I want to cherish this relationship! Cherish this relationship in front of you!

Updated on psychology 2024-06-13
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can see that you love him very much, and he cares about you. In love, girls are willful, and it is normal to want to have each other's infinite love, but don't get to the point where the other party feels tired, you are now in a critical period, his family does not accept you, but at least he still believes in you, so you must change yourself, don't take the harm to boys as a manifestation of love, don't be selfish and just want to be loved and forget to give, since you want to cherish him so much, learn to care about him, I feel that you should be a girl who doesn't know how to care about others, Because I used to be like this, I always asked my boyfriend to do this and that, but think about how good I am? What you have to do now is to change your temperament, be more concerned and considerate of him, and don't be angry about some trivial things, maybe he can stand you for a year or two, and he can stand it for a lifetime?

    Whether it's a boy or a girl, who doesn't want a little more warmth and care, you now give his family the feeling that it's noisy all day long, as a parent, who wants to see their son so tired? Right? If you give his family the feeling that they are very good to his son, care about him, and can take care of him, they will be relieved to hand over their son to you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    That, now there are two choices in front of you, the first is to divide it, now the imbalance between men and women is a treasure, why bother with him not to marry, maybe this is a bit irresponsible and does not understand the situation, but it is indeed your choice; And the other one, that is, as you agreed with him, we have all seen Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, people have such a psychology in their hearts, the more people want to do what they oppose, especially in this relationship, if both parents oppose it, then the children will love more firmly, as a bystander, I can give you a reminder that's all, I think you have to do it yourself, I hope your decision will not make you regret it in the future.

    Wishing you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you are tired, it is not good to be together first, it is best to leave for a period of time, if he is still concerned about you and pursues you, you will be with him, you should not play a child's temper in front of your parents, it is good to pretend, if he likes your character, you will recover in front of him. However, loving someone is all-encompassing. It's better to be friends and find someone who tolerates you, if you can't tolerate your personality, I don't think he really loves you in his heart.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's all in this field, you should cherish this feeling, you have to try to change yourself, you can't let their family treat you like a child.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Why be so tired, people who love each other may not get along well, if you are so tired at the beginning, it is really hard to imagine the attitude of their family towards you after that... As long as you feel that you are willing to change for him, it is okay, the current society is becoming more and more selfish and living by yourself, don't think so much, just be together if you are suitable, and live happily by yourself, not to mention that you are still young and not so eager to get married.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe it's the hardest time to hold on, but if you hold on now, cross over. It will be successful, you must persevere!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The meaning of this sentence is to miss the things of the past, which was very far away, and the mountains and rivers are far away, which refers to the aftertaste of things a long time ago.

    The deeper meaning: it means that he once secretly liked you. And that simple beauty has always been remembered in my heart, and I have never forgotten it.

    He didn't confess. But he didn't regret it. Keeping you in your heart is the happiest thing in his life.

    No matter how far he goes, he will cherish this beautiful relationship. Never forget.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This was normal, my girlfriend and I were like that at the time, we talked like this for a whole year, and then I gave up my job and went to her city, but we didn't solve the problem at all, but it expanded. When work is tiring, two people are even more tired together. More annoying things.

    But we're still together. Because habit is reluctant. Maybe life is like this, just get used to it.

    So don't worry too much about these things and shift your focus! Personal insights. Thank you!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Judging from the things you described, your boyfriend still loves you. In everyone's eyes, long-distance relationships have not been favored and concerned by everyone, most of the long-distance relationships will come to an end, but it is not excluded that some long-distance relationships are still successful, in fact, love is a thing, and the long-distance is not different, it really has no relationship, if your love is worthy of the postgraduate examination, if your love is worth it, I think although "long-distance" brings you a lot of inconvenience and lovesickness, but if he loves you, you love him so much, No matter how many years you are in a different place, you will come together. Often in today's society, love is so fragile, is so untested, in love someone gives up halfway, some people leave silently, these are what we don't want, and the last thing we want to see, so it is difficult to get a sincere love, but don't be discouraged, even if even 99 out of 100 people do not stick to the end, then there is 1 person who can persist to the end, then it means that someone can still get true love, someone can still have true love, What are you afraid of in a long-distance relationship, even if your daily call is like a task, you have to persevere, because love is dull, no matter how vigorous it is, it will eventually come to a dull one, understand?

    Don't be afraid, stick to what you insist on, don't give up what you shouldn't give up, I believe you don't want to be in a long-distance relationship with your boyfriend, so you can consider your sacrifice or your boyfriend's sacrifice now, it's better for two people to be in the same city, hehe, okay, don't be unhappy, God is like this, there will be many, many problems to test you, will make you go through many, many difficulties for you to experience, in the end, we should remember this process, I wish you all the best in love, everything goes well

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't you think it's a pity to give up It's very reluctant to procrastinate and feel that it's not what you want I persuade you to change it It may take some time But this is really not good After a long time, not only will you think so, but he will also.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You just cherish your old days, there was a seven-year itch after marriage, as long as these seven years have passed, I believe that there are 10 couples who only have 2 divorces. Feelings will be cherished in the eyes of everyone, so why are there so many couples breaking up? Feelings can be cherished and recalled, I believe that every couple will have a waste when they are together, sweet, touched, that feeling of longing for a lifetime.

    But in the end, it becomes a memory. I can say to you that your feelings are only in the past, and the topics you talked about above are gone, only two or three minutes a day, and I don't know how many seconds there are in two or three minutes without speaking. If you marry him and still love him, you will find a topic to talk about, even if there is no topic to talk about, let me do the same to the person I love, because I love him, I want to hear his voice.

