be very close to yourself, and don't make a mistake after paying your sincerity.
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Men complaining about the family. No matter how good their mentality is, people who listen to more complaints can get frustrated, not to mention that for middle-aged women, a lot of things are at home. If you make friends who often complain about poor family conditions, it will also have an impact on your own family,
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Men who love vanity, men who have families, men who are not motivated, men who are particularly lazy.
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A man with a wife, a man who pays special attention to face, a man who often talks about love, and a man who has bad intentions.
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One: First love.
How did you feel when you attended a class reunion or met your first love again for some other reason? After all, first love is a person's best memory, and it is also very inseparable, this relationship records your unforgettable memories, so when you meet your past lover again, your mood may fluctuate. However, as you gradually become excited, think about whether you are still in love with this person, or because you are just because you are in love with the old people.
You think this kind of relationship is a comeback, but it's probably just because you can't forget the past.
Two: extramarital affairs.
If the life of the two is too ordinary, there is not much affection between you and your husband. When you complain about the inconsiderate nature of men, who don't understand or even pay attention to you, another man appears, and his presence makes your heart flutter again after being quiet for a long time. At this moment, you will find that you have fallen in love with him little by little.
At this time, do you also let this relationship gradually develop, or erase this budding relationship as soon as possible? When you make a decision, why don't you think about your family, why don't you think about the key points when you were in a relationship with your husband at that time, and then make a decision. You must not make a big mistake just for a momentary emotional achievement.
Three: Online chat. Nowadays, the Internet and social networks are so developed, and people can always learn about different men on various platforms. Through the screen, everyone can't see what kind of person the other party is. Especially women who are heartbroken by their husbands are especially easy to fall in love with a man who has never met you but has always cared for you.
This relationship will not only damage your family life and married life, but you will continue to hurt yourself in the end. Since you don't know what the man you're chatting with is like in real life, he's probably not as good as your husband.
Everyone's married life is more or less difficult, at this time, the two people in the married life should think of dealing with it, not avoiding it. Regardless of men and women, having an extramarital affair is all unforgivable. Once a person reaches middle age, two people have been together for so long, and there is no relationship, but there is no doubt that there are other feelings.
As a woman, it's best not to be casually tempted, it is likely that if you don't pay attention to the area, you will invite trouble, and then regret it for the rest of your life!
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For example, a relationship with a divorced man, a relationship with a young man, and a relationship with an elderly person, all three are not recommended.
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After people reach middle age, they must no longer believe in love, because what they pursue after middle age is the happiness and peace of their children, as long as the children can live well, and the elderly at home can be healthy, don't believe in love anymore.
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The relationship of middle-aged, the relationship of twilight love, the relationship of falling in love with young people, and the relationship of raising a mistress, such feelings cannot be contacted, otherwise it will affect your family, and you will disturb your family breakdown.
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I think people must not go back to find their first love when they reach middle age, and don't have extramarital affairs, in fact, don't go to online dating, don't touch these three feelings.
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When a woman reaches a certain age, when she interacts with the opposite sex, she must pay attention to proportion, meet a sincere person of the opposite sex, a woman can get acquainted with it generously, a woman can maintain interpersonal relationships with her, take care of each other in life, help each other, and at the same time abide by the boundaries between friends, women usually live a very chic life.
On the contrary, in the process of getting along with you, a man usually can't see him all the time, she only has to ask for you, she can rush over to visit you, will shout at you, the man has this kind of performance, indicating that he is not really interested in you as a friend, she just pays attention to her own "practical value", don't be stupid and don't understand.
When a woman reaches a certain age, whether it is work or home life, it is relatively stable, which is also where women's happiness belongs.
At the same time, when a woman makes friends of the opposite sex, if she meets the kind of man who "plots against herself", he knows that you already have a family, and he still tells you some rhetoric, destroys your happiness, and does not respect you at all.
When a woman reaches a certain age, she needs to make more sunny friends and avoid some pessimistic friends, the former can have a positive impact on a woman's life, and the latter often has a negative impact on a woman's life.
There are some men who are depressed, more paranoid about things, very easy to be extreme, often self-defeating, like to blame others, often emotionally collapsed, verbose, for this kind of man, if a woman meets, she must know how to bypass, in case its negative emotions will make her mood drop.
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Don't have a deep relationship with a man who is particularly bad-tempered, unmotivated, and always lazy, because he will drag you down.
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Don't associate with men who have no sense of responsibility, no responsibility, no self-motivation, and a bad temper, and if you encounter one, you must quickly avoid it.
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One is a man with rhetoric, the second is a man who is not motivated, and the third is a man with low quality.