    Can you recall that everyone doesn't want to hang **, and now everyone wants to hang **. You can just tell him that if we go on like this, let's make this relationship a memory. After some days, there are regrets that they are together, and they often lose love like this.

    At that time, you will have a lot of topics, if you really break up, maybe you will all put it down, think about it!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's like you're the guy you call you. This problem of yours is also the problem I face, Every day I hit ** is a person talking, and I have nothing to talk about, and the girl also says that there are fewer and fewer topics with you. This kind of love is the most tiring.

    It's not a task for that guy to call you every day. It's that he's used to it. In fact, many times it is really inappropriate, and you should let it go.

    It's good for both of you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Simple, that is, you are in one place, or just get married, but there is no one in this world who can't live without anyone, and marriage is not necessarily insurance! It can only be said that people's feelings are complicated, not in words can be summed up, you are very dangerous now, if you really don't want to break up, then one party must be sacrificed, and two people stay in the same place.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You mean to break up, your boyfriend seems to be very good to you, cherish it!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When you question the relationship between you, first ask yourself what is the reason why you are still with him in your current state of mind, and why you are still in this relationship. I believe that a person can like multiple people at the same time, and for each of them is true love, I also believe that a person only loves one person for a lifetime, only loyal to a relationship, I also believe that no matter how true, no matter how deep the love, it will also deteriorate in an instant, whether out of helplessness, or really faded, tired. In fact, there is no one right or wrong in these things, because our hearts are like this, even if we don't know it, but our hearts don't lie to us.

    Don't force yourself or others, and don't force yourself or others to maintain something that has long been distorted and has long since ceased to exist. Be responsible for yourself and others, and have a good communication with your heart. Be in it, have fun, get out of it, and have no complaints.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I can understand, because my boyfriend and I have been in this situation for a long time before, in fact, the length of the call does not mean anything, we should all understand each other, maybe he was very tired that day, not much to say, your boyfriend can insist on playing with you every day for fear that you will be angry, indicating that he cares about your feelings, so cherish it, don't let the atmosphere freeze when you two don't talk much, you can make jokes casually, and talk about the mood.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Some people say that distance produces a little three, hehe... In fact, your situation depends on whether you are willing to talk about this long-distance relationship, if you are willing to go to work together in the past, and understand a person is not ** to understand that you have to talk face-to-face to really understand this person. If you don't feel this long-distance relationship, don't give up and regain your own blue sky...

    Don't do things that hurt yourself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think you need to know that you still have feelings? I can't be afraid that you will be angry every day as a task, I also had such an experience before, I have to play a ** every day, but I don't know what to say, just ask and hang up, this is a habit, he can get used to having you or get used to having others, so if you really love each other, just go back to a place!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Love needs to be managed, since two people choose to be together, they should learn to be more considerate of each other, understand and tolerate each other, and work hard towards a common goal. Only such feelings will last.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you are relatively speechless in the face of **, but you are still reluctant to hang up**, and you feel happy in the face of ** quietly, it means that your relationship is very good. It's been a long time, and it's normal to have no topic.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, you don't have to care too much, if you are sincere with each other, the time distance is not a problem, look at it lightly, you won't think too much, don't spend all your time thinking about him, you should leave time to do what you want to do and what you should do, okay?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    My teacher said that a long-distance relationship is the most important test of the emotional solidity of two people. I'm sure you know what I mean.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think it's because your mood has changed I have insisted on it for three years, and I didn't even have a **, just buckled, and in the end, I didn't feel that there was no topic, but there were a lot of misunderstandings.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    His persistence can still prove that he loves you, if it is too long, the two parties choose to meet once It still has a good effect, but the most important thing is that you have to trust him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Then tell him frankly, you don't have to play ** every day, and you waste ** money, and distance produces beauty.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Life is like a picturesque chess like a dream, walking on this fantastic road of life, we will meet people or things that let us reminisce for a long time, cherish these people or things, and let people live without failure.

    The most precious of them is feelings, and people without feelings are like a scarecrow, sluggish and wooden; Life without emotion is like a pool of stagnant water, muddy and mediocre. Family, friendship, love, and charity are like a beacon in the night, guiding the way ahead.

    Cherish family affection, "the line in the hands of a loving mother, the shirt of a wandering son", our parents led us to this wonderful world, they gave us life, and they are the dearest and most beloved people. When you see the wrinkles in the corners of your mother's eyes, do you notice the traces left to her by the merciless carving knife of time? When you peep into the gray hair on your father's head, do you have an urge to cry? gave birth to children and daughters, and when the children grew up, they slowly grew old and did not leave any regrets.

    Cherish family affection, often go home to see, accompany your parents more, and fulfill your filial piety as soon as possible. At the same time, we ourselves have to live a wonderful life, because their greatest joy is to see us happy!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    1. According to your description, I don't think the two of you are very suitable;

    2. You are outgoing and confident, but he is introverted and lacks self-confidence, which is a problem;

    3. A woman's mate selection criteria are generally inclined to a man who can hold himself, and he will definitely not be able to hold you at present;

    4. Even if he can work towards the standard you want, his nature is easy to change, and many inertia will still dominate his thinking and behavior;

    5, maybe he can change it for a while, but he can't change it for you, you two have almost no future;

    6. Even if you don't choose him, it's not because he's bad, it's just that he's not suitable;

    7. People often say: Men should enter the right industry, women should marry the right man, and they would rather choose the right one than the one they want;

    8. Whether my judgment is right or not, you can verify it in your future work;

    I wish you all the best and meet him as soon as possible!

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