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Some people say: "The vicissitudes of time, the years do not bring each other, let alone feelings." "Feelings, like a clear stream in the years, only flow quietly; Love is like a fallen leaf in autumn, just quietly embracing the wind; Love is like a green grass in spring, just quietly listening to the wind and watching the rain in the four seasons.
You are all things in heaven and earth, but all things in heaven and earth only know their gradual and final destination. This world is composed of time, wind and rain life, and there is only a drop in the sea and mulberry, everyone is a speck of dust in the years, and they are all spots of light in the years.
is like a lyric in "The Thief of Time": "Time is a journey that never returns, and the good and bad are the scenery." "In the unpredictable life, time is the biggest thief, it quietly steals the youth of many people.
When a man reaches middle age, there is only one kind of woman who is truly indispensable, and that is the woman who is endlessly tolerant of you. A woman who endlessly tolerates all your shortcomings is the one who loves you to tolerate, and when she sees the word simple, what is covered behind this is something that others can't understand. Remember, tolerance can solve everyone's contradictions, and can make your love, when faced with a crack, return to the original point again.
Naturally, tolerance is also a kind of love, and this kind of love usually has to be wronged and endowed with the eyes of the world. However, it is because of the people who love you and tolerate themselves that they forgive you again and again. People have certain advantages, and there are disadvantages in the original; People have a certain amount of work, but they are clumsy.
Everyone has certain shortcomings, "the moon is cloudy and sunny, and people have joys and sorrows." It is this shortcoming that makes us enjoy life more and more aware of what human resources around us really love you. What's more, a gentleman doesn't say anything about his shortcomings, he asks if he doesn't know, and he learns if he can't.
To deal with shortcomings, humbly ask the gentleman for advice, do not say his shortcomings, ask if he does not know, and learn if he can't.
It's not scary to have shortcomings, but it's not scary to know but to avoid and not know how to correct them, and over time, gradually the shortcomings become habitual, so it's like a cinnabar mole, it's hard to fall off on your face. There are most men who have higher self-esteem the older they get. In his eyes, it would be a shame to ask someone for advice.
Actually, no, no matter what you do or what you say, you need to ask if you don't know it, you need to learn if it's not easy, and you don't have to be afraid to open your mouth. Even if people understand in this life, no matter what kind of items, as long as you meet don't be afraid to humbly ask for advice, the more you learn, the more you get, and don't worry about the woman you love, after looking at your shortcomings will leave, shortcomings are like filters, only the first endless inclusion of all your shortcomings of the woman is a love for you, in order to stay in the end.
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When a man reaches middle age, the only woman she really can't do without is the woman she cares about very much, this kind of woman is sensual and gentle, takes care of her family, and can become a man's partner.
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They can't do without a woman who is gentle and generous, empathetic, can plan life, and can give each other psychological comfort, such a woman can make them feel very comfortable.
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I think what they really can't live without is a woman who can tolerate all their shortcomings and have enough patience and trust in them.
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When it comes to middle age, if you want to say that there are three kinds of feelings that women can't touch, I think one is a married woman, the second is an online lover, and the third is a college classmate.
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When a woman reaches middle age, she is most likely to have an affair with these three types of men.
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After women reach middle age, due to age, their hearts are very different from before, they will become more calculating, or they will not care about some of their behavior, so they will have grudges with some men with small bellies or men who can't let them.
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Men who can bring more down-to-earth or can have a sense of security, if women contact them, they will be easy to have feelings after a long time, and then those men who are more reasonable and know how to care about themselves, if women meet them, they will also be easy to have feelings, because such people are more empathetic.
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The first type of man is a hospital where two people are easy to have feelings for, and they are very good and handsome, and they are very successful in their careers, and they are easy to have emotional grievances with such men.
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If you don't go home, you can't live well, etc. Generally, after middle age, it is a refusal to live a lifestyle of not going home, and it is also an attitude of refusing to live a good life. So these emotional worlds reject these bad habits.
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Male colleagues often take the initiative to help her solve problems at work, and women will be relieved, and over time, they will also fall in love with gratitude. Be sure to stay away from this feeling.
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Stay away from that kind of immoral feelings, because the relationship between men and women is very normal, but if you violate public order and good customs, it is not allowed.
Different women have their own different charms, but also have their own different pursuits and hobbies, for middle-aged women, this age is the most attractive state of women, she is not only dazzling and charming, at any time will understand what they want to get, or what they don't want, they will also put their feelings, rise to a higher value, for the men they love, they can not be rich, but they must be their own only one in the world, let's talk about it, women are middle-aged, Usually there are 3 types of male love that are deeply rooted. >>>More
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